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Single Parenting

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Single Parenting-Advantages and Disadvantages

Samuella A. G. Brewah

SUNY College at Old Westbury

Abstract Being a single parent is an overwhelming task, nevertheless it yields greater benefits; with persistence and dedication. A strong bond is developed between the parent and the child/ children. It is a desire and heartbeat of everyone I to have a traditional family; wherein both the mother and father are fully involved in the lives of their children. In this all different roles and various levels of responsibilities are equally proportioned. There are times when as a single parent you encounter difficult moments; when performing tasks which should be handled by both parents especially those pertaining to gender. This research …show more content…

A further research with emphasis on psychology in understanding the effecting on single parent has shown that there has been an increase in the percentage of children born outside marriage (41%) compared to thirty years ago (17%). According to Dr. Keith Ablow of Fox News, he thought “the number is on the increase and does not seem to be changing for the better for many reasons including the fact that attention has not been paid much on the need for independence forgetting sexual fulfillment leading to the sporadic increase of divorce rate and marriage neglect. Dr. Keith cited that most often the children are left with the mother with little attention or support from the father. This has coursed depression and behavior disturbance in many homes. “Children are left with unresolved and unanswered questions which they could not receive answers to when raised by a single parent or even during shared parenting between the divorced parents.(Albow, 2012). This is something that I can attest to as a divorced parent raising a son, he is always asking why his father left, I tried to prevent him from having a distorted mind but rather focus on what will make him a better person in the future. I don’t think this is the age for me to explain what happened between me and this father and it troubles me sometimes. Children often

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