How would you feel if you was a victim of Acquaintance rape? Acquaintance Rape destroys people’s life. It takes everything from them mentally and sometimes physically. It tears you down even though it’s different for most people.Being aware of Acquaintance Rape is important to women and for men so they know the signs and issues involved.
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Acquaintance rape is not gender related its getting sexual assaulted by an acquaintance. “Acquaintance rape is a misunderstood form of criminal violence. There is a common misconception that acquaintance rape as serious, not as criminal, and not as traumata to the victim as stranger rape”(“Acquaintance”). “Acquaintance rape is a sexual assault by an individual known to the victim.Another term “date rape” is a sexual assault by an individual with whom the victim has a “dating” relationship and the content of this relationship”(“Factsheet”). Gender race or ethics have nothing do do with acquaintance rape. Nothing matters they will still do it. Victims come from all around it could be anybody at any time (“Acquaintance Rape”) . This matters because its explaining what it is and how it has nothing to do with specific details. Acquaintance rape is rape by a
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A friend,relative,parent,co-worker, or spouse anyone you know (“West”). No matter what happened it is not your fault. Weather you say yes or not under the influence it is still rape(Acquaintance rape/rape”).Strangers or not it is still not your fault. They should know better. You should not feel guilty about anything that happened(“West”). Peoples age has nothing to do with it. Saying they looked older is not an excuse(Horzepa). Somebody’s reputation is not an excuse either. Just because they had sex with somebody else does not mean they will have sex with you(Horzepa).Its explaining that your rapist could be anybody you know, or they might have another mindset an even though it happened you should not feel as if it is your
I have never heard of an acquaintance rape, but assumed in beginning this book that it meant being raped by someone that is a part of one’s daily life. As students read this book, I believe it will be a much needed eye opener to the reality and misguided perception
President Roosevelt was correct in calling for national preparedness. The president of the United States had the responsibility to not only protect North America but also our southern neighbors. At this time he was not advocating sending American men to war, he was simply preparing a nation in case a hostile enemy attacked its borders or the borders of other nations within the Western Hemisphere.
Date rape is a forcible sexual intercourse by an acquaintance, where one resists sexual advances either verbally or physically. The perpetrator of this crime varies from boyfriends to casual acquaintances. The Centers for Disease Control reported that eight out of ten rape or sexual-assault cases were carried out by people of these relationship statuses. Sometimes rapists claim they are given given mixed signals, or even misread simple flirtation as a woman’s sexual advance. In any situation, a woman is not
Date rape can sometimes be a tedious topic to converse upon between male and female but nevertheless, it needs to be. Rape isn’t something that is wanted or desired by anyone. It is a violent act committed by a predator, often from lustful desires, as an attempt to display power and control over the victim (“What Is Rape …”). Numerous people only think that rape is a physical state, which isn’t true at all. Rape can be verbal, visual, or just about anything whatsoever that forces the person into any kind of sexual contact that they don’t provide consent to be a part of (“What Is Rape …”).
Through my reading of the article titled “Can she consent to sex after drinking” by Margaret Wente I identified two rape myths. As we know, rape myths are a set of beliefs about rape and sexual assault that feed into rape culture. These uneducated beliefs place the blame on rape victims rather than the perpetrators and attempt to blur the line between rape and consensual sex. In Wente’s article the rape myths I found are “As for those armies of would-be rapists lurking in every shadow – they’re your sons, your grandsons, your nephews and your brothers” and “If two young people get hammered and have drunken sex, he is responsible for his behaviour, but she’s not responsible for hers”. In the first rape myth the author uses a sense of sarcasm, what she is essentially say is that the people who you are calling rapist are in fact just your innocent friends and family. The author is assuming that people who commit acts of sexual violence are not people that we know. She uses this quote to make readers think that rapists are dark, devious, and unknown people. However, we know that in reality this is not the case, in approximately 80-90% of sexual assault cases the perpetrator is someone the victim knows. An overwhelming majority of rapes that occur on campuses are actually done so by the person the victim is dating or an acutance. Although the author tries to assume friends and family are not rapist, studies would argue to the contrary. In the second rape myth the author is
The experiment tests the knowledge behind date rape among college females. 651 undergraduate females, all different ages, were asked to fill out a questionnaire. This questionnaire asked about the knowledge of these topics: date rape awareness, health effects of date rape, perceptions of date rape, prevalence of date rape, and date rape victims. Each topic was made into a table to show the results of the number of women out of the 651 as well as a percentage. The results suggested that the women have a non-tolerant attitude towards rape. Each table brings up very good points and strengthens the claim that college date rape is a problem and that college students need education on date rape. These women know other women who have experienced date rape and have heard their stories. The women surveyed could be potential date rape victims. Further education on date rape can consist of, what the consequences are health wise of date rape and what to do if ever found in a situation of date rape. This experiment implies that males are the perpetrators of date rape and females are the victims. The result of the experiment is that college female students need to educate themselves on date rape in college to better prevent themselves from becoming a victim. The source’s conclusion was that with proper education
According to Krystek (2010), the Great Pyramid of Giza is “the only one of the famous "Seven Wonders of the Ancient World" that still stands.” The Great Pyramid of Giza, which was built around 2550BC for the pharaoh Khufu, is archaeological evidence of the political, economic and religious power of the pharaoh and the importance of religion in the Old Kingdom of Ancient Egypt. The ability of the pharaoh Khufu to organise and control the large workforce necessary to build the Great Pyramid is an indication of his political power. Through the construction of the Great Pyramid, the pharaoh and the people of Egypt were economically benefited. The importance of the afterlife to Egyptian society and the notion of the pharaoh being partly divine is also demonstrated through the Great Pyramid.
