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Children Of A Child Life

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The need for siblings in a child life is a debate which has been puzzling people for as long as time. To people who grew up with siblings, they would argue that their lives would have been drastically different if they did not have them around, be it for better or worse. There will always be the worry that only children are not as adjusted as children of big families. New parents worry that if they have only one child, that child will turn out to be a maladjusted, antisocial self centred individual. The reason: there is a heavy stereotype that because only children do not have siblings to help them grow up, they are lacking in social skills and many of the abilities that children with siblings possess such as sharing, entertaining themselves and many more. Many parents feel burdened with the idea of having only one child as they think it makes them selfish as the child would be alone after they die. But in reality, the environment that the child grows up in would be much more controlled and safe. Family dynamic would be simplified by the fact that there is no worry for tension between siblings and parents. It has been proven that first born/only children tend to have higher IQ’s than those with siblings. I believe that though there is no perfect way to raise a child, through research and my own experience, having one child is a safer bet than having two or more. Within this context, I will show that having only one child is more beneficial for the child, his/her parents

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