Gay Parents Should Be Allowed To Adopt Children

In “Laws Should Support Loving Households, Straight or Not” (2002), Becky Birtha argues that homosexual couples should have the same right to adopting kids as heterosexual couples.

Should gays and lesbians have the same rights to adopt as heterosexuals? The laws of most states permit an unmarried person to be an adopted parent. However, many states have enacted laws limiting and in some cases prohibiting, lesbian and gay men from adopting. Adoption of children by lesbian and gay men remains controversial. A court must first find that the best interest of the child will be served by the adoption. Some courts have strongly rejected the notion that adoption by a lesbian or gay parent could ever be in the best interest of a child. This applies to same sex unions as well. Yet the United States has many children waiting to be adopted. Older children and those with special needs are the hardest to

Children raised by homosexual parents may be able to learn some life lessons that, were they raised in a traditional household, they would not have the opportunity to learn. These children may fare better in social situations, as presented by the website Kids In The House in their study, which states that, “...gay and lesbian parents sometimes have...an advantage over heterosexual parents…[k]ids that come out of gay households tend to be less aggressive,...more nurturing,...and more open to diversity (“The Studies on Children Who Are Raised by Gay Parents”).” These children, upon being exposed to a different way of life at a young age, are more tolerant and accepting of diversity in their life. Stephanie Pappas, when writing for Parenting, said that, “...kids of gay parents...may have the advantage of open-mindedness, tolerance, and role models for equitable relationships, according to some research (Same-Sex Parenting is Beneficial).”. Upon being raised in a non-traditional household, these children learn that being different is okay and that you should follow your heart, which are both valuable life

Hasty Generalization- People who have are in a gay marriage should all be granted the opportunity to adopt children, because they all want to have children at some point. This would be beneficial for society because it would alleviate the overcrowding in foster homes.

In 2015, over 428,000 children were in foster care (“Foster the People; Children's Welfare.”). Having lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender parents be able to adopt or foster can help decrease the number of children that are in the foster or adoption system. The question is whether having LGBT parents can help or hurt the children. Having LGBT parents can help the number of children in foster care, help kids accept who they are, and if these couples are married, then they should have the right to adopt kids. However, some think that people should actually go through a real relationship, with straight parents, instead of relying on adopting or In Vitro Fertilization.

Gay adoption is a subject which is widely debated. However over recent years gay adoption has allowed for most gay couples who want to adopt young children and give them a good quality of life, which they would have if they lived with their biological parents or a heterosexual couple, to do so.

The simple definition of adoption from a book by the British Association for Adoption & Fostering, “Adoption means belonging to and growing up with a new family when you cannot live with the family you were born into.”.( Shah 6) Adoption is being brought into another family when an individual’s birth parents does not want or cannot raise a child due to any reason. It was not their choice to be given up for adoption. Those kids are looking for good and new families to raise them and “An estimated two million LGBT people are interested in adopting.”. (Adoption Statistics 1) The estimate of two million people who are part of the community who want to adopt is a very large number. Many kids are looking for homes and those people who are interested in adoption should provide homes for those children without question. According to an organization called Lifelong Adoptions who are registered with the Registry of California Adoption Facilitators that linked to an equality maps, “Same-sex couples in all states can petition for joint adoption statewide.” (LGBT 1) which means it is legal to petition yet what goes on in the adoption hearing tends to prevent those couples from becoming parents. Hearings tend to bend or exaggerate the opposite side where the birth parents, the more

There are too many children waiting to be adopted and looking for their forever home, it doesn’t matter sexual preference if people are eager to be parents to those kids, let the kids have an opportunity to a better life of love and stability that will change a child’s life. Many kids would be grateful to have two loving parents and adoption should be legalized because any human being with a desire to be a parent and meet the requirements should have the right to do

Gay marriage has in recent times seen a growing number of supporters. With this comes parenting and the urge to start a family but, as everyone knows a gay couple cannot get a biological child from both of the parents. This complication leads to many couples turning to adoption as a solution. Gays like everyone else are just as capable of taking care of a child if not more.

More and more LGBT couples want to adopt. By allowing LGBT couples to adopt, you are taking more children out of foster care and placing them in loving homes. LGBT parents typically adopt the children with the greatest needs. Twenty-one of the fifty states currently allow for second-parent adoption. A majority of states no longer deny custody or visitation rights based on sexual orientation. There is no evidence that LGBTs are unfit parents (Lyons 25-26).

Many arguments exist criticizing why same-sex couples should not be parents. The main reason for debate exists within the religious community. Those who are strict followers of the bible believe that homosexuality is a sin. Therefore, they think this community should not be able to raise a child. Another argument presented in this article is, children in will grow up to be lesbian or gay, if they are brought up in a homosexual household. The author also explains that kids raised by two of the same-sex parent will be more likely to be bullied. It is true that children raised by a gay couple are more likely to be harassed in school (Clarke

There are hundreds of thousands of children who are in foster care and need a home with a family who will love and care for them. Families lead by same-sex couples are viewed as “non-traditional households” and these parents raise their children in very much the same ways as heterosexual parents. These children grow with their adoptive families and if their parents have a stable relationship with each other and with their adoptive children, and have great support systems, then it should not be difficult for those children to thrive in the world as children of gay/lesbian parents.

There are currently 107,011 kids in the U.S. foster care system that are hoping and waiting to be adopted, so just imagine how many of those children could be adopted if more lesbian and gay couples were able to adopt. According to lifelong adoption agencies more and more gay and lesbian couples are becoming parents through artificial insemination, a surrogate, or LGBT adoption. It’s hard for same sex couples to adopt because adoption agencies that have religious beliefs against same sex couples reject them, or a state law prohibits same sex parents. Same sex couples face much opposition from a large number of people even though they do not have well supported arguments for their beliefs. Many studies have been done in an attempt to figure

“About 19 percent of same-sex couples raising children reported having an adopted child in the house in 2009, up from just 8 percent in 2000.” As society changes there opinions on same-sex marriage they more gays and lesbians are adopting. There was recent rise in same-sex adoption but there is still people in U.S. that are against same-sex adoption. Recently a judge in Kentucky objected gay and lesbian adoption. This caused a huge uproar and had people thinking whether or not gay and lesbian adoption is okay for the children. One article feels that state legislators are putting more hurdles in the way of adoption and preventing children from getting into loving and caring homes (“Adoptions are declining,”2017). Gays and lesbians being able to adopt will provide loving homes, get kids out of foster care, and they choose to be parents.

First of all, homosexuals should be allowed to adopt. The goal of our adoption and foster care systems is to provide all children with permanent, stable homes with loving and supportive parents, but discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation, gender identity and marital status hinders that. State governments bear discrimination, economic costs, same-sex couples are denied the ability to build a family, and, most importantly, children in need of loving and permanent homes are left in unstable caregiving situations. Over the years' child foster care has increased by a big number. With all these restrictions on homosexuals trying to adopt children doesn't help the number go down at all. People are trying to start a family and they can't because people don't believe it's right