The characters from the book, The Other Wes Moore, shared one name, which was “Wes Moore” but lived two different lives. The Author Wes describes his life by saying, “ I was taught to remember, but never question” and he describes the Other Wes’s life by saying, “ taught to forget and never ask why.” (4). How both characters were taught to live their lives is shown throughout the book as they gained and lost respect throughout their life experiences. The Author Wes Moore came from a family Caribbean family. His mother, Joy, came from Jamaica and had to quickly adapt to the lifestyle of the American kids, such as their lingo and the way they dress. As she progressed on to college years she met her first husband Bill who turned into a drug …show more content…
From that moment on Joy not only raised her kids to have respect for everyone, but her sons to have respect for women. The author Wes was taught to remember the things he’s done and never questions them. This was seen when Wes was three, he was playing around with his sister Shani, Wes described the situation as “…in the spirit of three-year-old boys everywhere who’ve run out of better ideas, I decided to punch her. Of course my mother walked into the room as a sung and connected” (5). Coming from the Caribbean, most children are raised very strictly. His mother, Joy saw this as a form of disrespect; she responds by saying, “I told you, don’t you ever put your hands on a woman.” Wes’s dad spoke to him after the situation and said, “…you just cant hit people, and particularly women. You defend them, not fight them. Do you understand?” (11). Wes viewed his dad as his protector, his dad not only taught him respect with those few words, but he allowed him to regain his mother’s respect. After Wes’s dad died, Joy decided to pick her kids up …show more content…
His mother Mary was the first to attend college in her family, but have to give up her dream once her Pell grant got taken away. Mary met Bernard, who “spent most of his time searching for himself at the bottom of liquor bottle,” (24) leaving her to raise her kids by herself. Growing up Wes’s brother Tony had a big impact on his life. His brother grew up in the Murphy Homes other wise know as the “Murder Homes” (26). Tony’s gangster attitude constantly influenced Wes’s decisions. For example, Wes was playing football with his friends, Woody and White Boy, and he experienced disrespect when a person on the opposite team constantly pushed him. Wes’s bigger structure didn’t intimidate the boy, he “…pushed Wes in the chest, creating a short distance between the two, then cocked is right arm and punched Wes in the face” (31). Taken by shock, Wes checked himself, realized he was bleeding and ran home. Going home he grabbed a knife, to go retaliate against the boy, and his brother’s not so wise words ran through his head “If someone disrespects you, you send a message so fierce they wont have the chance to do it again.” The Other Wes Moore was taught to do what he had to do and not question it. He learned this attitude from all his life experiences. Wes’s way of earning respect after being punched in the face was taking Tony’s words to heart and stabbing the boy. As Wes grew older he became involved with
A big statement that Wes Moore says is that, “The chilling truth is that his story could have been mine. The tragedy is that my story could have been his. ” I completely agree with this statement. The way they lived and were raised was very similar meaning that either one of them could have taken either path. There were small differences that could have maybe been the deciders of why each Wes Moore’s fates ended like they did like how they were raised by their mothers. Either way, both Wes’s had very high chances of choosing each others paths.
Both Weses had several circumstances in common that happened early on in their lives. Moore narrates that he lost his father at a young age due to a medical misdiagnosis. The author says that with the loss of his father, his family had to move to the Bronx to live with his grandparents. The author Wes was the second of three children, and with the absence of his father, his mother Joy had to work multiple jobs to send him and his siblings to school. Moore adds that he was enrolled in a private school but skipped his classes often and was put on academic probation. On the other hand, the
"The chilling truth is that his story could have been mine... It's unsettling to know how little separates each of us from another life altogether (Moore XI)." The Other Wes Moore by Wes Moore is about two men who have the same name, Wes Moore. Both grew up in similar areas, each made choices that lead to one spending life in jail and the other spent his being in the military. The Wes Moore's grew up in the 1970's-1980's. They both were poor with single mothers who worked day in and day out, and still struggled to be able to be above the poverty line. For each man there was one moment that changed the future of their life. In the book,The Other Wes Moore by Wes Moore, the author explains the idea of poverty to develop the theme poverty can affect an individual negatively, but each action and decision a person makes can control whether his or her life is positive or negative.
Parenting played a big role in shaping the two boys lives. Having a parental mentor is important because they assist and guide children to take the right decisions about their lives. The author had his two parents at the beginning of his life. Also, the author’s parents, especially his mother, tried to raise him in an effective way wanting him to know the right from wrong at an early age. “No mommy loves you, like I love you, she just wants you to do the right thing” (Moore 11). This quote was a live example of the author’s life with his parents. It reflected the different ways his parents used to teach him “the right thing.” Though his mother was upset from his action toward his sister, his father
During the two Wes Moore’s teenage years, they had run ins with people that turned violent. Part of how they reacted to these situations are attributed to what their peers are doing and where they live but how they overcome, or fail to overcome these obstacles helped put each of them where they are today. When Wes had a run in with Ray for sleeping with Ray’s cousin, Ray put a pretty big beating on him, but it was how Wes chose to react that put a nail in his coffin.
