We’re all in our private traps, trapped in our own minds. Subsequently, we see ourselves as the protagonist, all of our actions easily justifiable. We know ourselves best—our strengths, our weaknesses—for the most part. We may joke we are never on time or we take too long to text back, all bad habits of which we are aware, but these are much easier to recognize than our major character flaws. We examine ourselves from one perspective: our own. We are familiar with the shock of seeing our faces from a new angle in the mirror or hearing our voice on a recording, but few of us have examined our character from the perspective of others. We should consider the opinions of those we value. Failure to do so can result in a variety of repercussions …show more content…
In middle school, my friend and I were not particularly “cool” but we didn’t care. Well, I didn’t care; he did. Once in high school, I was not hurt when he ditched me for the “cool kids” because I knew that he didn’t actually like them; he just wanted to be like them. I advised him not to bother with these peers, who did not treat him as an equal, because he had friends who actually cared about him. He disregarded my concerns (Indignation) and we lost contact. Letting go of his ego over the years, he considered my comments. Though he was stagnant for a while—out of comfort and maybe necessity—he began to realize the people of which he surrounded himself did not make him happy (Contemplation). My predictions were coming true: he was not valued by those he considered “friends.” Unlike those who came before, this person was willing to take the next step. Rather than simply acknowledging an issue, he also proactively sought a solution. He chose to brave the loneliness that comes with lacking a group of friends (no matter how fake). He learned that quantity does not equate to quality. But unlike the rest of us, he actually did something about his situation, choosing to spend time with real friends that value
3. Given that Mike and Marty Scanlon are twins and share some of their genetic makeup, how
What are the most five important things that have happened to your character in his or her life so far?
A person’s image is one of the most important social aspects from day one. It will decide a person’s friends, career, and level of success. Personality is a fluid aspect that ties a person’s image together. A person’s personality or image will change with company. In Nineteen Minutes, Jodi Picoult presents a motif of public vs. private self through many of her characters to show that things are not always how they seem and to make the reader evaluate who they are as a person.
Characters are often unsatisfied with their the place they find themselves in society. Discontent is what drives them to gain ambition in their ability to radically change their situation to one that is most favorable in their perspective. These changes differ from character to character, including alterations in their moral conduct, mental capability, or in something as easy as his way of dress. The ambition to change rests deep within the character’s soul, regardless of how simple their actions may be. Fathoming a false image of oneself not only damages the individual, but creates trouble for the people around them, such as family and loved ones.
In the novel, Speak by Laurie Hales Anderson, the main character is Melinda Sordino. Melinda started her freshman year terribly. Not only is Melinda an outcast, she is also hated and ignored by everyone because she ruined the end of the summer party by calling the cops. Melinda is emotionally distressed due to a sexual assault that occurred at the party. On the other hand, Melinda has a passion for art, but is having a hard time in art class. She doesn’t just have a hard time in art class, she has a hard time making friends, interacting, and expressing herself. At home, she hardly has a relationship with her parents and mostly spends her time at home in her room. Melinda is a quiet person with a lot on her mind. Academically, she is a decent student who barely passes her classes,
In Beneatha’s case Asagai is a better suitor than George, because George is caught up trying to live the American Dream. Asagai and George differ greatly from one another making them both foil characters. A foil character is known to have different qualities to help highlight the traits of the other character. For example, Asagai is seen to be an ideal black man, one who is attached to his African identity rather than having an American perspective. On the other hand, George can be seen as an African male trying to live in a white society. Clearly showing their character’s qualities are the converse of one another. George qualities of viewing how Beneatha dresses and acts clearly shows he is not capable of being with her. For instance, when George
When a bird is put into a cage, it feels trapped. Even if it wants to leave, it can’t. All of it’s decisions have already been made for them. When it tries to speak out, we shut it up. In the book Out of the Easy by Rupa Sepetys, Josie, the main character, was treated like a bird in a cage, trying to escape and always trying to seek help. The decisions her mom made impacted her more than the decisions Josie made for herself. Since her mom was labeled as a “whore” or “a prostitute”, Josie was thought of that as well. But Josie turned her situation around, she had a willingness and such strive to get out of her rusty cage, her miserable town; she didn’t let her past affect her future.
Imagine your worst character flaw being displayed for the entire world to see and make fun of you about it. What you would like to do is just go hide from the world for the rest of your life, but that was prohibited for Hester in The Scarlet Letter. For Hester, she committed adultery in the novel and she was given an “A” to wear on her chest. She wore the letter proudly and had to stand on the scaffold for everyone to see her shame with her child. For myself, I had to wear a past act that I was not proud of and I picked when I was the penalty in minute leader for hockey and I had shame on that. People should work hard to overcome their character flaws so that they are not embarrassed by their flaw in front of the whole entire world.
West Point is a place in which the development of one’s self and one’s character is among its top priorities. So much so that there is an article titled West Point’s Character Development Strategy which outlines the way in which West Point aims to achieve this development. In one of this document’s first few pages it states that, “Every team, club, department, and directorate has an overarching responsibility to build character or facilitate character development in each individual throughout the course of the 47-month cadet experience.” By making this statement, the administration at West Point truly drives home how invested they are in the character development of each individual cadet throughout their time at the academy in all facets of West Point life. To do this, West Point narrowed the focus of the broad topic of character development on the individual level down into five key facets; Moral, Performance, Civic, Leadership, and Social. Through my time at the academy, I can truthfully say that the focus on my individual character development was a priority and did fall in line with the five facets stated above. Throughout this development, it was made blatantly obvious that I have some flaws and some strengths in my character. Of both areas, it is easily discernable that my strongest facet is Leadership, while my weakest being Social. Despite some flaws within their design, I was able to determine these strengths and weaknesses using the systems that West Point has
By encountering difficult and uncomfortable situations they learned what true friendship was. Despite the group's diversity in backgrounds and characteristics, they grew along the way. To illustrate growth,”’Do you think I’m weird?’ ‘Definitely.’ ‘No man, seriously.
In many modern works, such as Shakespeare’s Macbeth, and Heart of Darkness by Joseph Conrad, pride is tragic flaw, and the undoing of great heroes. However, in Homer’s The Iliad, It is not clear as to whether pride is a trait to loathe or to love. Substantial arguments can be made on both sides, since both the hero Achilleus who ultimately is a victor, and the hero Hektor, who eventually loses his life both posses a desire for honor and glory. Homer uses these two characters to contrast the effects of pride on the hero and their respective outcomes.
Why is character important? Why is it important to be a person of good morals, ethics, and character? Can that make you more productive in life, family, school, business, work, etc. ?
Mary Gaitskill uses a third person perspective, along with crafty diction and insightful allusions to keep her reader’s in suspense through her piece of “Tiny, Smiling Daddy”. It is with these tools that Gaitskill is able to slowly change our perceptions of the narrator from likeable to confusion and ultimately ending in dislike.
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To sum up, it can be stated that 2 States is a superb work of Chetan Bhagat. In this work, he has laid bare various social issues pertaining to young generation ranging from love marriage, generation gap, dowry et cetera and also gives a solution of these problems. He has emerged as a realistic writer with objective outlook but leaves his readers to consider the prospective solutions of the problems they are struggling with. The narrative technique, language selection, episode selection and cinematographic treatment of the subject content are par brilliance and the readership is moved at each and every turn of the twists coming with the development of the novel till the very closing of the novel when it ends with the positive message of happy