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Two Kinds By Amy Tan Literary Analysis

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Reconciling Generational Conflict in “Two Kinds” “Two Kinds” by Amy Tan introduces us to the conflict between a first-generation Chinese American immigrant mother and her second generation daughter. Amy Tan is herself a young daughter from Chinese immigrant parents who was born in Oakland, California, who grew up with the pressure of being both Chinese and American all at once. Her mother's American Dream for her was different than what she wanted for herself as a young person. When Tan left the United States to visit China with her mother, she finally understood that “[she] belonged to her family and [her] family belonged to China” (Charters, 589). This is the journey that she takes us through in two kinds with the characters of Jing-Mei …show more content…

At the beginning of the story, Tan introduces us to a mother and daughter who cannot get along. In “Two Kinds,” the mother is placing too much pressure on her daughter to be successful. She holds the unrealistic expectation of hoping her daughter will be a prodigy. From the opening lines of “Two Kinds,” the main character Jing-mei says, “My mother believed you could be anything you wanted to be in America. You could open a restaurant. You could work for the government and get a good retirement. You could buy a house with almost no money down. You could become rich. You could become instantly famous” (Charters, 590). This was the source of Jing-mei’s mother’s insistence toward her daughter’s success. The family in the story emigrated from China to the United States just like Tan's family, where they settled in San Francisco and gave birth to Jing-mei, the main character. The trouble comes in when Jing-mei’s mother seeks to turn her into a success by pushing her to become a child prodigy, someone that you might see on TV, someone famous. Jing-mei, however, does not have an interest in fame or fortune. In the context of her family life and culture, she seeks more than anything simply to be herself – on her own terms – and to be known and respected as such. At one point Jing-mei says, “I won’t let her change me, I promised myself. I won’t be what I am not” …show more content…

She illustrates very clearly how having different cultural experiences within a family can lead family members not to understand each other. For example, the mother wants to control the daughter, who has a different culture, and this is not easy to do; in fact, it may be impossible – and at least, as the book shows, understanding takes time. Also, the mother seems to be having behavior problems because of her way of demanding things of her daughter, which is totally wrong. As a mother, when you tell something to your daughter you should be respectful and polite at same time, in order that your child could listen to you, consider your requests, and even obey you in their way. The way that you treat them, they will treat you back. Some parents may not be used to this depending on how they were raised, but this story shows that such an approach could have been more successful. Toward the end of the story it seems that the mother and daughter developed more respect and understanding for one another – but this took space, time, wisdom, respect, and patience. Outside of her family home, we know that Tan has been able to find success on her own terms as a writer, having been inspired by other “bi-cultural” writers such as Louise Erdrich, and embarking on her journey in literature. After visiting China with her mother,

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