Anger is and always will be a part of life. My anger issues have been a challenge all my life. It has always gotten the best of me when I knew that I could do better. In my mind, it seems as if I can control myself and keep myself out of trouble. However, a situation always seems to find me. Due to my temper, an unfortunate accident caused death in my family.
It was a calm night and everyone is having a good time at the Mattox building. The music was blasting, people were dancing, and filling up the building. DJ Short was on the 1’s and 2’s and everybody jumping around and having a good time.. Me and older cousin Jeff was walking through the door laughing and joking around. While walking to the back wall of the building I was violently pushed
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This bet resulted in them losing 20 dollars.They were furious that they had lost the 20 dollars to us and that is what they came to get back. While turning around at the party and realizing that it was them I was raging with anger. I heard Jeff in my ear saying ,”calm down, just calm down it wasn’t worth it” ,but to me it was. We Stared eye to eye as tension was building. Without saying one word I hit him with a heavy right hand. He fell to the ground grasping his mouth while the other guy stood there quickly trying to help him up. He got up and he left yelling “I’ll be back, I’ll be back” out the …show more content…
The party now over and people spilling into the parking lot. They were still yelling and cussing and I could feel myself growing angry again. Jeff got in the car and cranked up while I stood in front of the door talking trash and yelling and cursing back at them. Jeff was really getting aggrivated at me because I let them get the best of me for the second time in the same night. He yelled at me get in the car it is to many of them. This time I realized he was right I was out numbered and I got back in the car. As jeff is talking to me he told me, “You can’t always fight every time you have a
All of a sudden I felt a presence behind me I turned around and all I saw were stars then I woke up with my face being pounded. Now back to the current situation; the man smack me on the face again and I got a good look at him, he was a tall half built man. If you would’ve seen him you would’ve said, he probably went to the gym to only do upper body workouts only. The man said, “You know it was your friend who set you right? He was the one who put this plan into action. “The man was talking a bunch of nonsense I didn’t want to hear, he just kept on talking and talking than I yelled out “shut up!”
After we finished our breakfast we were ready to get home and sleep. Walking to my car I notice the biker was sitting on my car. I look at him and said, “Can you please get off my car” he then replied, “what you going to do if I don’t spick” and then he spit in my face. I lost it and put him through the glass of my car. I had to attend agree management because of this event, but I didn’t change who I am.
I got in a fight with Baz. I tried to tell him that it was okay to be upset but he got angry. I was just trying to comfort him. I then decided to storm (I really just walked) out the door and started to complain to Penny about Baz.
Four of my best friends and I all got ready together for the dance after the football game. We we’re all having fun, dancing around, singing and laughing. At least I thought we were having fun. So we go in, give or money to the lady that takes it so we can get in, get our hands marked, and walk in to all our friends waiting for us because of course we were about an hour late. We danced and had a lot of fun but the fun quickly came to an end when my friends started saying things behind my back.
In our life, we meet many people that have anger issues. People have anger issues because they could have been abused by the people they love or they had a terrible experience from childhood. I read two books that had a similarity which, Ruthless from the book called Ruthless by Carolyn Lee Adams and Cole from the book called Touching Spirit Bear by Ben Mikaelsen. Cole and Ruthless have similarity in life, Cole was abused by his father, Ruthless experience during her childhood, and Cole and Ruthless have a difference in life. People could manage to control their anger issues by facing their problems.
After hours of straightening my hair, applying makeup, and getting dressed I finally made my way to meet him and his friend. During my walk I contemplated on how the night was going to go, but I couldn’t get Chase out of my head. Finally I greeted Jordan with a hug and turned around to start walking to the car, unfortunately to my surprise Chase was walking toward us. I had Jordan at my side and his friend Camron on the other and I felt completely stuck while Chase nonchalantly walked by with a short hello. Hundreds of thoughts ran through my head and I felt the blood rush to my cheeks and remembered that the man wasn’t mine and pushed him to the back of my mind. While waiting for the car to take us to Galveston I got a call that made my heart drop, it was Chase. I answered with an unbothered voice applying a facade of confidence and strength. His voice was filled with disappointment and anger, I became defensive and told him that I was just celebrating a birthday with my friends. Chase wasn’t moved, his mind was so set on me being disloyal and dishonest. I didn’t know what to do, at that moment I had two thoughts run through my head. Go see Chase and fix what he had thought he had seen. Or ignore him and have a nice night with my
He started moping around, all sad, and it all came to pass. I was confronted about it by another driver as I told that driver that #1 had two problems, 1) guilt because he slept with a bar-fly in Mexico, and 2) I wouldn't give him more money. Then I asked the driver griping at me to ask #1 if didn't spend money already given to him on a bar-fly. The issue, then settled because I said
Jeff tried to prevent the fight, but to no avail. He reasoned that we did not need the fan and to let Reggie have it, but I did not relent. I was right and Reggie needed to know that. I do not know what he went through to want to start a fight, but it ended with me being utterly humiliated in front of Jeff. When my mother found out, she was disappointed to say the least.
It was a Friday night, at the Peoria Civic Center. I was there for the Heartland Heroes Concert. This was a fundraiser for the American Red Cross. I went to the concert with my mom, Ashley, and her mom. RaeLynn, Scotty McCreery, and another local girl country singer was there. The concert was incredible. The concert ended at about 10:00 P.M. We all went out to dinner after the concert. We all decided on Buffalo Wild Wings for dinner. When we arrived at Buffalo Wild Wings they told us we could sit out on the patio or the bar. The main dining area was full. We decided to sit out in the patio. The patio was all enclosed, so it wasn’t cold out there. We chose to sit at a small square table in the back. There was only one other group of people out
Utilizing strategies and techniques to effectively manage anger can be difficult, the lack of anger management can result in serious consequences. The literature suggest that problems related to anger and aggression can cause difficulty in many areas of life. In addition, it can cause impaired functionality for
The disagreement was at weightlifting and it was over how fast I ran. Holly and Riley declared that I was faster than Aimmee since I seem to always to finish first. I argued back and defended Aimmee saying she was way faster than me. Aimmee heard her name and heard what we were arguing about and was offended by what Holly
Carter started to spit on my dug up the hole and when I wasn’t looking Johnna was behind me and shoved a pile of dirt on my new hoodie. I aggressively stood up and yanked the him down and said “Leave me alone, what have I done to deserve this?” and there was this awkward silence. Ms.Rancho walked over, telling me to sit on the bench and then she let the boys get away from what just happened and she accused me for starting it and told me that I will no longer have recess time, but I angrily told her “did you not see what just happened!?” And she quickly barged in, saying “ENOUGH!’ When recess time was over, we headed back and as I walked to my seat, Mike put his feet on top of my chair, so I pulled my chair, hoping that I gave him a coucasition. Mike said “ow” and his friends asked “what happened, bro?” he whispered and grindingly stared at me. When we were dismissed, my dad came to pick me up, and I was not aware that Johnna was following me but little did he know that there was someone with me, so he quickly tried to grab me by the sleeves, paying me back after what I did to mike’s feet and my dad was like “what do you think you’re
To spare all the details, I’ll cut it short. Some delinquent, for lack of a better word, ran up to Richard and robbed him. Both my friend and I chased him and tackled him about a block and half away. Afterwards, we spitted in his face and gave him a few kicks on the
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