After watching “The Butterfly Circus” and reading the textbook, I was able to better understand what it means to belong. Humans are social creatures and we often want nothing more than to belong. I will discuss my definition of “belonging”, when Will truly feels a sense of belonging, and my general response to the short film. The definition of belonging is the rightful placement of a person into a specific position. It is when a person feels as if they are accepted by their peers and family and that they have a purpose in their life. Each person has a belonging somewhere. Everybody is unique and may be different from the majority of people, but there is still a place for them to belong. Individuals will often feel hurt or depressed because they feel like they do not fit into a certain group of people. This can be difficult to face, but we cannot fit into every group that we come across. In the film, Will feels as if he does not belong anywhere, but he found a very specific group of people that fit …show more content…
The Butterfly Circus came along and essentially “adopted” him. For some time, he still felt no sense of belonging because he was so much different from everyone else in the group. Not until he realized he could swim and was given the act of jumping of off a ledge into a pool did he feel like he truly belonged. After he performed the act, a group of people approached him and began to tell him how amazing it was. A crippled boy gave him a hug and treated him as a hero. At this moment, Will felt like he was appreciated and that he had a purpose in his life. Traveling with The Butterfly Circus is just the beginning of his acceptance. It may be enough for him to feel a sense of belonging in this small group, but as time progresses, he will continue to gain acceptance from the outside world. This boost of confidence and sense of belonging will allow Will to achieve more than he ever thought
Belonging means different things to different people. The most common definition is feeling a sense of connectedness to a person, place or thing. Understanding nourishes belonging while a lack of understanding can prevent people from belonging. This is shown through Peter Skrzynecki’s poem ‘Migrant hostel’ which is about the challenges faced by travelers on their journey, and the hardships they have to overcome by exchanging their old world for the unfamiliar and unwelcoming new world in which they don’t understand anything. Skrzynecki’s poem ‘Feliks Skryznecki’ explores a relationship between father and son, and their contrasting experiences of belonging to a new place. The related text, ‘The Red Tree,’ by Shaun Tan also shows that a lack
A common human characteristic is the yearning to feel a sense of belonging through connections and different forms of relationships made in life. A sense of belonging or not belonging can emerge from feeling connected to people and places, whether they have been freely cast there or not. An individual will only feel a true sense of belonging through the understanding of those connections, which are created by experiences and can only come within.
Belonging and alienation is the process of being either excluded or accepted by the society in which you live. Belong is a human conception,mostly considered a fundamental human need and a source of survival, safety, protection and happiness. To belong is usually considered positive and essential for a successful existence:however a negative sense of belonging:found among the displaced, marginalised and uncared for can lead to many social, filial and personal problems that can be almost insurmountable for the individual. The short trop fest film “Be My Brother” by Genevieve Clay 2009, represents these ideas through the films central characters. The film deals with society and people with disabilities feeling displaced within society due to
Overall, Will has had a troubling life, never feeling like he actually belonged. He was afraid to be smart and at the same time afraid to not be. The physical and mental abuse he suffered at the hands of those who are supposed to protect him, definitely scared him
The concept of belonging and acceptance is a major part of our modern society. Most stories and films represent belonging or alienation in one way or another. Strictly Ballroom, directed by Baz Luhrmann and the ‘Ugly Duckling’, a short story by Hans Christian Anderson, both represent the concept of acceptance and rejection through the use of many film and language techniques.
An individual 's sense of belonging is determined not only by their own choices but also attitudes of others.
People have the longing to belong and to be accepted by a group or community. A sense of Belonging can emerge from the connections and acceptance we have with other people, communities and the larger world. These ideas of belonging are represented in texts which explore aspects of belonging and an individual’s potential to challenge or improve a community group. The film ‘Strictly Ballroom,’ directed by Baz Lurhman, the film ‘Looking for Alibrandi’ directed by Kate Woods and the exaggerated true story of an African American youth’s fight to belong in the song “dance with the devil” by immortal technique all represent ideas of belonging formed by life experiences.
"To feel a sense of belonging, you need to accept yourself and be accepted by others."
‘An individual’s interaction with others and the world around them can enrich or limit their experience of belonging.’
Explore how perceptions of belonging and not belonging can be influenced by connections to places.
Will learns about death early on through dealing with the recent passing of his grandmother, encountering a life or death situation, and dealing with the passing of his grandfather. He learns about love and sexuality through developing feelings for a mill worker and trying to figure out how to explain his love for the mill worker, Lightfoot. Will learns about accepting others and diversity through his grandfather’s remarriage. The experiences that Will goes through in this novel teachers to not judge anyone based on what we hear, what we see, their social class, or where they come from. We must be open-minded people, embrace others from different backgrounds, and not care what others might have to say about
Having and needing a sense of belonging is a facet of human nature. In this context, belonging refers to the acceptance of an individual as a member or a part (Hall 1). In Perry Moore’s Hero, Thom is faced with many barriers to attaining a sense of belonging with nearly every group that he encounters. His largest barrier would be the fact that he is homosexual in a world that seemingly doesn’t accept homosexuality. In Alan Moore’s
Belonging or not belonging is the feeling of being included or excluded by a certain group, person, place or community. This is conveyed very well in the film “strictly ballroom” produced by Baz Luhrmen and the picture book “The Sneetches” by Dr suess. In stictly ballroom, this concept is primarily conveyed by Scott Hastings struggle with the dance community to find where he truly belongs. In 'The Sneetches is refers to the group belonging of the two seperate types of sneetches and their journey to belong as a community and individually.
The need to feel a sense of belonging is a powerful and universal one. This sense is formed from connections made with others. The result can be a range of emotions, from an increase in the feeling of security and self esteem, to feelings of unhappiness and loneliness. When someone does not fit in, often because they are different, the negative emotions that they feel can be very harmful.
Since no one is ideal or perfect, Will creates a wall between himself and Skylar, never letting her get too close to him. Will’s fear of abandonment further separates himself from the relationships and loved ones because the people who were supposed to completely love him, left him and hurt him emotionally and physically when he was young. Will also experience displacement when it comes to his romantic life. For example Will has falling head over heels for Skylar but he thinks that she could be a symbolic of his mother who had abandoned him at a young age which is another reason for why Will does not want to get seriously involved with