Importance of Parent-Child Relations Many people are raised without a mother or father and end up seemingly normal, but they might not be as well off as they seem. The percentage of children younger than 18 living with two parents has decreased dramatically over the last 40 years (Collins). This shows that increasingly more children have to get by with only one parent, changing the way they may act later on in life. It is represented in the books Hamlet by William Shakespeare and Frankenstein by Mary Shelley that children are modeled after their parents, meaning parents need to give all the help they can. It is also true that mothers are more confident when in a relationship and will raise their child better (Collins). This proves that couples …show more content…
The monster realized quickly that he is seemingly the only being on Earth without a parent to guide him at birth (Shelley 69). He felt as though we was horribly wronged and needed to take revenge on his creator for leaving him (Shelley 102). Although children hopefully wouldn’t take revenge by killing their parent’s family, this can be translated over to them to show that they may want to take revenge on parents who may have left them (Telgen). They may feel wronged and angry at the world and they really do not have any way to fix it. The only real solution, which is impossible to force people to follow, would be for couples to abstain from having children until they are completely certain nothing will happen but even then, people change …show more content…
According to the article “The Importance of a Father in a Child’s Life” by Stef Daniel, in matters of substance abuse, depression, behavior problems and psychological maladjustment the love of a father plays a significant role (Daniel). The article “Daughters and Their Dads: The Vital Relationship” by Bill Muehlenberg states girls who grow up without fathers were “53 percent more likely to marry as teenagers, 111 percent more likely to have children as teenagers, 164 percent more likely to have a premarital birth, and 92 percent more likely to dissolve their own marriages.” (Muehlenberg). There are countless more reasons as to why fathers need to spend more time with their children. If Hamlet’s father had been kinder and a better father, the horrible tragedy that took place would have never happened. Likewise, if Frankenstein hadn’t left his own creation to fend for itself, it may not have risen to take revenge on him. These are fictitious examples but can still be translated over into real-life
Father and son relationships are much more complex when observed from a deeper surface. In Cormac McCarthy’s The Road, and Frankenstein by Mary Shelley, two different outlooks on fatherhood can be seen. In some cases, the role of a father-like figure can be unfulfilled, which leaves the child feeling isolated. While on the other hand, there are situations where the father can be seen as being a guide and mentor for the child. McCarthy shows how in a dystopian society; a father provides his son with unconditional love and care. Whereas, Shelley’s work portrays abandonment and lack of care provided by Victor for the creature. Through these two texts the father and son relationship is shown to play a prominent role in them, but two different
The monster was abandoned by Frankenstein. Eventually, he learns that he was a science experiment when he learns to read and finds Frankenstein’s journal. Slowly stripped from all that he wanted, he began to become vengeful, and ultimately evil. Many humans have run into this situation before, but the monster had nothing to hold onto except watching a family he would never be able to be a part of. When he was denied by the family he lost everything. The monster was thrown into an abyss with nothing to grab onto. When everything is taken from him, he is left with just a hatred for Frankenstein. Frankenstein created the monster just to leave him and the monster will never forgive him for this. He was born innocent and placed in a life of
The role of the father, a male figure in a child’s life is a very crucial role that has been diminishing over the years. An absent father can be defined in two ways; the father is physically not present, or the father is physically present, but emotionally present. To an adolescent, a father is an idolized figure, someone they look up to (Feud, 1921), thus when such a figure is an absent one, it can and will negatively affect a child’s development. Many of the problems we face in society today, such as crime and delinquency, poor academic achievement, divorce, drug use, early pregnancy and sexual activity can be attributed to fathers being absent during adolescent development (Popenoe, 1996; Whitehead, 1993). The percentage of
In the 19th century piece Frankenstein, author Mary Shelley presents a conflict between two main characters in a way that mirrors a conflict that would arise between father and son. This conflict occurs after Victor Frankenstein, the main character, is completely and utterly disgusted by the monster he has created, despite his initial desire for such a creation, and runs off in a severe state of absolute horror and regret.
