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Conformity In The Things They Carried

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Conformity: Compliance with standards, rules, or laws. Behavior in accordance with socially accepted conventions or standards. Americans have been fighting in a tug of war with each other, are we individualistic society or are we a society where everybody is similar? I believe this has been swaying back and forth, where recently the swing has been going towards the individual side. Nowadays you see a lot of Americans fighting for what they believe in. We see that trend slowly growing in the youth. In the article Of Me I Sing: Americans Construct an Opt-Out Society, Alan Greenblatt claims that, “Americans want to go their own way. The right of individuals to question authority is one the strongest facets of American life. But the ability to …show more content…

In the book The Things They Carried by Tim O’brien, the character Tim, struggles with whether or not he wants to run away to Canada or go fight in Vietnam. After days of contemplating, thinking what was the right decision here. He either could conform to society and go to war, just like every other man being drafted. Or, he could be like the minority, that didn’t believe in the war, the ones running away. He decided to run, once he go to the river he really began to think about what was right and wrong. It was a social expectation, you get drafted, you go fight. It was that simple. But for O’brien it was not. He did not believe in this war. At the time he was a nonconformist. He was going against society's standard. At the end he decided to go, he was afraid of what the town, the people of America might think of him, “All eyes on me-the town, the whole universe-and I couldn’t risk the embarrassment” (O’brien 57). He felt pressure, the people of his town, expected him to fulfill his obligations. Throughout the time on the rainy river, O’brien faced an internal struggle. At that point he did not know what was the right thing to do. Should he follow his beliefs? Or should he do what the majority would do? After the mental tug of war he played with himself and the majority, he decided to go to Vietnam and fight for his country. However, he …show more content…

They struggled morally, spiritually, they didn’t want to make the wrong decision. For Tim the decision was to follow society’s obligations and go to war. In Janie’s case that was to marry someone, anyone, as long as she had a husband. For Tim you could argue it turned out horribly or amazingly. He went to war, he experienced tragedies, death, and pain. He hated it. However, it would have not made him the person he is today. Janie ended murdering her last husband Tea Cake. Well she didn’t really murder him, more like put him out of his misery after catching rabies. I believe conforming to society can be a great thing if society is truly in the right. In the end it all depends on what you believe in, who you want to be, who do you want to be remembered as? I agree with the idea of individualism however I believe that without a little conformity, we can’t actually be a society. That’s why I believe in it. Even though we are all a different person, we need a society to help guide us. We need someone to relate to. Without it then there would be no friendships, passion, or communities of people that share a love for something. Conformity, as we know is the reason we are who we

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