It was a Monday morning and the topic of everyone's conversation was the past weekend. Usually explaining how drunk they were and the uncontrollable mishaps that we didn't even remember until the next day. For example, they tell their friends "Man, I was soooo wasted last night, I must have drank like 10 beers and like half a bottle of vodka", all told with smile of excitement hoping to do it again the next weekend. This regular occurrence got me thinking, why do we brag ourselves and praise others for accomplishing something that requires absolutely no skill? In short, why do we get drunk?
I feel that some people drink in order to knock down or at least lower the wall of insecurities they have built up inside them even for just an
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One weekend night after drinking too much Smirnoff Vodka, Mike decided he didn't want to be a friend to a certain girl anymore and was going to change all that. Unfortunately, this turned out to be a failed attempt for Sean where he admitted his true feelings which weren't mutual. In effort to erase a sense of rejection with an excuse for his actions, Sean later told her "I wasn't serious, I was just really drunk" to avoid any awkwardness between them.
Alcohol is frequently used to wipe a bed memory or experience. After being fired from a job or attempting to deal with the loss of loved one, an outlet for many people is to "drink away their problems." For example, my Uncle became an alcoholic because he blamed himself for the accidental death of his twin brother. He would constantly drink to try and numb the unforgiving pain and regret of a fateful day where his brother was killed in a motorcycle accident.
In many instances people drink to simply have a good time. I interpret this statement as though people enjoy having no sense of control, no restraint to any rules or any form of order. They may enjoy the thought of having no idea where the night may take them and what they may do while they're detached from their usual self and regular behaviors. Also, younger adults who are underage may drink just to go against the rules. Getting drunk because they are told by their parents and the law that they are not allowed to and no longer wish to
Randomly, people will turn their drinking habits into a reason why to drink. Whether they drink to just have fun, to release some stress, or because they drink to help with various sorts of problems. Often, the alcoholic in the family starts drinking too much, causing the family to always be on edge and be cautious with his mood swings, because they never know how they’ll end up acting. Often in times a sign of abuse on alcohol is when ¨Legal problems, such as being arrested or harming someone else while drunk¨ said researchers in Talbott Recovery. Once the alcoholic figures what kind of power they have over the family, they’ll often tend to use it in a more manipulative way, to make sure they get what they want in the end of the day. And when they’re drunk, they could care less about the family and just desire to get another bottle, and to let their emotions/actions lash out. That is when a person ends up becoming an
Alcohol helps people remove their barriers; lose their inhibitions, and form friendships, relationships, and acts as a social lubricant. In Australia many business deals have been conducted over a drink or two.
Alcoholism is a demon, a disease, something reached for out of desperation. It helps with a person 's problem by deadening their senses, and increasing his problems at the same time by destroying his character. When you drink, you don 't have to think about all your problems, you can just let the alcohol wash them away from your mind. But it can never take away all your problemsthey still remain, just your sense to care for them is gone. Alcoholism has a great chance to pass on to later generations, but sometimes growing up in an alcoholic family will make the children swear off the drink because they have seen what it can turn people into. It turns them into the basic raw human emotion of grief. They are miserable for alcohol is the only thing that can make them feel normal after awhile, their entire bodies ache for it. Even when they have given up drinking, their bodies can revert back after having just one drop again. Yes, alcoholism is truly a terrifying disease of the mind and bodynot just to the addict, but also to the loved ones
Many people, including alcoholics, are not fully aware of the devastation caused by alcohol abuse. Not only does alcohol have an impact on physical health, it causes a host of problems from a mental and emotional standpoint. This addiction is not only harmful to the body, it tears families apart, leads to job loss, and often causes isolation for the person who drinks.
It drives them to drink, to forget about all their sorrows. Alcoholism is a disorder, and it is very sad when someone comes to that point. When you drink you are in a different state of mind. The way alcohol makes you feel masks the feelings of sorrow and, for many, aids the process of forgetting problems in one’s life. The forgetting phase, though, only lasts as long as the buzz. This causes people to drink increasingly to stay oblivious to the pain. Papaw in the book Hillbilly Elegy drinks intensively to forget about the miscarriages that him and Mamaw have together. I believe that is a major reason Papaw turned to alcohol.
In today's 24hr consumer society alcohol is suddenly always available so the act of escaping from your problems is made that much easier for you. The problem is that if you turn your back on a problem, it will only grow so by drinking alcohol nothing is being solved. Another negative side of alcohol is that it is a depressant, which will only make you consume more making the problem worse until the continuing cycle of events will lead to an alcoholic losing complete track of what
I understand that, at least for me at the time, drinking was a way of connecting with friends, to socialize with strangers, and to alleviate the shyness. But in hindsight, I noticed there was a change from wanting to needing a drink. It was a way to deal with the tree of work and life itself. Years later now my wife and son are in the picture, I do my best not drink "that much" at home, but still finding a myriad of excuses to do so.
There are many reasons why people drink, and one of the main reasons is to feel good. Research by the national core and alcohol and drug survey shows that college students have a lot of different reasons for drinking. 76.2 % say it breaks
Drinking can cause a person to have a complete personality change and become violent or hostile after drinking. They may also become irritable or panicky during times when a drink is expected. An alcoholic may drink to the point of black out; this is where they don’t remember what they’ve done or said that happened during a bout of drinking. A definite red flag for alcoholism is when a person has to have to drink in the morning when they first wake up.
If people see alcohol being used in a positive way in the media or through advertisements, they might ignore the consequences that it comes with such as making decisions they might regret, getting sick, getting addicted, etc.
Relaxation, celebrating, and socializing are often reasons people engage in alcohol. However, the enjoyment of alcohol in moderation may become difficult for some individuals to manage when using alcohol as coping mechanisms or scapegoat, for other underlining issues: personal, social and work-related concerns. Unfortunately, lack of proper management may or can result into alcoholism. According to the DSM-V alcoholism is diagnosed as alcohol use disorder or alcohol addiction, in which a person becomes physically and psychologically dependent on alcohol to the point that he or she cannot function without it (American Psychiatric Association,2013).
To be drunk is to lose yourself in a venture other than work. People should be able to lose themselves in something they love. People should be able to enjoy what they love. As Charles said “Be drunken, if you would not be martyred slaves of Time; be drunken continually! With wine, with poetry, or with virtue, as you will”. Some people get drunk off of reading or traveling. Everyone has something. Charles took his own
Plenty of people always seem to ask “what are the causes of alcohol abuse?” As a matter of fact, there are many origins that come to mind when actually thinking of why people drink alcohol excessively. Alcohol abuse can run in a person’s family, or sometimes it may be caused by the environment a person is in or if someone is taking on stress (WebMD). When people are frazzled or feel as though they are facing a serious issue within their life, they tend to feel the need to turn towards drinking alcohol so that they can get rid of all the pain they are feeling. Some people treat alcohol as an escape from the grief they are
Additionally, like many other drug abusers, alcoholics often drink hoping to "drown' anxious or depressed feelings. Some alcoholics drink to reduce strong inhibitions or guilt about expressing negative feelings.
In the United States alone the drinking patterns throughout history have changed dramatically to reflect the times. Starting out in colonial times the usage of alcohol use was seen as a blessing, and harmless to society. It was acceptable to drink while at work, and during social events, however drinking alone was highly frowned upon. Many early religions believed that alcohol was a gift from God, “man should partake of God’s gift with out wasting or abusing it”#. To enhance and encourage the social