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Drum And Ouiser Character Analysis

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Not all characters in the film are destined to get along. It is pretty evident that Ouiser and Shelby’s father, Drum, do not get along well at all. These two characters were never able to be friends with each other because they were unable to fulfill the two elements a true friendship needs. The textbook describes friendship as, “An interpersonal relationship between two interdependent persons that is mutually productive and characterized by mutual positive regard,” (DeVito, 2015). To be mutually productive means the people in the friendship are both doing what they can to enhance each other's potentials and build the relationship to become even stronger. Drum and Ouiser fail to do this in the film and instead act in the opposite way by portraying …show more content…

While there are many strong relationships, there are also familial relationships as evidenced through Shelby and her mother, M’Lynn. Their relationship does a great job demonstrating the characteristic of responsibility in family relationships. M’Lynn constantly felt the need to protect Shelby. She also felt responsible for Shelby’s health and well being. Our text explains this same idea claiming, “Family members see themselves as having certain obligations and responsibilities to one another,” (DeVito, 2015). We found that Shelby and M’Lynn’s relationship is based off of this element of obligation and demonstrates how a family characteristic can dictate how members act. For example, because of Shelby’s diabetes, M’Lynn constantly watches after her. When Shelby’s blood sugar drops in the salon, her mother runs right over to her and feeds her juice demonstrating her duty to take care of her daughter. If she was not a family member of Shelby she may have just uncomfortably observed the whole incident like some of the other women. However, because they do have a familial bond, M’lynn knows more about Shelby and her condition than anyone else; she understands that she is the only one out of the women that knows how to take care of her daughter during a diabetic …show more content…

Timid and shy, Annelle was not very open in communicating with Truvy. After Truvy critiqued Annelle’s work, Annelle began to open more and communication between them got better as time went on. There was a lot of lateral communication that occurred between Truvy and Annelle because Truvy was so down to earth and didn’t want Annelle to look at her as a boss, but as a friend. Since both Truvy and Annelle were both hairstylists, they were able to communicate in a way that did not cause for one to dominate the other. The relationship between the two was also a mentoring relationship. Mentoring is when a partnership between an experienced individual –the mentor– helps someone who is less experienced–the protégé, (DeVito, 2015, p.274). Truvy was an experienced hairstylist and Annelle had just graduated beauty school. Though she had learned much from beauty school, there were tips and tricks she learned from Truvy that could not be taught in school. As stated in our textbook, mentoring is perhaps best characterized as a relationship in which the experienced and powerful mentor empowers the novice, giving the novice the tools and techniques for gaining the same power the mentor holds, (DeVito, 2015, p.274). This can be observed by the end of Steel Magnolias when Annelle is doing other character’s hair as they chat in the salon. Annelle is moving without hesitation. She is multitasking and

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