I Accept
Parents are the embodiment of child development and identity. They are the background of their progeny, a reality some may find difficult to accept. I was once amongst those individuals, struggling to accept the different clothes and cultural differences which set me apart from the rest of the class. My mother’s silk headscarves, flower-shaped nose piercing, and tan skin was enough to capture my classmates’ attention without any effort to hide their discrimination. As heads turned and whispers spread, no one bothered to recognize the maternal love she held as she surprised me with pizza during lunches and watched over me on my adventurous field trips.
I was delighted to see her each time, until one day a girl asked me a question I had not pondered before. “Your mom has a nose piercing?” she asked, with a look of judgment rather than curiosity. As I nodded, a new world of differences opened up. Was it weird to have a nose piercing? Did my classmates think my mother was unlike than their own? I sat mute as my peers continued on with their conversations. My perspective on myself compared to them was permanently altered. Not only did I feel
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Serious and subtly annoyed, she asked me, “Do other people not have nose piercings?” Although a simple question, a multitude of meanings lay behind it. She was not looking for a confirmation or denial, but asked as an eye-opener to all ethnic differences I may have been discomfited by. Evoked, I opened my eyes past the previous perspective to a fuller reality consisting of people of all races, nationalities, and traditions. I recognized that she was right, individuals around the world also practiced a unique culture, albeit few are free of discrimination. She was a beautiful warrior walking, unscathed, past the spears of prejudice to bring her daughter the joy and love only a mother can
When I was sixteen years old, I had my first child. The experience was a long process of ups and downs. There were many lessons to be learned. Strength, motivation, courage and determination were my goals to getting through the obstacle of having my daughter at sixteen. The feeling of being pregnant and sixteen was horrible. How I got through it is the start of this story.
When I was thirteen years old, I gave myself a shot. I was never good with medical things as a child, like never wanting to take medicine and absolutely hating needles. Many children, and even adults, hate needles but they just have to suck it up and deal with it. That was what I did for most of my life, until I had a very bad ingrown toenail. My mother made an appointment with a podiatrist and off we went. I had no idea what to expect, and figured they could just remove it with not too much difficulty. However, the doctor informed me that removing it would be extremely painful and that my foot had to be numbed before he could do the procedure. Naturally, I freaked out, especially when he pulled out the needle. In my mind, the needle was a
I chose to sit silent in my balcony and observe the world around me. The very first sound I heard was the joyful chirping of the birds, which almost sounded like a smooth and connected melody of an orchestra, with birds taking turns and following a certain beat to their chirping. This was followed by the harsh mechanical noises of the vehicles that surround us, ranging from engine whine, raspy exhaust notes and hissing sounds of buses stopping by. What proved to be just a nuisance at first to the sounds of nature that I was expecting, turned out to be a nostalgic experience for me. Those sounds reminded me of my childhood, waiting downstairs for the bus to arrive and take me to school. Moreover, the vehicles whizzing past me with a diminuendo dynamic to their sound that faded away slowly acted as a reality check for me, reminding me that my days as a worriless child have long gone.
Hailey G. is a five-year-old girl. She is the second of three girls; her older sister is 13 and her younger sister is 3. She is half-Dominican and half Colombian. Her mother is from Colombia and her father is from the Dominican Republic. She has traveled to Colombia two times and went to the Dominican Republic for the first time in December 2016. When she learned she was going to D.R. she was very excited. She said that she had never been there and was so happy to go visit Abuelita. I reminded her that I used to live in D.R. before I moved here to the United States. When she came back from vacation, she brought my assistant, and I a souvenir. I really love the souvenir and it reminded me when I lived back home. Her paternal grandmother comes
My 1st child, I really could have used a Doula.. My husband was deployed in Afghanistan, I was 19 and trusted the doctors way too much... then.. I had never heard of a Doula. Had I known or had one, maybe the unnecessary c-section would have been prevented. My 2nd child, my first unmedicated VBAC, I had chatted with a few doulas however we couldn't afford them and they lived hours from us... I think had I had a Doula with me, my 1st VBAC would've went dreamful... The on-call doctor forced pitocin on me to "hurry me up" even though I was progressing on my own.. she would not let me out of bed and I had horrible back labor. When I needed to push I did, and the nurse shrieked at me to stop and wait for the doctor, but i didn't, i pushed. I was
As adolescents, our brains are just starting to develop to help our bodies and our personalities mature. Hormonal changes in boys and girls include adrenarche, gonadarche, and menarche (King 2002). Adrenarche usually begins when a child is between the ages of 6 and 8 and controls skeletal growth, skin changes, and hair growth. Gonadarche contributes to the growth of genitals and breasts and menarche refers to the beginning of girl’s menses. Menarche comes later in the advanced stages. Although these phases of development happen outside of the brain, they are the first change that an adolescent goes through and the increase in hormones can cause mood swings and different ways of thinking.
