“She’s not named after you.” How I Became a Big Sister
This is a compilation of memories from a five year old girl when her world was turned upside down. I, the author, am recounting events that happened approximately 9 years ago. The events written here took place early April in 2008, when my little sis was born. I wouldn’t be the same without her.
First, a little background on my family. I have two older brothers, the first born is 16 years older than me and the other is 14 years older. I also have a big sister who is 13 years older than me. Then came me. My mother had had a few pregnancies between us which caused the gap. When I was born, all my siblings were well into their teens. I was spoiled, treated like royalty even. My life was
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Suddenly, out of the blue, there was a new baby. I don’t remember my mom being pregnant. I don’t even remember a hospital stay. Basically, I thought my mom had woken up one morning a decided she wanted a baby. So, she drove to the hospital and got one. However, It never really clicked that we had to keep the baby. I kinda assumed we’d play with her a while and the I could go back to being the Queen.
The whole week when mom was in the hospital was really weird for me. I knew something was changing,that something wasn’t right, but I had no idea what. For some reason, mom wasn’t at home. Dad didn’t go to work. Grandma and Grandpa were there. And Why was everyone bringing us casseroles and lasagnas? It was really confusing for me.
Grandma and Grandpa were staying at my house with me while mom and dad were at the hospital. One day, we went to visit my mom. At this point someone had explained to me what was going on but I was still a little confused about somethings. For example, why was my mom staying at a hotel, The Hospital, so close to our house? Anyway, while we were there, it just so happened that my Great Aunt Charlotte had also stopped by for a visit. (Side note: Great aunt Charlotte is my Grandma on the Wray side’s
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I guess I overheard a conversation about how she wasn't named after the great aunt, but Mom just liked the name. So, when someone said, “ Jaynie, this is your Aunt Charlotte.”, I remembered the conversation about the name. So I walked over to her, looked her in the eye and said something like, “ Just so you know, she’s not named after you.” I’m not sure what happened after that but I think she left pretty quickly.
I also remember going in and seeing my mom, probably for the first time since she had the baby. I remember just sitting on the bed drawing while she talked to me. (I loved to draw at the time and was sometimes called ‘Little Picasso’.) This was the first time that it really clicked. We weren’t just going to go home and everything would be back to the way it was. This wasn’t a game of pretend. After mom came home from the hospital there was actually going to be another baby.
Life never did go back to the way it was. It was weird for me. My whole life I was the baby, and I loved it. To top it all off, this baby was STUNNING. I mean she was a gorgeous baby.(And still is.) She had the brightest blue eyes you ever saw, and I swear she smiled from day one. Little me might’ve been a little
I was born in Kaiser Permanente at night. My mom said that my aunt drove her to the hospital. During that time my dad was at work. My mom said that I took the longest to be born and that I was the hardest to be born. My mom didn’t know my gender so it was a surprise when they found out I was a girl. I weighed about 7 pounds and I was about 20 inches tall. She also said that i was a clean baby and that I had smooth skin. She was happy when I was born but it wasn’t very emotional when she first held me because she already had 4 children before me. When my mom found out that she was pregnant she told my siblings so it was no secret. She told me that my dad had chose my name.
The next four days in the hospital allowed me to regain myself, and I remember my mother and father visiting me filled with
During the summer my family and me went on vacation to mexico to see my grandma at her house it took us 2 days to get to her town is mexico when we got there is was 11 at night my uncle opened the garage door to let us in when we got off the car my grandma opened the door to let us in her house she gave everyone a hug the her and my mom started to cook food for everyone. After everyone got their suitcases out of the car and took them to there room my mom and dad slept in one room, my sister and her daughter slept in another room and my nephew and me slept in the living room. The next day my dad showed me around the town he grew up in where his other family members who lived there, and his aunt who owns a store on the corner of the street. When
When I woke up my grandma was cooking again I went to the table and talked to her for a little. The my other cousins came because my grandma had to babysit them they ran to the table and said hi then they played with my sister and my cousin that lived in that house. We stayed in Colorado springs for one week then on the second to last day we all went to my uncle's house and everybody in my family was there to visit everybody before they leave. When we were there they had food but before I ate I was watching the Denver
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After my mom came inside and brought in all her stuff and said hi. She told us to sit down. She told us she did not know if our aunt Mary was going to make it because she was not doing very well. First thing that went through my head was all the memories my family had with her and her family. The 4th of july, Christmas, getting our christmas tree, going up north every year and always going to their pool in
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I went into the hospital on February 15, 1991 at 7am and they popped my stitched and made me walk the hall for 8 hours to see if I was going to have any type of labor pains, but nothing happened so they did an emergency c-section. Due to complications, no one was allowed in the birthing room. Your father remained in the waiting room with brother, grandmaw and grandpaw, and your nanny. I honestly didn’t prepare for your birth due to the fact that I was on strict bed rest and your father was busy working and tending to your brother so life was pretty hectic. We just did what we had to do in order to get by. In fact you didn’t even have a nursery because we didn’t have the time. I couldn’t leave the house to pick what I wanted, so all we had was a baby bed in our bedroom until we were able to get situated. The only medication and procedures involved during your childbirth was an epidural and a c-section. My whole pregnancy consisted of
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When we got in the room I was told I will be given numbing medicine through an injection in my lower back. I felt a little pinch and then before I knew it my whole lower half was completely numb. I was still in and out of sleep, I slept through most of the C-section and exactly at 4:44am my son was officially born and he was 5 pounds and 4 oz and 18 inches long and he was healthy. They let me look at him and in that moment I fell in love I was now a mother. It was the greatest feeling in the world and I was happy to have experienced such a beautiful moment. I was brought back to my room and the doctor came in to congratulate me "Congrats on your baby boy he is beautiful and healthy and everything will be just fine with you and him" she said with a big smile on her face
June 8th, 2008 was the day my whole life turned upside down. It was a hot and humid Sunday afternoon. My blond, curly headed six year old self was taking a nap on the couch in our living room with a huge window that looked out over our front yard. I used to love to stand at that window during the summer and look at the bustling neighborhood. My mom and little sister were taking a walk around the neighborhood, while my dad was in our garage tinkering with something.
We were on our way to Green Bay, the place I was born. We love going to Green bay because it's where i was born obviously and it's where most of our family are living right now. Going to green bay is like a birthday present to me because i rarely see my cousins. We finally arrived to green bay because i'm familiar with the cities that are there for example when we arrive there a huge circle of grass in the middle of the road and you have to drive all the way around it to get to the other lane. We called my auntie and we were waiting for her to call back so we can go over to her house to spend the night in for a couple of days. After a while we got her call and she said she was ready for us so then we went over