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Linda Patan Poem the Marks

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Tuohy 1 Mikki Tuohy ENG 390 Dr. Buttram December 12, 2008

Grading Feminist Theory
The poem “Marks” by Linda Pastan is a short piece that focuses on a housewife’s duties being graded by her family as if it were her homework. The wife is graded by her husband, son and daughter using different three grading systems, each time being told that she could do better, but ends by saying that the family should “Wait ‘til they learn / I’m dropping out” (10-11). In an interview on “The Newshour with Jim Lehrer” with Jeffrey Brown in 2003, Pastan said that “I think I 've always been interested in the dangers that are under the surface, but seems like simple, ordinary domestic life. It may seem like smooth surfaces, but there are tensions and …show more content…

The speaker in this poem, who is the mother and wife, performs the duties that are seen to be her job; she cooks, irons, pleases her husband, and mothers her children. These gender roles tend to “cast men as rational, strong, protective, and decisive; they cast women as emotional (irrational), weak, nurturing, and submissive” (Tyson 85). The speaker is certainly viewed by her family as nurturing and submissive. She listens to what her family wants and she gives it to them. When she fails to do something, such as the “incomplete [I receive] for my ironing” (3), she disappoints her family. Her son tells her that she has room to improve in her job of mothering. This shows the male power that exists in society. Male power includes the “power of men…to command or exploit [women’s] labor to control their produce—[by means of the institution of marriage and motherhood as unpaid production]” (Rich 1765-1766). Some men enter into a marriage in order to obtain a housekeeper and nanny. The speaker in this poem has played these roles because that is what a feminine woman is supposed to do.

Tuohy 4 This poem seeks to identify how society defines femininity and why we should change it. In this poem, the rest of the family, the husband, son, and daughter, describe being feminine as the speaker taking care of her family and doing it as well as she can. Because the speaker is a woman, she has to selflessly slave away

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