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Personal Narrative: Death Of A Loved One

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The death of a loved one is one of the most challenging events I have had to overcome. The summer of 2014, I was just going into my junior year, was one for the books. It was an absolutely amazing summer. My sister had her first baby in May and we were getting to make his first summer his best, but little did we know it would also be his last. We lost him at the end of July. It was one of the hardest things to cope with. So many unanswered questions still to this day stand. The morning of July twentieth we received a call, I remembered I had a very bad feeling about my nephew the night before but I decided to just sleep it off. When I heard my older sister on the other end bawling my heart had just completely drowned down into my stomach. …show more content…

I did not want to attend church, I did not want to have family time, and all I wanted to do is be with my friends. It does not seem like a bad thing, but I chose the wrong friends to turn to. They were the friends that made it seem okay to drink, to push your feelings away and to feel absolutely nothing. For a couple of months this is what I thought would help me heal, and I was wrong. I had become a whole new person I became a person my friends seemed to like more than who I had been because I was actually wanting to have fun. It was this way until the end of November. In November I let someone into my life and they became my new best friend. It was so easy to trust them. I opened up and told them about the choices I made and the way I have changed. I despised the person I had become, but my friend helped me out of it. It took about three months to become the person I had once been. It all started with making new friends and going to church and actually listening. Once this made me feel like the girl I had once been, I slowly drifted away from the group who only wanted me around because I wanted to have fun. It amuses me because these ‘friends’ did not care that I was out of their lives. Once I surrounded myself with people who truly cared about me and encouraged me to be a better person I began to finally feel again. I got to feel angry, sad, happy, and joyful again, and nothing made me feel better about

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