Mothers and fathers play different roles in society to provide a balance of qualities as they nurture their children to become well-mannered and independent adults. Although both parents play a prominent role in shaping their daughter’s character and personalities, mothers predominantly provide her with protection, emotional support, and a sense of reliance because they share feminine qualities. The novel, The Secret Life of Bees, illustrates the difficulties that young girl faces from growing up without a mother. Fourteen-year-old Lily Owens is often abused by her ignorant father, whom she calls T. Ray, and blamed for killing her mother. Lily’s closest motherly figure during this time is Rosaleen, her family housekeeper. Lily’s lack of motherly …show more content…
When Lily and Rosaleen start to live with the Boatwright family, Lily quickly realizes how compassionate they are. Lily idolizes their positivity and support, which makes them clear representations of motherly figures for her. When August sends Lily to the bee yard for the first time, she gives Lily great advice, to give the bees love. After all, she says, “every little thing wants to be loved” (92). This signifies not only that bees want appreciation, but so do humans. This also implies that if someone endures a long time without support, they become hard and sting. Ever since Lily was four years old, she has seen her father agitated and forceful towards her. T. Ray’s actions prove that he is an ill-equipped father for a teenager. By the end of the novel, Lily validates that living with the Boatwrights not only gave her one caring authority figure but several amazing mothers. Therefore, Lily needs positive mother figures to feel more worthy after she struggles for almost a decade. Evidently, a mother-figure would be affectionate to Lily no matter what she does or
In the novel The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd, the main character, Lily Owens struggles with the notion that she killed her mother and has to live with her abusive, neglectful father, T-Ray. Throughout, Lily searches for information about her mother and why she left her. Unexpectedly, she stumbles upon new mother figures that play an important role in changing Lily to the person she is in later. The typical sequence of a hero’s journey includes a departure, initiation and trials, and reintegration into society. By the end, Lily Owens developes into a more mature, independent young women after experiencing a difficult childhood.
Children often have intense arguments with their parents. While most arguments in this nature lead to more violent instances, some can also lead to easier, more fruitful outcomes and circumstances. In the novel, The Secret Life of Bees, written by the author Sue Monk Kidd, the author presents and goes in-depth on the relationships the main protagonist, Lily Owens, has in many different ways. In the novel, the author portrays the relationship between Lily and her biological father, who she refers to T. Ray as extremely volatile, Irrationally intense, and full of conflict. She also depicts the Link between Lily and her stand-in mother, Rosaleen, as peaceful, easy/loving, and full of co-operation. Although the relationship between Rosaleen and
The devastating tragedy of losing a person's mother at an early age can drastically affect that person's life. It can impact the way someone thinks, corresponds with others, and the way someone handles themselves emotionally. In the novel The Secret Life of Bees Lily Owens loses her mother at the early age of four. During Lily's journey she finds comfort and support in the women that she meets. Throughout the novel Lily goes through many changes because of the impact of the motherly figures of the Black Mary, Rosaleen, and the Calendar Sisters.
No one can go through life without other people having an impact on their existence. They may have an impact that can change us, for better or worse. In the book The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd, the main character, Lily, runs away from home and comes across many different people on her adventure. The characters that have the greatest impact on her are: T. Ray, her father; Rosaleen, her caretaker; and August, her catalyst for self-healing. Lily starts her life with her father, who is the dominant negative influence in her life. Lily loses her mother when she is only four years old. Her caretaker, Rosaleen, steps into her life as a maternal figure and exerts a positive impact over Lily. After running away from home, Lily, with Rosaleen,
The Secret Life of Bees written by Sue Monk Kidd, is a Bildungsroman fiction novel published in 2002. This story takes place in Sylvan and Tiburon, South Carolina, where a 14-year old girl named Lily Owens lives a lonely and difficult life with her father, T-Ray. In order to escape her past life and haunting memories of her mother’s death, Lily and her caregiver escape to another town in South Carolina, where for the first time in her life she feels like she can call this place her home. Kidd develops the plot through internal and external conflicts of Rosaleen to illustrate how people’s lives are more complex than they appear.
The Secret Life of Bees includes many issues that were going on during the 1960’s. Some issues stated were more sought after than others depending where in the country one was located. In the book, Lily lives in the heart of the south, South Carolina, which makes it easy to point out specific, debatable topics. With this, The Secret Life of Bees portrays many of the movements and issues prevalent in the 1960s like Gender Issues, the Women’s Rights Movement, and the Civil Rights movement.