The first lesson the monster ever learned came from Victor Frankenstein. Whenever the monster turned to his master for love and comfort, he was turned away with fear. As soon as Frankenstein saw his repulsive countenance, he ran away into the dark of the night. Right away, the monster was denied any form of nurture that could have potentially changed the plot of the novel. After stumbling upon a few unpleasant strangers, the monster only desired acceptance from human society with the help of the cottagers: “The more I saw of them, the greater became my desire to claim their protection and kindness; my heart yearned to be loved and known by these amiable creatures (Shelley, 133).” Some parents such as Victor begin ignoring their children from the very beginning. If kids don’t receive nurture from an early age, their personalities are shaped by the way they are treated: “These family disruptions are much more strongly related to feelings of fewer social supports and more negative moods and feelings (Science Blog).” Without guidance from his “father”, the monster attempted to make a place for himself into society. The monster’s heroic rescue of the little girl illustrates his good heart and innocence; even though his mind was slightly disturbed, all he needed was for someone to reciprocate his love. Giving undying support to a child is detrimental to their development. Parents play a huge role in their child’s life and should be present as much as
Some scholars have argued the notion that fathers are important contributors to their children and adolescents’ psychosocial development (Mandara, Murray, & Joyner, 2005). According to Allgood, Beckert, and Peterson (2012), researchers are beginning to understand the importance of examining children’s perspectives and the relationships and levels of involvement children have with their fathers.
For various reasons, many children in the United States are living without their fathers in their homes or absent from their lives entirely. This is an issue all across the world and the children are having to deal with the disadvantages caused by the lack of support from their fathers. This issue has a significant effect on society and can be viewed and interpreted from the three sociological perspectives. As a result of many studies, it was found that children raised in father absent homes almost universally experience disadvantages such as: worse health, poorer academic achievement, and a less enjoyable educational experience. There are many variables that need to be taken into effect when considering
According to the U.S. Census, one in three children, or approximately fifth teen million, are growing up without their father. This is what I would consider an epidemic because the numbers continue to rise yearly. With the numbers continuing to grow, American children continue to suffer. It is critical that a father is positively active in their child or children’s lives because father’s provide a sense of safety, mothers cannot teach a child everything that a child needs to know, and households gain balance when the father is present. I will now better explain.
In Mary Shelley’s “Frankenstein,” Dr. Victor Frankenstein has a fascination with life and death, particularly life, and through his scientific studies he decides to attempt to build a body and restore the lifeless body to animation. He succeeds in this, but once he restores the body to animation he looks in the eyes of his creation and immediately deems the creature a monster. He even, after only a few moments of animation, calls the creature a wretch. He then runs away, and when he returns his creation is nowhere to be found. Many other events occur where the creature comes in contact with humans and they deem him a monster as well. One even goes so far as shooting the creature after the creature has just saved the life of this man’s
The gothic fictions “Frankenstein” by Mary Shelley and Henry James’ “The Turn of the Screw” approach the importance of a parent role and the effect of such role on the child’s life. In Mary Shelley’s novel, she uses Victors past and present to demonstrate how the poor treatment from his parents lead him to poorly fathering his own child. In contrast, James’ takes the approach of showing parenting in a more overbearing and overexerted way, in demonstrating the relationship between the governess and the children and as their guardian how she seeks to protect them from all danger. This essay will look at these two works and how critics have interpreted this theme to view the similarities in the effects of certain parenting and the differences that led to these outcomes. In looking at the main characters of both narratives and their approach with their children it is possible to see how there must be a balance in the presence and absence of parental figure in the developmental period of a child or creature’s life. Moreover, if such balance cannot be attained this could be the leading factor to the detrimental downfalls of the families in these novels.
demon. Through these events, Shelley reveals that a parent’s neglect can lead to hostility and
The Structure of Family Developmental psychologist around the world have completed numerous research on how family structures impact the development of adolescence. Researchers believe these family structures influence how people interact with each other. From the Twilight Saga’s ideal Cullen family, to the spilt homes of Bella and Jacob, Stephanie Meyer can show how family life influences development of adolescences. The orphaned creature that Mary Shelly writes of in Frankenstein is affected by his lack of a family. Adolescent development is mainly broken into three sectors; physical, psychosocial, and emotional.
Most mothers and fathers love their kids with all their heart. As a child begins to age, parents begin to influence their kids and will mold them as they mature. However, parents without much care for their kids will leave a long-term effect on their children and in this study, the main impact is the father.
Secondly , the play Hamlet by Shakespeare, and the article by Jivani has negative impacts that hit the sons which were worthless because of their missing fathers.The second similarity between Shakespeare’s Hamlet and Jivani’s article is that the sons in each story experience worthless as a result of their missing father figures. Starting with Hamlet, Hamlet is the only person felt worthless without a father because his mother got married after his death and they replaced another king to rule is cludious. So it was normal to everyone but not to Hamlet. Subsequently of this reality Without his dad, Hamlet encounters worthless. A comparative story is told by Jamil in his article where he clarifies that as a son he also experienced worthless
By having a father in the home it enables the child to see a masculine role inside the home. The father’s role is not to act as an authoritarian for the mother for punishment, but to also give the child love.