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Grief In The Things They Carried

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Some of the non-tangible things in The Things They Carried are grief, terror, and responsibility. Although all characters showed examples of each I am going to point out a few specific ones. A good example of responsibility is Lieutenant Jimmy Cross who carries the responsibilities of the soldiers’ lives and to protect them every day. He leads his soldiers and gets through difficulties no matter the circumstance. He also carries the guilt of the death of Ted Lavender and Kiowas death because he was preoccupied with his love for Martha and dreaming of her love. He thinks it is his fault because they stayed in a field rather than going to higher ground. Jimmy carried his wife’s love with him everywhere he went. Rat Kiley …show more content…

Norman Bowker also dealt with grief after the death of Kiowa, he kept trying to think of ways he could have saved Kiowa. All of the soldiers carried grief, throughout the Vietnam war, whether it was them grieving from another soldier dying in front of them or them wanting to return home to their families or just from the stressful challenges of war. They carry an emotional baggage every single day that you can’t physically “see”. Being in a war like that can really be emotionally exhausting. They are fighting for their country every day, all day. Coping with the stress they encountered every day and just wanting to return to their family shows that they had a lot of burdens weighing them down in the war even if you couldn’t see it, unlike the tangible items they carried. I think Tim O’Brien puts more emphasis on the intangible things because it’s not something you can exactly see or hold. You may not know what things people are “carrying” if they are intangible. I think he wants to emphasize that you should be careful by what tangible items people may keep close to them because even though you can see those items you can’t see the intangible …show more content…

A character who is easily deceived by his lies the most is Othello. Othello is a very trusting man, he trusts Iago when all he does is lie and manipulate everyone in the play. Iago lies to Othello about Cassio having an affair with Othello’s wife, Desdemona. Iago lies about the handkerchief that Othello gave Desdemona as her first gift because he knows it is important to them and their fidelity. After Iago’s wife steals the handkerchief it ends up with Cassio so then Othello really thinks that Desdemona is having an affair. Othello kills his wife after he sees that Cassio has the handkerchief. To me, this shows how trusting Othello is. He trusts Iago so much that he trusts him over his wife even when there is absolutely no proof of Desdemona having an affair. Othello is proving that he is very naïve. Another example that makes Othello an easy target for Iago’s lies is one of his flaws, jealousy. Othello is insecure so he gets very jealous when it comes to Desdemona. Othello is easily manipulated by Iago because he is so insecure that he thinks that his wife would actually leave him. Othello is insecure because he is black and an outsider in the Venetian society and thinks he is not worthy of love. This causes Othello to easily believe his lies because he fears his wife doesn’t truly love him which makes him extremely jealous. He would have nightmares about Desdemona and Cassio, so he was very

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