A person’s success or failure can be determined by their environment, education, choices; a number of different things. The autobiography The Other Wes Moore takes a look at two boys with the same name and eerily similar circumstances who end up in very different places in life. Wes Moore spoke at convocation about his book and what he hoped that people would get from it. In the book he says “The chilling truth is that his story could have been mine. The tragedy is that my story could have been his.” (Moore xi). These two men didn’t share the same fate because they each made a choice about what they wanted their life to become. The book truly demonstrates how the choices you make, make you. One Wes
The difference lye within their characteristics; the author Wes’s mother was a strong, independent, educated woman that served her family relentlessly. “My mother slept in the living room to stand guard, she said. She didn’t want me and my sisters to be the first people a trespasser ran into if they entered the house. She was determined to protect us (Moore36).” Later she realized she was losing her grip and needed the assistance only her parents could provide, and they did.
In the book, The Other Wes Moore it is difficult to believe the great similarities in the lives of the two Moores, who share a name and other aspects of life. The two were raised fatherless and were born in the late 1970’s in the neighborhood of Baltimore, Maryland. They also happen to have encountered similar experiences when growing up, but at one point one of them became a criminal and the other a scholar (the author of the book). The author of the book seems to be interested in the similarities of the two boys as opposed to their different experiences. The story is interesting and makes one imagine what would have become of the writer if he did not by any chance come across the people who guided him to become what
The Other Wes Moore is a book about two young African-American lives that share the same name, Wes Moore. Both Wes Moores grew up with similarities, they both grew up in the same hometown. One of the Wes Moore is free and the other one is spending his life in jail. They both grew up without fathers. The author's father died in front of him when he was just three years old and the other Wes Moore barley knew his dad. The Author's father wasn’t there because he couldn’t be, and the other Wes Moore, father wasn’t there because he chose not to be. Both mothers were working hard towards setting their families and to support and care for their sons.
The other Wes Moore is also considered to be deviant by his poor decision-making and careless choices. He dropped out of school, sold drugs, participated in a robbery of a jewelry store, and was a convicted murderer with a life sentence. There was many sociological factors that led to the other Wes Moore’s deviant behavior; the absence of his father being an important factor. Although both the author Wes Moore and the other Wes Moore grew up without a father, it affected the other Wes Moore a little more considering the fact that his father chose not to be in his life. Also, Tony had a big impact on the decision he made for himself. Throughout the story, Wes would remember what Tony told him about demanding respect. “Send a message,” And Wes would do as Tony said. The problem with the other Wes Moore was that he lacked positive influences in his life and he had no motivation to live a better life until it was too late.
Tony, Wes’s older brother, tried to tell him to stay away from drugs but he didn’t listen. The narrator, on the other hand, grew up with a mother who made it a point to learn right from wrong. When the narrator was little his mother said, ”I told you, don’t you ever put your hands on a woman(Moore 5)!” His mother made sure that he knew that it was not okay to treat people like that which showed that he would learn right. These differences may seem very small, but they are a major cause for why they both turned out so
Both Wes Moores did not grow up in the best circumstances. In the beginning of the book when the men were talking about their lives, the other Wes Moore says, “Your father wasn’t there because he couldn’t be, my father wasn’t there because he chose not to be” (3). Both of these men lost
One central difference to think about when looking at the two individuals is the fact that Wes has a more supporting mother than Wes (2), in a person’s life a mother is so important and can be looked as a blessing. A mother is the one that supposed to be the person that takes great care of you and guides you, and to teach what’s right from wrong. The author’s mother was much more supportive for her son, Wes acknowledges, “Every time I looked around at the buildings and the trees and the view of the river, I was reminded of the sacrifices my mother was making to keep me there.” (Moore 52). Due to this quote, we can conclude that Wes’s mother, although struggling at the time, found a way to put her child in the best possible route in education. Wes presents it as kind of an understatement, however, from his mother doing this, it affects his life so much. By being put in a excellent school, it offers many more opportunities than that of the other Wes and he can gather a lot more help/exposure to guide him toward a bright future. On the other hand, we have Wes (2) that is lost and seems as if he just can’t find his way, “Young boys are more likely to believe in themselves if they know that there’s someone, somewhere, who shares that belief. To carry the
men in his life while Wes 2 only had his brother to look up to and he was a criminal and drug
Wes Moore displays how his mother plays such a major role in his life at a young age. Wes starts off his memoir with an anecdote about the time his mother freaked out over his young self hitting his little sister. This shows that at a young age, Wes was being raised in a rule following household with parents who were trying to teach their children right from wrong. Growing up in a bad neighborhood,Wes may be used to seeing or hearing about violence but that is obviously not okay with his mother. Wes’s mother is trying to put him apart from the majority of his society so he doesn't end up violent and in the streets. This is a good part on Joy’s parenting and is how I was raised as well. Parents should teach their children from a young age like