It's a running joke in our family. The Battle Hymn of the tiger Mom, the controversial parenting style of Asian parents who are extremely strict and pushed their children to attain high levels of academic Achievement. We’ve laughed about the topic often, since my parents are in no way as strict or demanding as Amy Chung, the mother who first coined the term. They allow me freedom of choice in my extracurriculars, and mom worries constantly if I have too much homework. However, my family has always valued education, and combined with my chinese heritage, has made me a semblance of the Asian stereotype.
When I was little, my father would tell me bedtime stories, and so would mom. They were wonderful tales of childhood mischief and friendships,
In the writing of, America’s Top Parent, Elizabeth Kolbert outlines the parenting strategies of different mothers. Most notably, she talks about the “Chinese Mother,” which does not technically mean this individual must be of Chinese descent. Throughout the essay, Kolbert talks about another essay, Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother. The author of that essay, Amy Chua, believes in a binary world. Meaning that there are two kinds of mothers, “Chinese Mothers”, and “Western” mothers. Chinese mothers believe in extreme parenting, whereas Western mothers “think they are being strict when they insist that their children practice their instruments for half an hour a day” (Kolbert). On the other hand, Chinese mothers have much more specific rules
In “Adapted from Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother” author Amy Chua argues that, instead of constantly praising a child for the slightest success, parents should only expect perfection from their children and nothing less. She explains that Western parents are not as strict on their children as Chinese parents are. That Western parents don’t believe in stressing educational success and that education should be something fun. In contrast, Chinese parents believe that academic success is very important and to get good at something it takes practice and hard work which may not seem fun at first but in the long run the activity becomes fun once mastered. Chua also believes that Chinese parents can get away with things that Western parents cannot such as calling their child garbage after being misbehaved. Chua states three main differences between Western parents and Chinese parents.
Most children grow up hearing old stories from their families and sit at sleepovers in circles telling
A tiger mom can be described as strict, stern, and rigorous with high expectations. In the article “Whatever Happened to the Original Tiger Mum's Children?” by Tanith Carey, they discuss how Amy Chua raised her two daughters, Sophia and Lulu Chua-Rubenfeld. They were brought up in a very strict manner of focusing on school and playing violin/piano. They didn’t have much of an outside life, for they were always doing school work. Some may say that Amy Chua raised her daughters in a bad way, but the family speaks out on how it was tough but more happy childhood. Honestly, tiger parenting can get your kids far, but I wouldn’t raise my own kids like this exactly.
Curtis the leader of the peewee tiger brought in his top general Felipe to discuss how they are going to convince the citizens to support this war. SO they can fight back the anti-government movement form their bigotry and lies. These lies are telling the citizens this war is only to steal the fluffy bear's oil. These citizens and their support don't understand this terrorist threat. This is the biggest threat in our country's history and this threat need to be ended right now.
When I was younger, I had many people that would read books to me. The first book I ever read was Boom Chika Boom. My Aunt Jennah was the main person who took care of me, while my mom was working at the Buffalo Hospital. They’re many pictures of me sitting on her lap while she would read me. My favorite books were If You Give a Mouse a Cookie or If You Give a Pig a Pancake.
What does it mean to be American? The American identity has always been a complicated discussion. It is by nature identified by diversity. Many think it has to do with the birthplace of the person and others think it has to do with their inheritance. In 2011, Amy Chua published Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother as a memoir. Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother presents the evolution of this American woman. The elements of Chuas evolution seemed to involve; native identity; inherited identity; resisted identity and resolved identity.
