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Personal Narrative: My Mom Changed My Life

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At the age of sixteen I became a mother. Not literally but I had to take responsibility for my six year old brother as if he was my own son. Our own mother was diagnosed with Schizophrenia, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and Bipolar Disorder . We did not have a mother , she refused to seek help and the place we called our home became unbearable. She was careless , distant, she was would keep us up with her yelling and made up fights. She would threaten us and leave for as up to a week at once . I was the head of the household. I cooked , cleaned , helped my brother with homework, took him to practice and made sure my mother’s image was not ruined in his innocent mind like she had ruined it in mine . I became subject to her emotional verbal and once physical abuse. She targeted me more than anyone once she noticed that her son favored me more than her. All this while being in my first …show more content…

I wanted to give him an example of a success ,one i never had in my family. My hunger for knowledge and ambition to succeed kept me sane. I found out who I could truly count on. The only people that showed support were my grandparent who were across the border, but even with the barrier they gave me strength. “ Andale mija echale ganas.” (Come on sweetie put more effort) They told me whenever I doubted myself. Alone in this country with no place to call my home and no family support, I made the best out of my friendships and IB experience . Since band was so time consuming, I was forced to quit in order to care for my brother. I used the everlasting amount of rigorous work IB assigned to distract me from my life. This allowed me to focus on school more than ever. I replaced the friends I had to goal oriented people who I knew would motivate me. I knew the only way to get away from my problems at home was through my education. I kept my goals in mind and my motivation

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