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Essay About Character Flaws

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We’re all in our private traps, trapped in our own minds. Subsequently, we see ourselves as the protagonist, all of our actions easily justifiable. We know ourselves best—our strengths, our weaknesses—for the most part. We may joke we are never on time or we take too long to text back, all bad habits of which we are aware, but these are much easier to recognize than our major character flaws. We examine ourselves from one perspective: our own. We are familiar with the shock of seeing our faces from a new angle in the mirror or hearing our voice on a recording, but few of us have examined our character from the perspective of others. We should consider the opinions of those we value. Failure to do so can result in a variety of repercussions …show more content…

In middle school, my friend and I were not particularly “cool” but we didn’t care. Well, I didn’t care; he did. Once in high school, I was not hurt when he ditched me for the “cool kids” because I knew that he didn’t actually like them; he just wanted to be like them. I advised him not to bother with these peers, who did not treat him as an equal, because he had friends who actually cared about him. He disregarded my concerns (Indignation) and we lost contact. Letting go of his ego over the years, he considered my comments. Though he was stagnant for a while—out of comfort and maybe necessity—he began to realize the people of which he surrounded himself did not make him happy (Contemplation). My predictions were coming true: he was not valued by those he considered “friends.” Unlike those who came before, this person was willing to take the next step. Rather than simply acknowledging an issue, he also proactively sought a solution. He chose to brave the loneliness that comes with lacking a group of friends (no matter how fake). He learned that quantity does not equate to quality. But unlike the rest of us, he actually did something about his situation, choosing to spend time with real friends that value

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