Positive Psychology Reveals We Should Pursue Happiness for Money, Not Money for Happiness
By Alison L Price | Submitted On October 10, 2012
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Expert Author Alison L Price
Culture teaches us that "I will be happy when... I live in a bigger house... I can afford to go on more holidays... I have that new car, computer, outfit, etc." Fascinating research from the field of Positive Psychology reveals that what culture is teaching us is actually a myth and, crucially, it is time to change what we tell ourselves and our children.
So, what does society teach us? Here is just a flavour:
"Study hard at school, you need good grades to get a decent job."
"It is worth putting in long hours in your first job to get promoted."
"If you work really hard you will get that pay rise that you deserve."
"You can 't leave earlier than everyone else, it will reflect badly upon you and your bonus."
"You must work hard to save for your retirement."
Whilst I cannot argue with these, what I will do is ask the question "when does society teach us to actually stop and enjoy ourselves?" Probably only at our retirement, but the sad fact is that the governments around the world
Money and Happiness Why most of rich people are not happy with what they have? Happiness is the feeling which people feel it when they are satisfied with what they have even though these people are poor or rich. Money is the way that people use it to bring things which they can buy it by money. Sharon Begley in her article “Why Money Doesn’t Buy Happiness” states that sometimes there are relationship between money and happiness because people always try to spend less money when they want to buy somethings.
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According to the classic sense, a life full of happiness is a life that manifests wisdom, kindness, and goodness. However happiness has been twisted by a secular culture and the classic sense has given away to “pleasurable satisfaction”. Pleasurable satisfaction depends on external circumstances going well. Moreland points out that because of this the modern sense of happiness, “pleasurable satisfaction”, is unstable and varies with life’s circumstances. Pleasurable satisfaction becomes increasingly addictive and enslaving if it becomes the dominant aim of one’s life. By contrast, classical happiness brings freedom and power to life as one ought, as one increasingly becomes a unified person who lives for a cause bigger than one’s self. Western culture has been disillusioned into seeking happiness as their main priority in life. Although, happiness is important, when its importance becomes exaggerated, it leads to a loss of purpose in life, and even depression. What Western cultures need to realize is that true happiness can never be achieved. Over the past 50 years, levels of health, wealth, and liberties have increased, but levels of happiness haven’t.
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have, the happier they will be, but is this necessarily true? Can a 2 by 6 inch bill really be all it
In the article Does Money Buy Happiness? author Robert Easterlin discusses happiness, and what contributes and detracts from it. He also addresses the socio-economic paradigms that are of great influence to happiness, and of course, the correlation between happiness and the income of individuals and the correlation between happiness and the income of an entire country. Easterlin takes data from various sources to support the claims in his article.
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“People who try to buy their way to happiness are often disappointed.” The reason for this is because you can’t buy happiness it comes from your family, the people around you and your physical surroundings. Some people try to buy themselves happiness and at some point in time they may be happy but it eventually does backfire on them because in the end no matter what money can’t buy you happiness.
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