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Personal Narrative: Child Development And Identity

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Parents are the embodiment of child development and identity. They are the background of their progeny, a reality some may find difficult to accept. I was once amongst those individuals, struggling to accept the different clothes and cultural differences which set me apart from the rest of the class. My mother’s silk headscarves, flower-shaped nose piercing, and tan skin was enough to capture my classmates’ attention without any effort to hide their discrimination. As heads turned and whispers spread, no one bothered to recognize the maternal love she held as she surprised me with pizza during lunches and watched over me on my adventurous field trips.
I was delighted to see her each time, until one day a girl asked me a question I had not pondered before. “Your mom has a nose piercing?” she asked, with a look of judgment rather than curiosity. As I nodded, a new world of differences opened up. Was it weird to have a nose piercing? Did my classmates think my mother was unlike than their own? I sat mute as my peers continued on with their conversations. My perspective on myself compared to them was permanently altered. Not only did I feel …show more content…

Serious and subtly annoyed, she asked me, “Do other people not have nose piercings?” Although a simple question, a multitude of meanings lay behind it. She was not looking for a confirmation or denial, but asked as an eye-opener to all ethnic differences I may have been discomfited by. Evoked, I opened my eyes past the previous perspective to a fuller reality consisting of people of all races, nationalities, and traditions. I recognized that she was right, individuals around the world also practiced a unique culture, albeit few are free of discrimination. She was a beautiful warrior walking, unscathed, past the spears of prejudice to bring her daughter the joy and love only a mother can

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