Maxine Hong Kingston once said, “I 've been writing since I was 7, but before that, I was orally making stories. This quote expresses Kingston’s fervor for writing and storytelling outside of her short story “White Tigers from the Woman Warrior”, which emphasizes the importance of literature, which is her art, by retelling her own childhood as the “fairy tale” of the Woman Warrior, Fa Mu Lan, and connecting it back to her own life. The introductory paragraphs, coupled with the word carving scene and the concluding final paragraphs, evoke Fa Mu Lan and present Maxine’s life as analogous to Fa Mu Lan’s life story. While it is understood that they did not know each other, Maxine complicates this “relationship”, for lack of a better word, by using a first-person narrative as opposed to a third-person narrative while retelling the “fairy tale”, which in turn complicates subjectivity of Maxine, and the relationship between Maxine and Fa Mu Lan. Moreover, the words in the word carving scene in the middle of the “fairy tale” are double symbols of suffering and of perfect filiality, which is a trait common in Chinese culture. By and large, these early on passages, and each section from there on, and the word cutting scene, utilize the literary devices of point of view and central symbol to influence the audience to acknowledge Maxine 's claim that Fa Mu Lan is her model, and that she, Maxine, is fruitful in taking after her case since they both have words "at their backs."
When I was younger my mother did not really tell me any fairy tales but we would rent movies mostly from Disney. I would also watch The Rocky and Bullwinkle Show wich had small fairy tale segments wich is I heard the Princess and the pea, and Rampelstiskin. In preschool, we would sometimes read some of the more popular fairy tales.
Chua is unsuccessful at persuading readers that her method of parenting is successful and I disagree because not all kids that go through discipline in their life end up successful. Amy Chua addresses in the Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother ,a few main points to show the difference in how Chinese parents raise their children compared to western parents. Chua first brings up that in a study she did, zero percent of Chinese parents agreed with that learning is fun and stressing academic success is not good for children. On the other hand seventy percent of Western parents did. Chinese parents disagree with the idea because in their eyes they think that their kids academic achievement shows how successful their parents are.
“Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother,” is a wonderful book written by Amy Chua, about her struggles and triumphs as a “Chinese mother,” and what it took for her family to reach great achievements. Unlike “western” parenting, Chua explains how the family roles in a Chinese household stress the importance of achievement. The biggest affect on their family they deal with is their cultural patterns that come from being in a dual-culture family. In the very beginning, Chua starts by explaining the things she would never let her children do, which include; going to a sleepover, being in a school play, get less than an A in a class, and not play anything except for the piano or violin, etc.
That doesn’t mean you need to be Chinese to have the title, it is simply a term used to describe a parent who is very strict and has an unusual way of raising there children. Chua supports her claim as well as contradicts herself throughout the whole piece.
On January 27, an article was published, “Why Chinese Mothers are Superior” by the Wall Street Journal. It brought attention and promotes extreme controversy. Chua sparked debates over the differences in parenting styles of American and Chinese heritages. “Chinese Mothers” used in a broad statement and “Western Mothers” used for every other party. Americans began to raise questions. Chua’s article referring to herself as a Tiger mother stands to have both negative comments and some positive.
Being a mother is to support your children all the way even if they choose to take the road you don’t want them too. Mother’s play a responsible role in children’s health, education and complete wellbeing. In the article, Mother Inferior? Hanna Rosin, the author talks about her mothering style, which is the complete opposite of Amy Chua from The Battle Hymn of The Tiger Mother. Hanna Rosin would allow everything that Amy Chua wouldn’t allow for her children. Her idea of raising children were different, she wanted her child to be happy in fact she never pressured her child into doing anything. Hanna Rosin had some good points; however, some of her points I cannot agree with her. I agree with Hanna Rosin when she said
As a child I really enjoyed reading books, this may been because my mother and father would try to read to me each night before bed. One of my favorite bedtime stories would be Aesop 's fable particularly the Tortoise and the Hare. Although the Hare was talented and had all the fittings to be a champion, despite that his arrogance made him lose the race when he decided to sleep during the race. To this day I have personally resonated with the idea of the underdog overcoming any obstacles, and that is what the tortoise signifies. The tortoise understood that although he was not in the best position to win the race instead of giving up and not competing he took his neck out of shell, tried his best, and persevered which caused him the victory.