A typical conflict situation I have experienced would be when one party misunderstands the other parties goals, motives, or attitudes about a given situation. The framing perspective states that conflicts may be influenced by the way the conflict was initially framed. Also, the way a conflict is framed may be affected by the interaction between the parties and frames may shift as the conflict progresses (Folger, Poole, Stutman 89). Fractionation is a good way to break down conflicts into smaller components, which can be dealt with more quickly and uncover possible umbrellas. An umbrella is a way for a party to legitimatize complaints when the original issue that caused the conflict is not accepted as valid. It is important for all parties to …show more content…
If a person feels misunderstood by another person, it frames future conflicts in a specific way unless the party breaks down the reasons they feel misunderstood. If a person feels misunderstood by someone else, they typically have a history together, which means there may be more than one reason why they feel misunderstood. For these reasons, it is important that the causes and details are discussed in a positive way. Reciprocity and compensation can aid in a positive outcome of these types of situations. Reciprocity and compensation are when each party involved strategically behaves or speaks in a particular way that influences the next move. I have experienced mutual influence in conflict situations, such as in the case of one party feeling misunderstood by the other …show more content…
The social identities could be related to race, religion, gender, or age. There are intergroup differences, but in many cases, these differences are not the primary cause of the conflict between the individuals. Communication plays a significant role in social categorization and identities. A person may feel misunderstood, but it is imperative that they do not jump to the conclusion that it is because they are a male or female, or based on their race. Everyone has different goals and beliefs, and they cannot be determined by social identities. If an individual goes into a conversation believing they will be misunderstood based on their gender or race, there is a strong possibility that they will feel that way after the conversation. Even though an individual may not appreciate why a person may feel misunderstood it is beneficial to communicate in a polite way by acknowledging how the other party feels. If a person feels misunderstood, they should examine why they feel that way. If their initial response is based on a social identity, they should reevaluate the situation and determine if other reasons have caused the misunderstanding. The individual could consider how they would feel if they were another gender or race and if it was different, there is the possibility that they feel misunderstood based on a social identity. If a person thinks they are misunderstood because of a
When people think of the word identity they might think of several factors of identity such as their name, race, sexuality, religion or other things that define the person that they are. The concepts of human identity have been created to not only label ourselves, but to also label the people around us so that we can have an improved sense of structure and order within our lives and society. Labeling people affects how those people are spoken to or interacted with in society. These labels confine individuals to act or think a certain way, which limits creativity. Labeling also affects whether a person is treated positively or negatively by other people. When people label one another, they put them in categories based on several things about
Everyone in the world has their own identity; have you ever thought about what your identity is? Identity plays a big role in the world especially in America where not all identities are good. People might identify a wealthy person as “snotty rich” or a poor person as “defective” or maybe someone calls a man a woman when they're really a man. Or maybe you call someone a terrorist just because they are middle eastern. The list goes on and on and thats why social forces influence identities and can become dangerous. Gender, race, and social class are all forms of social forces.
Racial inequality is a major source of conflict historically and presently in society. In Ernest J. Gaines’, A Lesson Before Dying, he focuses on the racial divide of 1940s America. Set in a small Cajun community, Gaines’ narrative highlights the vicious cycles of poverty and racism, documents the change in character Jefferson and his eventual embodiment of a hero figure, and relays the harsh racial tension Gaines noted in society.
Lesson Before dying is a story that starts with a murder Mr. Grope and two other men and innocent bystander Jefferson is charged with the convicted murder and sentenced to death. Since, Jefferson doesn’t behave like a man, his family asks Mr. Grant Wiggns, local schoolteacher to teach him how to become a man. The Main conflict in this novel is grant himself. Even though, grant struggles to manage the racist society, his main conflict is with his own mind because he is unable to face himself. Grant feels suffocated in the environment he belongs. Although, he grew up in the same environment. When he first learns how to see his family and friends positively, he becomes able to live in the South with confidence and courage. The novel lesson before
* Issues are more important and pressing and there is not enough time to deal with both
For centuries, violence has been the go to way to settle conflicts, but it has also been very controversial throughout the years. While some say war is important in order to maintain our freedom, it is actually a very unnecessary and destructive way of settling conflicts because it kills so many innocent people and it hardly ever accomplishes anything for such a hefty price.
