Failure Is Not An Easy Concept

When I look at the word failure I didn’t see success. But that slowly changed as I read the book What the Best College Students Do by Ken Bain Chapter four. Bain, for me and I’m sure many other, have changed our view point on failure being a bad thing. He instead expressed failure as an “opportunity to learn something.” (121) As infants we grow and develop, we learn to walk by falling down a couple hundred times, and we learn to speak by babbling. By trying to walk, and trying to talk, we may fail at first. As an infant, you cannot give up when you are face to face with failure. You must get up and try again to learn. In the book, What the Best College Students Do by Ken Bain he uses people’s experiences and research to explain why failure is an opportunity to learn something new, rather than seeing failure as something bad. He asserts “people who become highly creative and productive learn to acknowledge failures, even to embrace them, and to explore and learn from them.” (100) Failure is important. If we did not get up and try again as infants, we would not be where we are today.

Have you ever failed in your life just once? Did that effect you in the sense of which you should being in the right track? The majority of people think that failure is the indication to improperly way of doing the things. Nevertheless, without failure taking place in our life, people were not getting to the evolution and modern science which facilitated human life in all aspects. Failure often makes unpleasant journey or spirit to the people but, it helps in the way to change and create magnificent success that would never thought about. Although that people have ideas and ambition to be successful, failure plays a significant role in their ability to achieve success.

Failure is a part of everyone's daily lives; however, depending on the person you are you

Failure is a difficult concept for many people to accept because it is hard to understand what failure exactly is. The idea of failure can be seen in the concluding chapters of The Great Gatsby when Gatsby fails to achieve his dream of being with Daisy. The issue of failure exists within all people whether they are successful or not. The issue of dealing with failure is a difficult hurdle to overcome for many reasons, which includes ideas

I’ve learned that failure is a common part of life, but how you perceive failure is what matters the most. There are a lot of uncontrollable variables that can dictate a situation. However, the one aspect we are able to control is our state of mind and it is imperative to have a positive mental attitude. As described by Shawn Achor, in Before Happiness, if you allow a pessimistic mind set to control your outlook on a situation. Then, one will only focus on all the aspects of the failure instead of looking on how to improve the situation. Perfectly stated by Winston S. Churchill “A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; and optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.”

People experience failure everyday. Some people choose to allow it to affect them negatively or positively. How you chose to allow it to affect you is a direct reflection of you. The biggest failure I experienced affected me so largely, first negatively, but then positively.

Failure can strengthen a person by trying harder the next time they face an event or fear, or even just anything.

“Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes”- Oscar Wilde. This quote means that if you don’t mess up a few times, then you can’t improve on what you are doing. Failure is a very important aspect in life. It can seem like it’s out to get you, but if you know how to use it to your advantage, it can really help you. For example, the three texts, “Are You A Loser?,” “Finding A Joy in Overcoming Obstacles,” and the poem “Invictus” teach us that we need failure to expand our knowledge, give us resilience to succeed, and give us knowledge on how to react to failure.

The human race cannot be successful in everything it pursues; meaning that failing is inevitable. Personally, I believe how successful one becomes is dependent on the method they use to overcome adversity and failure. If Thomas Edison had given up on the light bulb, we could be still living in darkness today. However, I now look towards something much less significant-- my own experience of failure. This one has stood out among every other failure that I have experienced. Junior year, I failed English. I want to make it clear that this failure was, without a doubt, the most significant in my life. It completely changed the way I approached not only my academics, but how I approach life in general. Failing this course had more of a consequence than than just having to take it again. It showed me that I wasn't applying all of my efforts all into a plan that was so necessary and crucial to my future. After I failed, the situation was out of my control, but it made me realize I had not picked my priorities well. I knew I had to move past it and figure out how to rise from my mistake. I knew the first step was to complete summer school. I attended, and ended up passing the class. Then came the new school year

The lessons taken from disappointment can be central to our future accomplishments. Failure influences us in a manner that permits us to develop and understand our potential. Failure teaches one in a way books and lectures couldn’t in any way, shape or form. I first experienced failure in the ninth grade after failing to make the cut for both the boys swimming team and boys step team at Archbishop Molloy High School.

The word “failure”, by definition, is the condition of not achieving the desired end or ends. However, this standard definition does not come close to summing up the countless other meanings of failure. Every person, regardless of status, color, or sex, has had to deal with this issue at least once in their lifetime. Even so, each person’s definition of it can vary depending on their personal experiences. The interpretations of failure may differ, but failure itself involves not putting forth effort, being a disappointment, or not succeeding in a task.

The mere thought of failing prevents an individual from achieving great things in life and this also makes an individual miss out on wonderful opportunities.

What is failure? It is defined as a lack of success in doing or achieving something. Failure is something that many people don't like to hear, but it's a part of life. It can be in a career, education, or everyday life. It's a step forward for some and a step back for many. You have to generally fail at something before you are able to find success. ‘’Failure is the opportunity to begin again more intelligently’’ as stated by Henry Ford.

Failure is something that we cannot go through life without experiencing. The best thing about failure is that failure can be used as a great learning experience to improve upon things in our lives and career. Using failure as a learning tool is dependent upon the person and how they view it as well as how they use it. Failure is a matter of perspective and the lessons in failure are important aspects towards growth and development. If we did not experience failure there wouldn’t be opportunities for learning. Failure can teach us about ourselves as well as provide an understanding for our

Traditionally, failure is seen as a negative concept and is defined as lacking success. I, on the other hand, try to put a positive spin on everything in life. I see failure as an obstacle that is experienced by all, but it does not define an individual. Failure in essence will force an individual to be more receptive to their surroundings and actions and also will force an individual to mature. Looking back on my childhood years I can now pinpoint the areas where I failed and I can confidently say that I have grown and prospered due to those failures. The three major failures I have experienced were my attention deficit issues which affected my ability to succeed in school, my anti-social habit that I let consume my early years, and my