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Esmeralda Santiago's When I Was Puerto Rican

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Esmeralda Santiago chronicles her beautiful life growing up in Puerto Rico and her early life in New York in When I Was Puerto Rican. Throughout her book she shares a number of these experiences which play significant roles in shaping her as an individual. She describes many of her trials and tribulations from the earliest part of her youth through to her life as a young adult. As her story progresses we watch Negi physically and emotionally grow into the woman she becomes. The transitions in Esmeralda's relationship with her mother, Monín, mirrors her coming of age over the course of her reflective memoir. Esmeralda's mother is the force of nature whose experiences transform into the strong woman Esmeralda becomes. Physically and emotionally prominent in Esmeralda's life, Ramona is an outstanding character in When I Was Puerto Rican. Not only does she give birth to and raise eleven children in her …show more content…

She faces years of neglect from the man she loves but still manages to find it in her heart to move on. Esmeralda has been a shadow to her mother during both good and bad times. She understands at a young age that most women are brought to this world to suffer the consequences of being a woman. Men were allowed to "look at women any way they liked...[and] say things to women as they walked," but women were not entitled to the same behavior and these social norms were drilled into Esmeralda from a young age (30). Men stomped over women, that's just how it was. Her father often took the liberty of abandoning Ramona and all of his children when things would go bad. On the other hand if a woman had done so, she may have easily been coined a puta. As much as Esmeralda loved her father he often disappointed her. Whenever she looked to him for support he often remained quiet. He became the reason for her to believe "that a woman alone...could not suffer as much as [her]

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