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Obstacles In Edith Wharton's Ethan Frome

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Throughout your life and possibly school there has been difficult obstacles you have to get through in order to be a better person, but “dealing with obstacles is a crucial part of being successful in life” (“The Psychological Response to Obstacles.”). Although not only are there obstacles in school but also in love stories. This is the kind of love Edith Wharton chose to write about in her book "Ethan Frome." Where the characters, Ethan Frome and Mattie Silver, experienced love but were forbidden to have due the fact that they were each other’s in-law. The love between Ethan and Mattie creates the struggle to overcome obstacles. Those obstacles represent small symbols that stood between them, the small symbols that represented his wife, Zenobia Frome and forbidden them to do anything of higher power other than kissing. The story also teaches readers that "whatever your goal is there are obstacles in the …show more content…

Not only the fact of him being afraid to confess his love but also the small actions that Mattie would have also made him think otherwise, it was the way she would talk and the tone of her voice. The small actions she would have towards him would make him wonder if she loved him back. "The fact that he had no right to show his feelings, and thus provoke the expression of hers, made him attach a fantastic importance to every change in her look and tone" (Wharton) This is what stopped Ethan from demonstrating his love to Mattie. "Perhaps you don't really experience thoughts when faced with an obstacle. Maybe you immediately experience fear or shame... Shame urges you to hide" (Wharton). The actions Mattie had and Ethan's "thoughts could persuade you to stop pursuing your goal" ("Overcoming Obstacles"), is the kind mindset Ethan had in demonstrating his

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