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Summary: The Color Of Water By Ruth Mcbride

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Some people think that once you have set morals and values for yourself, you have to stick with them for your whole life. There are going to be experiences in a person’s life that will go against their beliefs, and it’s up to that person to decide if they are going to change. Ruth McBride, mother of James McBride, author of our book, The Color of Water, has shown us through her struggles in growing up, having children, and losing ones, that adapting while still keeping your main beliefs is a good thing. When Ruth was growing up, she was given twisted views on what family was supposed to be like, but she still stayed loyal to her family. Ruth talks about her high school graduation, “ I told her, “Frances, I’m not sure I can go into that church.” She said, “ I understand, Ruth. I’ll graduate by myself, then, because I don’t want to graduate next to anyone but you.” Well, I felt like I couldn’t let that happen, so I said, “ I can go it, let’s go.” We took a picture in our caps and gowns and got in line, double file, and marched together. The line marched out of Suffolk High’s schoolyard and onto Main Street and …show more content…

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