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Personal Narrative-The Traumatic Events That Changed My Life

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He ran into the house screaming for my mother with tears flowing down his eyes. That was the first time I saw my dad cry. He had no visible injuries, so what was wrong? My mind was so fixated on that question that I didn’t even notice my parents leaving until my mom shouted, “I’m taking your dad to the hospital!” Then the door closed. I was alone, in the middle of the night unable to fathom what could’ve possibly happened to send him to the ER. Hours passed without me receiving a call, eventually I fell asleep with tears falling on my pillow, hearing the sounds of my brothers unwittingly sleeping in the next room. It was 3AM when I groggily woke up to the sound of my phone ringing, it was my mom. “Lyric, your father had a stroke.” In that …show more content…

My dad changed, it felt like someone took him and tried putting someone new into his shoes. He became more irritable, frustrated quicker, and bitter. Just like my dad’s change, I started changing too. I became emotionally detached from my friends but at the same time found myself blinking away tears when someone mentioned their dad. Interests and dreams that I use to have no longer became important to me, life seemed irrelevant. I knew that with a traumatic event like this, that I needed to allow myself time to heal. With time I got to reflect about life and learn things on my own. Like in moments of weakness, you can discover strengths. For me that was music. I learned how to take all the numerous emotions I felt and poured them out on the violin. Nowadays I still do this and it helps me release stress while improving as a better musician. I learned the importance of not taking life for granted because nobody is promised tomorrow. Life is unexpected and you never know when your time will run out or when it will suddenly change. Making my life worthwhile is now one of my mantras, I always push myself out of my comfort zones like going to haunted house, down tall roller coasters, or trying out for competitions that I’m under qualified for. I now never underestimate the power of a hug. Many times after my dad's stroke I found it hard to talk to him because he was in pain so I would give

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