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Boys And Girls Club Theory

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I have used the Boys and Girls club as a prime example in my theory but there are many organizations established that focus on the development of our youth. My theory focuses on establishing this structure in the school system and not be something that can only be obtained if it is sought out. It is a theory that has been proven to have significant impact through already established organizations. Key organizations such as Big Brothers Big Sisters (BBBS), an organization whose motto can be found on their organizations homepage follows, “We help children realize their potential and build their futures. We nurture children and strengthen communities” best describes the goal adolescent mentoring can achieve (n.d). Found on the website under …show more content…

Both the BGCA and BBBS organizations have are establish programs and have made a significant impact in many lives, not all the results led to a 100% success rate of alumni over the past 100 years. As Jean Rhodes (2009) describes in her book, Stand by Me, although one good relationship can transform a life, a careless approach can do tremendous damage to a child’s sense of self and faith in orders just the same (p. 3). The weakness in this theory is that not all individuals will acclimate and benefit from the structure and the results may not be as expected. Rhodes (2009) later explains that vulnerable children would be better left alone than paired with a mentor who does not recognize and honor the responsibility they have been given (p. 3). I will include myself in the weakness of my theory because in 2007, I volunteered as a Big Brother to a child named Nicholas. Three months later after we started to establish a bond I short noticed deployed to Iraq within two weeks and in the rush to get finances, my spouse, and other issues positioned I neglected to inform the program or my “Little Brother” that I would be leaving and left without any explanation. It was not until a few weeks later while I was in Iraq when I realized what I had done and still to this day I consider that one of my major regrets in life. I could blame it on being young and naïve but it was a lack of responsibility and can only hope no damage was done. The weakness of my theory would overall remain with the mentor, that not all mentors will be informed and

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