I lost my virginity
i arrived at college a seventeen year-old virgin who had been drunk only once before. it wasn't a concious decision to change all that, but i definately had no intention of remaining the awkward, hesitant good girl i had been throughout high school. i had resolved to try everything without fear, which was one reason i signed up for a rock climbing orientation trip. it is here that martin enters the picture. he was one of my trip leaders, a twenty three year old senior from california. he was a runner and a republican, and his looks were not unlike those of teen heartthrob scott wolf. i quickly dismissed the idea of his being interested in me. he seemed too hot, too experienced, too suave. i was so young. the rock
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in the spirit of trying new things, i joined the women's rugby football club. the night after my first game, i told myself i was allowed five drinks because i had gotten forty minutes of play time. i downed my five drinks in about as many minutes, and then headed out with the girls to meet the boys' team. on the way out of the dorm, i met up with martin, who greeted me with a 'kiiiiirrrrrrsten!' that echoed throughout the stairs.
everything gets blurry about here. i know that i had another ten drinks before i lost count, and i know i drank them all with martin. i was told that we made something of a spectacle of ourselves dancing at a party, and i remember overhearing some of his friends ask him if he was sure he wanted to hook up with a very drunk freshman. eventually we did get back to his room, and eventually we had sex. i was underwhelmed. i remember him getting on me something like three times before i must have passed out. when i sobered up the next day, i found myself in new york city. it was one in the afternoon and i was there for a field trip to the opera for german class. i had spent the morning drunk, and i spent the afternoon a bit sick and tired. i was sore all over, even though it hadn't hurt at all. to my recollection, it hadn't felt that different than fingers. when i got back to campus, my hallmates were abuzz. they hadn't known i was going to the city, and so had been panicking all day. one of them had called martin's
Martin had always looked to improve himself. He would never sit back and luxuriate in his success. Martin was also the opposite of a materialistic person. Most, if not all of his money was put towards his business expenses. Martin didn’t need a mansion in downtown New York City to be satisfied. Martin would often be content with a suite in one of his hotels.
In conclusion, the college experience has made me a changed person. It has made me a changed person for the better. I have learned a lot, I have learned responsibility. Without responsibility in college you will not make very far. You must get your work done, and be punctual. You must make the right decisions, don’t let peer pressure get to you, try to avoid it. Don’t let college change you for the worst, take advantage of
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I came to college knowing, that so much of what I was over the first eighteen years of my life would be put to the test. Not simply because I was a conservative, in a liberal environment, but because I would be faced with four years, in a place that was in such
I essentially had the drinks," he informs the publication. "I mosted likely to go see a medical professional due to the fact that I seemed like I was dealing with a neurological trouble or something. As well as every medical professional I saw stated, 'You have stress and anxiety.'".
military program. Most of the other Freshman girls were a couple of years older than me and already actively having sex with their boyfriends. I still got butterflies in my stomach anytime a guy touched my thigh through my pants, so needless to say I was pretty embarrassed at being so far behind. I lied and pretended that I wasn't a virgin.
drinking for quite awhile before I showed up. I was just about to make my way to a group of people I knew when
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class. His name was Thomas. I was so obsessed and infatuated, teenage love. We'd spend every second we could together. I had just turned fifteen and he was going on nineteen, a Senior. I knew that my mom would never let me be with him so we lied and told my parents that he was sixteen. He was the first person that I ever willingly made love to. He was (at the time) very gentle and passionate, and I really believed that he loved me. We dated for two years, ditched class to have sex and spend time together weekly.
I drank until I couldn’t see straight because it was a distraction when my mind was floating somewhere above my body. Then I wasn’t able to think about Jason or California or the intern who didn’t exist.
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Teenage pregnancies have been looked down upon in society throughout the years, and when races become a factor, society tends to perceive them in a much more harsh manner. The movie Juno portrays the pregnancy of a teenage white girl and how society treats her. With her choice to continue her pregnancy, and give the child up for adoption, allows Juno to discover the girl that she is. This movie is seen as Juno’s coming of age story, which doesn't necessarily have to mean puberty, this is more of how she transforms into adulthood. Her pregnancy takes her on a journey of self-discovery.