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“The Going” Essay example

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“The Going” by Thomas Hardy begins with the question ‘why’ a question which Hardy is asking as himself about the death of his wife. According to the footnotes this poem is written as eulogy to his first wife Emma, who died in 1912. Her death is sudden to him and he is questioning why he did not see it coming or if he missed any hints she could have given that would have pointed to her impending death. Her passing is described as happening quickly, calmly, and indifferent. Using the words ‘as if’ are key, because that is where he won’t admit that she would leave without telling him and he is protecting himself from having to outright call her indifferent. He doesn’t want to accept that she could be indifferent to her life because that …show more content…

Looking back at the very first line of the poem he wonders why she never gave him a hint that she was capable of flight. He should have realized that from the moment they met he knew in his heart that she was a person capable of leaving him in a manner that he could not follow. He saw her as a swan with enormous wings and saw himself as a bird ‘with wing of swallow’ which is like a bird on the wing, or a bird in flight, however he uses the word ‘wing’ in the singular, which could mean that he views himself as a grounded bird who will never ‘gain one glimpse’ of her again.
In the second stanza he starts to realize that she is really gone and he will never hear from her again. By using the word ‘never’ Hardy is admitting to himself that there is a finality to her going, and he realizes that goodbyes and the chances that saying goodbye represents are lost to him. Once again he is alluding to the past where they actually possessed communication skills. ‘Lip me the softest call’ references birds and birdcalls again, and the word ‘soft’ generally describes something that people want to have close to them. The word use of ‘softest’ indicates how close he wished to be to her. But then in the next line, he almost accuses her of leaving on purpose, or failing to ‘utter a wish for a word’ like she didn’t wish to speak with him. That line goes right back to him believing her to be indifferent. The

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