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Essay On Barbie Doll

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After reading both Barbie Doll and Why I Want A Wife (WIWAW), I am taken away by how the two authors conveyed the same message in two completely different forms. The message is that women in society are completely objectified and told to conform to the whim of the opposite sex. In Barbie Doll not only is it the opposite sex, Sharon Olds argues that it is also the unrealistic standards that are taught to young girls by society at large. This specific messages can be tied into the overall theme of gender roles because they collectively paint a picture of a society where the role of a woman is essentially pleasing men, whether it be in marital instances or simply conforming to the needs of a testosterone dominated society.

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In WIWAW, Brady essentially wants a Barbie Doll as described by Olds. She wants the robotic, makeup wearing, homemaker that women are forced to become in society. She doesn’t actually want a wife, but this is her way of telling us that she certainly doesn’t want to be one. The wifely duties she focuses on are daunting and would repel anyone from wanting to assume the role. The roles of a wife, as explained by Brady, are so unpleasant that “wife” would be substituted with “slave” and the text would likely still make sense. She doesn't focus on the societal pressures on women as much as Olds does, but she gives us a more specific look at what a woman's role is in a marriage. Of course, things like cooking and cleaning are consistent with Olds’ message, but what is left out is the pressure to look a certain way while fulfilling the tedious task such as “passing out hor ‘dourves”, but it can almost be assumed that being visually pleasing at all times is apart of the role of a wife.

As a male I would hate to live in a world where I was always told that my sole purpose is to please a woman at my own expense. Both Brady and Olds hit the nail on the head with the picture they both painted. Olds shows us that it isn’t enough to just apologize for being “abnormal”, you also have to die to survive. I think it’s wrong because while conforming to a socially constructed role, all individuality is lost along the way. Brady shows us that for women, even after

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