Where should I even begin? I wish I could pin-point exactly when the chaos began Unfortunately, I cannot. I am a first generation (hopefully) college student. I grew up in a family that consisted of two parents and three older sisters. The good thing I can say is that we are complete, but we aren’t exactly a “whole.” My sister’s and I grew up under a belt held by my father. To this day I can still recall my early days as a child when I witnessed my father abused my mother, my sister, and then eventually me. It was a mix of physical and emotional abuse. An abuse only children are able to bear due to the love they have for their parents. This is how I grew up.
If I have to pin-point exactly when all of this tension began within me I would
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Bills began to pile up once again and eventually stress took over. My father demanded all of the income made in the family in order to pay for the bills.”Where is your salary?!” he would yell outside my bedroom door. Of course, my family gladly gave it to him because we were a family we help each other out. By this time my older sister’s were in their early 20s and I and the sister before me were still little children. I was still young to understand everything, but as I look back I begin to realize we weren’t exactly the happiest …show more content…
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