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A Gift from a Son Who Died

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GIFT FROM

A SON WHO DIED

by DORIS HEFIOLD LUND

It s not the way I thought it would be

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thought the sun and the moon would go oui. I thought ioy itself would die when Eric died. He had given so much to all ot us his family. his iriends And yet his death is not the end oi ioy after all lt s sornehow another beginning. . lour' Eric died at twenty-two. aller a ahd-a-half -year struggle with leukemia.r While he left tls with the deep bruises ol grief, he left us sg much more So much to celebratel There's a victory here that I m still lrying io understand Why do l, even in loss, leel stronger? Why does life on lhis untldy, dangerous planet seem more wonderfullY Precious? I am

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' Yet the nexl afternoon when the phone rang and the doctor was saying' "l'd like to talk to you and your husband togelher-" I knew at once. "You don t have to tell me," I said. "l know. Eric has leukamla." I was once in a house struck bY lightning. The sensation' the scene' even the strange electrical smell relurned at that moment A powerful bolt seemed to enie. the top ol my skull as I got the message. . Eric had leukemiaHe'd always been a fine athlete' a competilor, a runner. Now fate had lripped him; he stumbled and fell' Yet how quickly he tried to get up and join the race againl Leli at horno that lall, very ill, with his friends scatlering to schools and iobs, he still was determined to go to college later, study hard. nlake the soccer ieam, eventually make all Arnerican. To these goals he soon added

suppress symptoms and produce periods of remission. They did not know how to cure it. There was hoPe, though' in the fact that Eric had a tYPe ol childhood leukemia that was especially responsive to drug thorapy. {BY now, a lew youngsiers arb actually belng cuaed of it.) But Eric, al seventeen, was beyond the age of most efiective treatment Soon we discovered that his bodY overreacted to many of the best drugs and that the recommended high dosage' needed to destroy diseased cells, tended too quickly to wipe out

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