My barn family redeemed me. My barn family – for me – is more important than my real family. Not everyone has a barn family so it’s okay if they don’t believe that. I think everyone has some sort of safe haven, even if they’re unaware of it. Whatever that safe haven is it’s good for you, and my safe haven is the barn and my barn family.
Thinking of all my undone homework and upcoming deadlines overwhelms me and makes me want to cry. Homework never comes to my mind at the barn. One time after a bareback ride, I was lying on top of a horse and I made myself think about all the homework I still had. Even when I tried, being at the barn with the horses and the people made it impossible for me to become overwhelmed.
Once, it was so cold lessons were cancelled and the instructor didn’t come. Jen and I came out to work. We mucked stalls together for almost two hours, not needing to be on horseback to enjoy the barn and each other’s company. We talked some and Jen played country music – which I normally hate, but listening to it with her while spreading sawdust made it enjoyable. We each spent some time in the hose closet, which feels like a
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At school, I’m loud and excitable. At the barn, I’m the entire spectrum of human emotion. I can be whatever my mood is, whatever person I feel like being in that moment, and everyone is totally fine with it. I was quiet at first. I seemed like someone who would bring the mood down but my family accepted my emotional state and helped me to a better place instead of deciding that I was someone else’s problem. In the barn I can look at myself and see all of my accomplishments and good qualities. I can look at my body and see an average human body capable of amazing things. I struggle with accepting myself outside of the barn but being somewhere where everyone is accepted allows me to love myself. I’m still working on loving myself outside of the barn, but my family is helping me do things I couldn’t do on my
The college essay, sending in the SAT scores, The Common Application, all having to be done before the early action deadlines I needed to meet. I can remember the countless nights I spent in my high school’s library trying to finish all of my homework, on top of finishing all of my pieces for applying to college. Usually, the library was a bright and enjoyable place you could go to get work done, but at this point in time for me, it was a large dark room that felt like it had been closing in on me. When the clock reached eleven in the evening, the janitor would come in and say that he was done cleaning the school and the library was closing for me this was the worst time. Every time I felt like I was getting something productive done, it was already time to go home. Unlike most people, my house is a major distraction zone. The family is always visiting, loud echoing conversations that would reach even two floors above and my dog, who needed attention constantly and cried every time you did not want to play fetch with
Instead of starting my homework immediately after arriving at home, I decide to grab a snack and lay outside on the hammock to scroll through Buzzfeed quizzes and catch up on watching soccer highlights from the games this past weekend. Before I know it, one hour has already passed, the sun is starting to set, and not one pencil mark has been made on any piece of homework. Knowing I work well under pressure and will get things done faster, ironically, when I have time chasing me, I decide to give myself more rest time because of “how stressful the school day was.” This is teenager code language for: “Wow, who knew I could finish three assignments during Mustang Block and Math class?” Finally after a lot of thoughtful consideration, I decide that it is best for me to start my homework unless I want to stay up until midnight, again, to just deprive myself of
Having too much homework causes students large amounts of stress and lack of sleep that can cause health problems. On a survey that Stanford researchers tested on 4317 students, fifty-six percent of the students considered homework a primary source of stress, forty-three percent of the students viewed tests as a primary stressor, thirty-three percent put pressure to get good grades in that category (Parker). Less than one percent of the students said that homework was not a stressor (Parker). That means that about 4273 students considered homeword a stressor, while less than 50 out of 4317 students believed homework to not be a stressor. Out of the students surveyed, the average amount of homework was three hours and six minutes of homework (Greicius). The large amount of homework causes large amounts of stress, but it also causes sleep deprivation and other health problems such as headaches, exhaustion, sleep deprivation,
Homework, tests, quizzes, oh my! Thinking about the pile of assignments that are going to be laid at your feet might cause anxiety,
Homework has been an area of discussion for teachers, students, and even psychologists. It’s been a practice which has been used throughout the United States to help students learn material, reinforce their day’s lesson, or just as busy work to improve a student’s work ethic. Several people view homework as useless, or just plainly unhelpful; this view has been demonstrated ever since the early twentieth century, where many authors and politicians were vehemently against homework, going as far as to write whole books and draft legislation (legislation which had passed the Californian government and had been law) against homework. This opposition has ever since faded, but is now seeing a new movement around America, and there are reasons as to why that is. In an article from CNN, they quote a study from another article published by The American Journal of Family Therapy which states that: “students in the early elementary school years are getting significantly more homework than is recommended by education leaders, in some cases nearly three times as much homework as is recommended”, and, as such, students are raised within a state of stress from the first grade. Several other studies also find that homework is very hurtful; the Journal of Experimental Education published an article which had made a study that found that the average amount of time students spend on homework each night had been 3.1 hours from a sample of high-performing schools in California, when the recommended time on homework is, at most, one hour each night. Homework has been mandated work for students all around the country, and several others, and the workload seems to only be increasing, and so, how might this workload affect a student’s ability to live a healthy life, a teacher’s work plan, and a psychologist’s view of an enormous workload on a student?
