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Personal Narrative Essay

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Over the years, I have grown up to a point in my life where I am almost considered, officially, an adult. Reaching this milestone in my life has given me sense of pride and also gives me more of a responsibility role progressing on, into, my future. In my past, I’ve been through many experiences that have changed my personality; some for better, others for worse. I like to think that all of my past events changed me for the better to help myself picture that being who I am is the best I can be. These changes that happened to me all result from one or multiple types of specific events that influenced me in some type of way. These events, the ones making impact on me, are typically some type of dilemma or overwhelming event that I carry significance …show more content…

For example, being 18 is being considered an adult so I am trying to say that time is restricting me. I know I’m capable of being independent because I am but what frustrates me the most is that I have to be dependent now in order to get through high school and college so then I can truly be independent. There is a part in our textbook that I feel is wrong in my circumstance, the section says, “Adolescents who retain close ties with parents also tend to fare better in school.” To me, my parents and I are distant but yet I have and still maintaining a 3.9 GPA throughout high school. (Rathus, S. 2010) So distant that I have come to the point where I can hardly recount moments of attachment with my parents. (Rathus, S. 2010) An experience that has happened recently, that has influenced me even more was when my parents wanted me to go along with them to a UNI Women’s Basketball and spend my whole Sunday out with them. I didn’t want to go and they got angry at me because I wasn’t agreeing with them. They know I’m independent from them and they realize that I need my space. The thing that bothers me and frustrates me, however, is that they think that they’re the ones that are giving me the choice to be independent and that they are giving me decisions to make. The reason this bothers me because they think they can take it away from me like it’s a gift that they gave me, but it’s actually who I am. For example, they think they can make my decisions for me just because they want me to do something. They don’t realize that they’re not the ones giving me options and when they try to change that it upsets me. It might be hard to comprehend unless you’re in my shoes, but it can be simplified with a sports reference, you can take the player from the game, but you can’t take the game from

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