Background/Overview
Statistics show that people who use online dating sites or dating apps has been increasing yearly. Dating digitally is easy, no one has to get ready or travel to meet people. There are sites and apps dedicated to certain groups of people, meaning no one will feel excluded, when searching for love. Almost as if there couldn’t be a reason why someone shouldn’t try it, just once. Multiple people have reported using dating sites at least once in their lives, considering it’s trendy. In the past two years, 18 to 24 year olds who have reported using dating sites or apps have tripled, while the number of 55 to 64 year olds using the sites have doubled (Smith). Since digital dating and hookup culture is on the rise, so are the potential dangers behind it, which include: scammers, fake profiles, and physical harm. The majority of apps have come to someone deciding if they want to meet someone based on their looks, but what about who they are and their past? Most people assume that the risk of online dating is low, and if there is a threat it won’t happen to them. Probably since the media doesn’t cover the hazards for dating online. It isn’t about where they met, it’s about what happened after they met. All in all, people don’t know how to spot the red flags of potential harm.
Current Context & Exigency
Looking closer into some cases, the results of a few dates from the online world went awry. A few examples of meeting up from online sites are the TV show
Online dating is perhaps the fastest growing industry in this day and age. In 2016, over 50 million people in the United States had signed up for online dating sites, which bring in an annual revenue of around 2 billion. As the reach of the internet increases, so does the ability of businesses to find exactly what customers are looking for. Websites such Match.com, Eharmony, and Zoosk boast couples that met on their site and have been together for years, as well as their abilities to find “the one” just by answering a few questions. With numerous success stories and an international market, love seems guaranteed. However, only 20% of all relationships started online stay committed and successful.
Are dating sites and apps being used properly and in a safe way? If someone lies in their profile and it puts them in any form of danger because of another person should they be punished or the other person? In the article, “Does youthful mistake merit sex-offender status?” by Jill Levenson informs us about how online misunderstandings are causing innocent people to be known as sexual offenders. Zachery Anderson a 19-year-old went on a date with a teenage girl he met on the app "Hot or Not" and they eventually ended up having sex together. The girl had lied about her age and was actually only 14 years old, making their encounter a crime. He ended up in jail and on the sexual offenders list because of a pure impulse and he thought it was legal. However because she lied he had to receive unfair consequences he shouldn’t have because he did a crime without his knowledge.
In her essay, “Digital Dating: Desperation or Necessity?,” Christine Hassler defends online dating from the negative stigma associated with the trend. Despite negative opinion of those who meet their significant other online, Hassler discourages her readers from allowing potential shame result in missed opportunities. Due to the internet’s increased importance in forming connections, digital dating should be utilized as a tool for finding relationships and becoming acquainted with like-minded strangers. Critics can no longer interpret online dating as a last resort for desperate elderlies because of the ingenuity of recent websites (Hassler). Overall, Hassler’s definition of online dating as a tool accurately portrays its practicality; however, her essay does not fully describe the escalated use of the internet among singles or successfully depict its disadvantages, such as the bias she addresses.
Throughout his book Modern Romance, Aziz Ansari the author develops and explains concepts that are involved in romantic relationships. In his arguments he describes certain points that explain how romances were modernized with the advancement of the technology. The growth of technology has created new sources of communication like for example socials networks and other websites in the internet that allow people to have an easier search to find a partner when they are looking for one. One of the biggest arguments that author talks about is when he describes how technology has played an important role in romantic relationships. The use of technology that exists in the present day has become excessive and it is a good argument to discuss in the essay. Up to today the online services and socials networking sites have become important factor s in the search for that “perfect someone” that people want to share the rest of our lives with, but at the same time it becomes a dangerous weapon that disappoints, lies and destroys romantic relationships. It’s not really that technology influences bad things; but it is more up to the responsibility of people and the purpose they use it for. The fact that the technology has become a very helpful tool to date someone is something very common to do nowadays but also it is dangerous because people do not really know who they are talking to or who is behind the computers monitors. Although
The internet has flipped the world on traditional relationships, and has opened up to the emergence of online, social dating. These online dating site have change the way relationships interact, gossip, flirt and communicate. However, numerous people do not understand the deception and manipulation aspect that comes with online dating. Forming a passionate relationship over the internet under false pretense can be emotionally destructive. Several studies have been performed in an attempt to explain and understand the non-traditional world of online dating. The sources explore and examine the self-presentation of online daters’ and the deception of physical attractiveness in the internet dating world. The significance of online dating is that users can create imagine of description about themselves and attract potential mates, how far will an online dater go to impress others?