I “shoot the elephant” and power on through all of the homework that may bog me down. All of my teachers care for us and just want the best for us, and I remember that while I am writing down the answer to that math problem, reading that essay, studying for my science exam, working on that history project, and freaking out about that essay that I have not written. Homework is a part of school, and even though I may not agree with it, I have to accept
In Whitney Houston’s song Greatest Love of All she sings, “I believe that children are our future.” I have heard this line several times throughout my life. However if children are continually becoming more removed from the family farm, what does that future look like for agriculture?
Peridot looked at her reflection in the pool at the Barn. She still grimaced a bit at seeing what had become of her on Homeworld. She looked at her 4 arms, her fingers now resembled something "alien-like". 3 clawed fingers on each hand, with each hand having a sticky pawpad of some sort.
To an untutored observer of my nightly homework routine, it might appear that I am attempting to deal with an intensely emotional situation. However, despite the fact that many assignments are given approximately a week before the due date, I always manage to leave them until the night before. Nevertheless, as a relatively exceptional student I am able to escape punishment with this on a regular basis. That is, until my junior year, when I attempted to juggle three AP classes along with a handful of honors courses. Finally, I began to notice how detrimentally this tendency affected my schoolwork. Stress added up throughout the year, and by the time June rolled around it felt as though I had aged at least a decade. Thankfully, the summer months
Animal Farm teaches the audience about a few different lessons, but the one that is the most profound and bold lesson is that power can and most probably will be abused. The book displays just how corrupt and evil the power of control can make someone. Animal Farm makes a prominent point towards the fact that a society with no questions or opposition cannot, and will not, strive to become a successful civilization. The first few steps of corruption under power is what lead to Animal Farm becoming like it was under the Mr. Jones’s control.
Imagine you walk into your first grade classroom on a Friday and everyone is talking and the teacher gets everyone's attention in order to stop the noise so she can tell you that you have one math worksheet, one science worksheet, one literacy worksheet, and one social studies worksheet to get done by Monday. You get home and start working on your homework that way you can do fun things the rest of the weekend and you end up staying up till 10 and yet still haven’t completed all your work, but at this point it is too late to continue so as you are trying to fall asleep you keep thinking about not getting it all finished by Monday, and how you have to work on it all weekend, and when Monday rolls around again you are too mentally and physically
2:47 pm, home from school. 6:23 pm, finished dinner. 10:42 pm, ready to start my numerous hours of homework, I’ve been dreading since the moment I got home. My mind is always filled with all the assignments and extracurricular activities I have in the upcoming days and weeks. Minute after minute, my stress builds up like a wildfire that will not be extinguished till the moment I fall asleep. This is my weekday routine. My schedule and work is constantly in the back of my head, but my lack of motivation holds me back from achieving these tasks earlier in the given time. Although I am always aware of the stress waiting until the last minute to do my work, I continue to do it, day after day.
Have you ever felt influenced by your peers? In the world today, many people are influenced by their peers because they “don’t fit in”. The book Animal Farm by George Orwell is based on the Russian Revolution. In the book, the animals of Manor Farm are ruled by two pigs named Napoleon and Snowball. The animals follow all the orders that are given to them by the pigs because the pigs are “superior” and they know what’s right.In the book Animal Farm, many of the animals are influenced by the pigs to do things they don’t agree with, but will be faced with consequences if they don’t. The animals in the book Animal Farm relate to the modern teen because both struggle with peer pressure. The importance of this book is to tell the readers to be
Personally homework is one of the things I stress about the most. Homework is key for my understanding of the subject I am studying in class, it is important for the marks I get for when I hand in homework and for studying. It is something that I have to do almost everyday and I have to manage my other activities around it. If homework is not completed then there will be consequences such as lack in understanding of subject, a mark of zero for homework check that day or non approval from my teacher. These all have long term effects such bad quiz, test and exam marks which lead to an overall poor grade average. Grade averages go on our report cards which are used for university applications.
When I hear the word family, I think of people who are are blood related, the people you live with, and the people you see all the time. They provide for you and embarrass you. People are also family, even if they aren’t blood related, but are there for you no matter what and they mean everything to you. Family is always by your side when you need them. People hear family and think about parents, I hear family and think about my parents, aunts, cousins, friends, and my karate family. They are all so important to me and I don’t know what I would do without them. On the other hand, Romeo and Juliet displayed family in an interesting way. When Juliet said she didn’t want to marry Paris, her mother said she would disown her if she didn’t do