In the Consensus Paradigm, the are many who are in agreement that marijuana which is used for medical purposes. I also believe that medical marijuana should be legalized because it is a product that helps thousands each year. Research has shown that marijuana oil has helped young children control their seizures. This oil comes from the flowering tops of the plant called hemp and dried leaves, this chemical (THC) in the plant alters the mind (Mikos, 2009). Many agree medical marijuana prescribed by a doctor helps calm people with ailments. There are currently 29 states that have legalized medical marijuana. The stem cells can now be obtained by a new procedure other than the use of embryonic stem cells such as using the cord blood or the use
The contemporary social issue I have selected is the discrimination of Muslims in America. I selected this issue because it appears to be a growing problem in the United States, and I believe it is rooted in racism, making it a two-part issue. Muslim is not a race, but in many Middle Eastern countries, Islam is the majority religion. Even though anyone from any race could be Muslim, it is only Middle Eastern Muslims that are targeted. As someone who is in the social work field, it is distressing for me to see a group of people be treated unjustly and experience many societal challenges based on their faith and race. Conflict theory is one theory that can improve people’s understanding of this issue. One of the main concepts of conflict theory is that “power is unequally divided and some groups dominate others” (Overview of Theories, 2008). In the social issue I chose, white Christians are the dominant group, and they hold more power than Middle Eastern Muslims. Power is not
Conflict, according to Wilmot & Hocker (2011), is defined as an expressed struggle between at least two interdependent parties who perceive incompatible goals, scarce resources, and interference from others in achieving their goals.
To being, the conflict system I grew up in was an aggressive system. There were many stressors in my household because my father had to possess all the power. For instance, if I were to question my father about his actions or beliefs I would get yelled at or put down for doing so. It was tough at times and I was afraid of talking to him about questionable topics or about some of his actions in fear of being ridiculed. Honestly, my father did the best he could and looking back I believe he was an aggressive father since he was a single parent. He had to prove that he was in control and his aggression was his way of proving he was the parental figure. Although it was difficult to see him as a parental figure all of the time, especially when he acted like a child, I still think of him as my father.
The three stories that I am going to talk about are “A story of conflicts” by Yeghia Aslanian, “Mother Tongue” by Amy Tan and “My way of theirs” by Liu Zongren. We can see how difficult is to made relationships when you move from one place to another and the culture is different. In the story of Zongren I see that people in China were so conservative at that time, and if sometime was unusual people will look at you and weird way. I want to mention this quote as example “her blouse was too open at the neck”. People in general have different thoughts, and custom around the world. Nowadays everything is more liberal and open mind. Also the people do not look at you in bad way for the way that you are wearing you can go out how you want it, wear whatever you want, etc. Is hard to live in a place that you have to take care of everything and do the things how people thing that are correct, because if you don’t, people will start talking about you and then you can get bad reputation.
I believe everyone here must experience some conflicts with someone in your lives. Since we are growing from different families, we may have our own way of looking at things. In a diversity society, we are all different. You can never assume someone totally understand another person or assume they understand you completely. Hence, we cannot avoid any conflict.
Conflict theory is the theory that human behavior in social contexts is the result of conflicts between competing groups, as different social groups, be they class-, gender- or race-defined, have unequal power and access to power, yet all groups compete for limited resources. This inevitably gives rise to tension and conflict, albeit often of the subtle variety, as oftentimes the conflicts between groups have been institutionalized in society to such a degree that the conflicts and tensions are such an expected part of society that the conflict, and inequality, itself disappears from public sight, and consciousness. For example, an adherent of a world systems theory of conflict would point to the global competition for resources, particularly the inequality between rich and poor nations struggling to provide the basic necessities of life to their inhabitants, as evidence of global conflict. Conflict theories seek to explain the interactions of groups within society, and assert that social order is preserved involuntarily through the exercise of power one social class holds over another (Lindsey, 2010, 7). The conflict between groups is not always obvious or apparent, so it must be unraveled and examined in order to identify and establish the impact of such conflict on society as a whole, as well as individual members and social groupings.
The way we identify ourselves is constructed from societal, environmental and family backgrounds. Most of the identities presented above are socially constructed by the government and group people in certain clusters that marginalize or praise people. The messages received from my mother, Isamar (older sister) and friends vary in all sections of the identity spectrum. Most people perceive themselves as how the government has labeled them and do not look outside of the box and realize who they really are. The color of our skin, gender or sexual orientation should not be able to determine one’s social class in contrast; our intelligence, skills and abilities are what should do that for us.
Many conflicts can be seen to arise as a result of a breakdown in communication. A key issue, therefore, in preventing conflict is the importance of ensuring that communication takes place as effectively as possible. Conflict frequently