Furthermore, cyber security is a huge problem with online dating that users should be considered. According to Danielle Couch, Pranee Liamputtong, and Marian Pitts, public health researchers at La Trobe University, people may approach strangers who have criminal or fake backgrounds, which exposes them to rape, violent behavior, or physical as well as emotional abuse (Couch, Liamputtong, and Pitts). Additionally, a professor in the Department of Communication at Stanford University, Jeffrey Hancock, states that social media also has the capability to enhance self-presentation by editing photos and personal information for the purpose of creating a better version of individuals as far as their physical appearances, personalities and their personal life (Hancock and Toma 367). Thus, social media is not a perfect intermediary to seek for romantic partners among adults because there is a high risk of exposing individuals to dangerous situations as well as meeting mismatched partners whose online and real-life personal profiles do not correspond to each other.
The generation of today enjoys their lives largely revolving around technology. You can go to school online, buy all of your groceries from your home, and make video conference calls around the world. Naturally, in order to meet these desires, the world of online dating has flourished. Millions of people are signing up for a variety of websites that guarantee happiness for all different types of people. For those who can’t seem to find the time to go out and meet other singles in their community, online dating is seen as a quick and convenient way to discover relationships. Online dating has become a popular new mechanism for seeking a romantic partner and initiating intimate relationships.
Homnack (2015) suggests that “online dating has changed the ways in which interpersonal relationships are developed and maintained” (p. 2); Online daters are granted access to use various platforms through which they can easily meet other singles alike to them. Holloway and Valentine (2003) highlight that “for marginalized people, the internet allows them to meet other people alike to themselves who may not be immediately available in their local social circles” (Pascoe, 2011, p. 9). According to Pascoe (2009a) “young adults especially are at the forefront of developing, using, reworking, and incorporating new media into their dating practices in ways that might be unknown, unfamiliar and sometimes scary to adults” (p. 117). Today, the main
In this paper, I have discussed how online dating is becoming popular and how the individuals are usually deceived by it. I have also discussed how the new television show Catfish is turning out to be a great example of how social media has changed online dating. All in all, I have covered the negative outcomes of online dating.
Nowadays people are meeting the same way but with a twist. More people are using the internet as a way to put themselves out there to see what they can reel in. Dating sites are presently one of the most popular ways of meeting singles. There are many different types of dating sites, choosing the right one just depends on the person’s interest. There are formal dating sites where what the person wants is a serious relationship, marriage, or just a good time. There are also websites that tend to be a bit more intimate. These intimate websites are for people looking for like-minded adults with sexy photos, seeking affairs, discrete relationships, shared sexual fetish and sexual encounters. Usually once the person has found what dating site they want to use, they person starts off by creating a profile, after that they design their profile by inputting information about themselves, post pictures, biography, interests, likes and dislikes, and what type of partner they are seeking. The users fill out these in depth questionnaires, some ask about 300 questions and some websites also track what users do online in order to create a more accurate picture of their preferences. Also some of these dating sites are free and others the users have to pay. Some might say it makes it simpler or a bit more difficult to find their partner. These sites use a complex algorithm to help in the performance of
Online dating allows singles, couples, or groups to meet each other online with the hopes of forming a social, romantic, or sexual relationship. Those that sign up with an online dating service typically provide information for other members to view in the form of a personal profile. This personal profile is the main deciding factor as to whether or not an online dater chooses to communication with another member of the online dating service. Online dating, a relatively new form of social matchmaking, has both positive and negative aspects to it. Just as any sort of social interaction can have pros and cons. In this topic, I am going to give reasons how on how online dating can be avantage and disvantages to us and what impact it has on
Unfortunately, with the increase in both options and popularity of online dating and its use, there has also been an increase in mistreatment of online dating and its users. There is no denying that online dating has the potential to really help people connect, reconnect, and make connections with individuals both locally and afar. However, like most things in life, there will be some people that will use things as intended, while other will abuse it. In general, persons that use online approaches to dating and relationships do so with good and honest
Similarly, some of the online dating and traditional dating ended in marriage and both could be a waste of time and resource like money if things doesn’t work out the way they expected.
What is online dating? Online dating is the way of starting a romantic relationship on the social net work by exchange information with someone else include photo, romantic message and songs without see by each other face to face. Millions of people now days are using the online dating to find friends, or soul mate. There are so many websites like Christian mingle, match. com, eharmony. com, our time, farmers match.com, and another website only for widow & widowers. com. All these websites help to meet men, woman of your dream or friends. A lot number of people prefer to meet someone online rather than meet someone face to face. Although online dating has become one of the most popular and effective ways for single people to meet and
In today's post-modern society, dating practices are both vast and varied. People meet their romantic partners in any number of locations including at work, at the bar, and increasingly, on the Internet. Online dating has become very popular over the past decade, and according to a study done in Washington DC, over 74% of single Internet users in the US have taken part in at least one online dating-related activity. In addition, this study found that 15% of American adults (that's 30 million people) say that they know someone who has been in a long-term relationship with a partner they met online (Biever, 2006).