Sarah I also had something of an attitude problem when I was an adolescent. For me, my behavior was never a problem at school, but when I was at home my attitude was a bit of a problem. Much like you, I was pretty quiet and kept to myself. There was a time at this age where I was pretty open with my emotions and thoughts, but I was constantly being written off as being a hormonal teenage girl. So, eventually I just stopped talking about my feelings because no one took them seriously, and this resulted in those emotions being bottled up and me lashing out at my family. As far as what we will learn in this course, I am also very interested in how adolescents develop their
There are many subcultures that I consider myself a member of. Everything from Hip Hop culture, to regional, sports, and theater culture. However, there is one area that consists of countless members all over the world who share common phobias, beliefs, behaviors, and attitudes. That subculture is the world of parenting. When I became a parent my views on many things changed. Things like; television programming, to finances and time management. Someone speeding in my neighborhood did not have the same effect on me as it does now that I am a parent. Moreover, the mindset of a parent is one that is rarely understood by non-parents. For instance, when my son was born I felt a sense of overwhelming fear and an undying need to provide protection
It was December 27th 1997, as the mother looked into her handsome baby’s eyes. A tear ran down her face as she realizes this is the first and last time she sees the baby’s face, the last time she will be able to strokes her baby boys face, the last time she gets to see those eyes open. As she realizes that she won’t be able to watch him take his first steps and hear him say his first words, dress him for his first day of school, never see him grow up into a powerful young man just like his father.
Ok so I was randomly stalking a page on musical.ly *Justin* but I was was going through the comments and there was a comment that was something among these lines "Wait so are you a girl or boy?" And I was like I don't know your just on a page on musical.ly and the person you clicked on has a name and the name is Justin. Does that sound like a girl name to you? I didn't think so. And then there was a commen that said "Me too...on his bio IT said IT was transgender". Like 1st off you don't call someone "it" everyone has name so use their name. And all the people that ask for his birth name his name is Justin it has always been and always will be.(unless he changes it). And Like nobody told you to come and hate on people. If you wanna hate so
My parents taught me and my brothers their family traditions with love and pride. My brothers and I grew up proud of our background; proud of where our parents came from. Although we grew up only speaking English, our background still made us unique and as little children, it was wonderful to feel one of a kind. However, as we grew up, I think the feeling of uniqueness changed to just feeling different from others. Somewhere along the line, it started to feel harder to identify with our background. Even as little kids, the difference in the physical appearance between myself and my brothers was obvious. I took after my mother, sharing her warm, brown eyes and dark, curly hair. My brothers, on the other hand, took completely after my father with their blue eyes and blonde hair. It became increasingly apparent that I was always grouped with my mother. My mother is a proud, Colombian woman and so by default I became her proud, Colombian daughter. My brothers on the other hand, were my father’s little Danish vikings. They would grow to be tall, blonde warriors. Despite our obvious physical appearances, it never occurred to me that we would identify different until I started getting ready to apply to
I have always felt the need to connect with children, even when I was just a child myself. I remember the first time I looked into a baby’s eyes and saw all of the possibilities in his life ahead of him. From then on I was curious about how kids’ minds developed and how they grew into adults. I wanted to be around their innocence and sweet little personalities. It came so easy to me, bonding and caring for these kids. I never truly understood why I felt so drawn to children until I met Kumar.
Recently they moved to a town named Harahan. she overheard her parents talking and heard her parents talking about Meredith’s dads new job. So she went to sleep and was thinking about what she heard and thought that maybe we will stay here for a while. She went to school and she was wearing black shoes, green collar shirt, with a skirt. Meredith walked into class and she was shy people started to call her names and laugh at her. Meredith walked home and told her parents that she didn’t like the school. She wants to go back to her old school with her friends. Her parents said but we can’t so she went back to school and she told the teacher that the kids were picking
“Whether your pregnancy was meticulously planned, medically coaxed, or happened by surprise, one thing is certain-your life will never be the same”(Catherine Jones). Multiple women have experienced the wonders of pregnancy, for some the labor process may have been the worst time of their lives, and for others it may have been all smiles and rainbows. Both way after the long hours and constant pain a child is born and the parent’s lives are changed forever. In this article I will focus on the birth of my younger brother for which I was present. I chose to focus on my younger brother Junior Frederick because three months before my birth my mother had just arrived form Saint Marcs, Haiti. She did not understand much of America and when I questioned
I've "known" I was transgender a lot of my life but at the same time I didn't know until I was 14. I grew up in a house with at least eleven people. Sometimes we would have up to fifteen people living in that house and of those eleven to fifteen people, seven of them were children. Four of them were my cousins, three of which were boys, and the other three were my sisters and I. I remember as far back as the age of seven asking myself,"well what if I was a boy?". Unfortunately I wasn't allowed to explore that option until much later because my dad is a very conservative man and so is his family; which is who we lived with at the time. For years I kept trying to make myself more feminine and feigned excitement when I had my first period shortly after I turned eleven, when in reality I was absolutely disgusted. I continued with my life for a year before telling my mom that I think I might be transgender.