preview

Betty Friedan's The Feminine Mystique

Decent Essays

Betty Friedan struck an emotional chord that wavered long-standing beliefs regarding the traditional American housewife when she released her book, The Feminine Mystique. The work was historic for two very important reasons. One was that it was written by someone experiencing the aura of the “feminine mystique” personally, who could relate to the plight of the middle-class stay-at-home mother. Another is because while Friedan and others had witnessed the dissatisfaction of many American women individually through writing and speeches, the book also captured the voice of many of these women en masse with significant detail. Overall, the combination of personal experience and widespread testament provided Americans living in the nineteen-sixties …show more content…

For example, Robin Morgan’s essay “Goodbye to All That” captures a lot of the anger she felt towards men’s dismissive attitude of women’s rights. While the essay is honest and frank, it only captures her voice, not the voice of many females collectively. The Feminine Mystique succeeds these individual opinions because Friedan provided many women a choice to speak their truth through one work. And while the book misses out on experiences outside of white middle- and upper-class women, it does capture the true voice of the demographic America had for so long idealized. The Feminine Mystique is filled with numerous quotes from housewives and stay-at-home mothers dissatisfied with what they were raised to believe would fulfill them. One of the first stories Friedan shares comes from a mother who, like countless others, gave up college for marriage. This mother tells Friedan, “I never had any career ambitions. All I wanted was to get married and have four children. I love the kids and Bob and my home. There’s no problem you can even put a name to. But I’m desperate. I begin to feel I have no personality. I’m a server of food and a putter-on of pants and a bedmaker, somebody who can be called on when you want something. But who am I?” (Friedan 8-9). Her question regarding her identity as a woman outside of her assigned gender role is one repeated by women throughout the book, proving just how out of touch the American people were with the women they were

Get Access