Rape defined is forcing sexual intercourse upon someone without his or her consent. This isn’t just a girls’ problem, boys have to deal with this too. According to the American Psychological Association, nearly one in ten girls and one in twenty boys say they have been raped or experienced some form of sexual assault (Atlanta Journal, 1). Almost more than half of rape victims know their attacker; they don’t report it or tell anybody. In most date rape cases, the attacker and victim have known each other for at least a year or even longer. Only about 10 percent of rapes are reported, less than that go to court. According to data taken by the Federal Bureau of Investigation, one forcible rape is reported to the police every six minutes, on
Rape is an experience which shakes the foundations of the lives of the victims. For many its effect is long term, impairing their capacity for personal relationships, altering their behaviour and values and generating fear, Temkin (1986:17).
Sexual assault and rape has always been a social and public issue in the United States. A majority of the time, women become the victims, while men become the perpetrators. National surveys in the United States show that one in six women has experienced an attempted or completed rape. Consent appears to be a critical factor in determining whether assault or rape has taken place. Women have a higher chance of being raped by who they are acquainted with rather than strangers.
The main debate amongst the explanation is the key motivation that drives the offender to commit rape. Previously, majority of social scientists’ perspective of rape is seen as a sexually motivated crime; for instance, males are given the opportunity to fulfil their sexual desires that cannot be met legally, thus
What is rape, and to whom does it happen? Generally speaking, rape is a violent sexual act imposed on a nonconsenting partner that makes you question many things about yourself. Unfortunately the mythology usually surrounding rape is that it only happens to women. The fact is, rape does not only happen to women, but men as well. It is one of the most misunderstood of all crimes, and when the victim is male, understanding why it has happened, is one of the hardest things to comprehend.
A major perpetuating factor in misinformation regarding sexual assault and rape culture is the media. Confusion about what constitutes rape leads many students to question whether or not they were a "real victim". Rape isn't always a violent crime committed by a stranger down some dark alley. It can
p. 69).” rape is violence against women. It is a violation of her body and her trust. According to Burns, a sociologist at Michigan State University, “rape is forced and unwanted intercourse, where sexual assault is used as a power and sex is a method (Mousseau, 2006. p. 1).” Most rapes are committed not by strangers, but by men known to women, perhaps someone they have gone out with or are supposedly their friends. It can be someone she just met or even her fiancé, but often it is an attempt to assert power or anger. A study by the National Center for the Preventive and Control rape claims ninety percent of rapes are never reported. In those that are reported, sixty percent knew their assailants. Of these, women fifteen to twenty-five are majority of the victims. Alcohol and drugs sometimes play a significant factor, especially in date rape or acquaintance rape cases (Mousseau, 2006).
Rape culture is an environment in which social attitudes have the effect of normalizing sexual violence against women and excusing it in the media and other popular cultures. Rape culture attempts to rationalize a continuum of sexual violence that range from sexist remarks to unwanted sexual touching, and rape itself. Rape culture has become so desensitized by society that perpetrators may not be aware of their wrongdoings and victims may not realize they are being victimized. It is a culture in which victims are suppressed when they decide to speak up about their traumatic attack, because they are seen as being dramatic or untruthful while the perpetrator's actions are left unpunished. While the majority of victims are women, rape culture is not solemnly an issue of female oppression, it is a general disconnect between human beings. It is a culture that many of us refuse to accept exist, however there are numerous examples that normalize rape and sexual assault on a daily basis. Rape culture is not a new topic. The term was first used back in the 1970’s by a group of feminist to raise the awareness of the normalization of sexual violence in society. In recent years the topic has become a popular, controversial issue and has come to permeate virtually every aspect of our lives through media, song lyrics, and everyday jargon.