In the book, The Secret Life of Bees, there is a significant bond within the female community in Lily’s life. These women not only teach Lily to love herself and others, but to pursue love. It is through the guidance of her community, Deborah. Rosaleen, the Boatwright sisters, and the Daughters of Mary, that Lily is able to gain strength and growth, mentally and emotionally. Her journey begins with two women who are Lily’s first mother figures, Deborah and Rosaleen.
Formerly, remarkable American literature has been composed and eventually studied by high school students to educate them on a certain topic that is being discussed in school. Despite some high schools are very precise about which pieces of literature they allow in their school curriculum for their students to read and learn from. One book in particular, that is being challenged by several schools and organizations is "The Secret Life of Bees" by Sue Monk Kidd. This book is introduced in 1964 in the heart of Sylvan, South Carolina. It illustrates the story of a fourteen year old girl named Lily Owens, who has had a difficult past, beginning with the death of her mother; Deborah. Throughout the book, she ignites a journey on learning how to understand the ways of the world through the secret life of bees, which enlightens her spirit and search of love. Although "The Secret Life of Bees" is a classic piece of southern American literature that features racism to help deliver the overall concept to its readers, it should be included in a high school curriculum to help educate and enrich young adults' cultural mentality.
In The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd, Lily Owens, a 14 year old girl from South Carolina, is forced to run away from her abusive father, T. Ray. She must learn how to live her life as Lily Williams in the home of three black women, August, May, and June Boatwright. She needs to find out who her mother is before it’s too late, but will she? I chose three quotations that show the theme of the story.
Secret Life of Bees is a historical fiction novel by Sue Monk Kidd. The novel focuses on, and is narrated by Lily Owens, a white fourteen year old girl. Lily changes throughout the beginning, middle, and end of the book. Three problems Lily faces in the book is racism, her relationship with her mother, and her relationship with her father.
In The Secret Life of Bees, we meet Lily Owens. A bright, curious and hopeful young girl, all Lily wants is to discover the identity and story of her late mother, Deborah. Lily’s situation at home is rough. Aside from the fact that Lily has no mother, she also lacks a loving and devoted father. T.Ray, Lily’s father does not even come close to filling the position of a good parent let alone her mother. Although Lily has an absence in her life of influential characters who should be there to shape and guide her, she does acquire one important figure in her life. Her family’s slave, Rosaleen is the closest thing to a mother that Lily had. Rosaleen truly cared for Lily and knew her better than her own father probably did. Rosaleen is the strongest and most prominent source of love and care in Lily’s life. Even though Rosaleen will never replace Lily’s mother, she
When Lily´s mom died, she only had her father T-Ray, who was not a very good guardian. T-Ray would let his anger out on Lily and sometimes he would hurt her, one example would be, one night Lily was outside and accidentally fell asleep. In the morning T-Ray caught her, he thought she was out there with a boy so he made her kneel on grits for a long period of time. T-Ray does not really care about Lily, he always forgot when it was Lily's birthday, but Rosaleen always remembers and usually makes Lily a cake. One night there were bees coming out of Lily's walls in her bedroom and they flying around her room, she yelled for T-Ray to come in and see, he came in they are all gone. He says ¨If you get stung, don't come whining to me, cause I ain't
In the story, The Secret Life of Bees, the theme, power of motherhood shows up often. It is one of the key themes that make this story unique and heartwarming. After Lily’s mom was murdered, one of their servants, who goes by the name of Rosaleen, stepped in to be Lily’s caretaker. The two of them became very close and Lily needed that mother figure in her life. Lily found some of her mother’s old things in her attic and in it was a picture of a Black Mary. Lily would examine these pictures and wonder where they came from. The back of the picture said Tiburon, S.C. on the back of it. This picture also symbolized that small hope that Lily had that maybe her mom was still alive. After Lily had finally had it with her mentally and physically
Many people in their life will feel compassionate towards another person or character in a novel because of their personality, behaviors and actions. In The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd, the protagonist, Lily, has a father referred to as T. Ray. In the beginning of the book, typical readers may label T. Ray as the antagonist because he is described an abusive, cold hearted character. After reading and learning more about his past, T. Ray can eventually be considered a sympathetic character. With the death of his wife and the constant reminder of her every time he looks at his daughter, T-Ray has reasons for being portrayed as a cruel and resentful person.
The importance of bees as a symbol is shown through essential mothers and everybody’s part to play. To begin, “I [August] want to get the hive requeened before one of the workers starts laying. If we get laying workers, we’ve got ourselves a mess,” (Kidd 287). This signifies the need for a mother. Without the queen fertilizing eggs, the bees die off; without a mother, people do not flourish. Lily demonstrated this well by running away to find a connection to her mother and fill the gap in her heart. She had little direction besides the wisps of memory from her mother and abuse from her father. Then, when the Boatwrights came