Marriage is a sensitive relationship. It can be affected by anything and specially the long term decision. Jim and Lisa Jones have to make a serious decision that may affect their relationship for a long term. Jim works 45 hours per week and earns about 60,000$ per year. Maria works about 60 hours and earns 105,000$ per year. They pay about 3,500$ for their mortgage and about 1050$ for a child care for their son Jason. Lisa has been offered a job in Atlanta city and they are having a hard time to make that decision.
Here is some scenarios about what might happen with the Jones family.
• The first scenario:
Lisa wanted to turn down the offer, because she wanted less responsibilities and she wanted to spend more time with her son. But
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She even noticed that her son started to grow away from her and they are not close. Her life began to be unstable and unhappy. She even created a gap between her and Jim and it was really uncomfortable. Jim noticed that about her and got her to talk with him about her problems. Jim was really understanding that he put a lot more pressure on her. They felt comfortable with talking to each other and decided that Lisa will take a break from working to relax and to take care of Jason. Meanwhile, Jim got a job offer where he can work the same hours per week, and gets a salary of 105,000$ per year. Lisa took her time to relax and got so much closer with Jim and Jason. The finical situation for the family was good, because they don’t have any mortgage payments left. After one year, they had Maria and expanded the family. Lisa felt really comfortable about their situation and took two more years of to take care of Maria. After that, Jim and Lisa started to think more about their future and the kid’s colleges. Lisa applied for many part-time jobs where she can work, earn and also take care of her family. She got a new part-time job, they started to save for the college for both kids and also for their retirement. After 25 years, Jason was about to get married. Maria was in college. Jim and Lisa has a really good retirement savings and they are about to retire and start a new project together. Their life has been just great since they decided to
God created marriage as a union between man and woman. A woman, while still having a mind of her own and control over her own life, is under the authority of her husband. This frightens some women, who fear oppression at the hands of their husbands. While it is true that some men abuse the system that God set up for man and woman, not all men act as such. The Bible states monogamy is what God laid down as a foundational law of marriage,
As Oekeke awoke, he shifted in his bed with a pain coming from his chest. It wasn’t a pain that made you clench up and scream, he knew from that moment something was very wrong. He tried to open his at last, from when he awoke his eyes were still weary but it seemed as though he was stuck in time. His heart pumped faster and his mind was propelling from left to right to across the back and back. All he could think of was his family, but with such confusion he could hardly focus on the realty of his situation. It was a sensation he’d never felt ever before, and as he saw his life flash by him he knew the only thing he could do was to wait it out. The old man finally grasped control of his life covered in sweat and disorientation. He asked
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Lisa Hudson is a female African American medical doctor and she makes six figures a year. She owns her own condo and lives by herself. She is single and does not have any children. At the moment, she is estranged from her family due to being molested by her step-father whom her mother is still married to. She has been diagnosed by her psychiatrist with major depression and she occasionally attempts suicide at least once a year; by drug overdose. Lisa Hudson had a one-time sexual relationship with her best friend’s former love interest, David Paulk. Her best friend is Mary Jane Paul, a local television news anchor woman. Lisa has not spoken to Mary Jane in over a year because of this secret about her and David that she is trying so desperately to hide. But she is finding out that the longer she keeps this bottled up the harder it is for her to deal with everyday life. The problems Lisa Hudson is seeking
Rachel Johnson is a 39 year old female with 3 children, ages Alissa 20, Calvin 13 and Jordan 8 year old. Calvin and Jordan live with their mother in a two bedroom apartment. However, Jordan and Calvin have their room whereas, Rachel sleeps on the couch. This proves problematic, especially when Jordan and Calvin’s father who is unstable comes to live with them, which is against the rules of the lease. Rachel is in need of a 3 bedroom apartment or house. James does not provide Rachel with a steady child support. Rachel has a full time job making $11 an hour, which is not enough to make ends meet and has no health insurance. Her work hours are also a problem in that the kids are often left unsupervised. Calvin is struggling in school, but
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Her father won’t accept the fact that Lisa’s in love with a man who doesn’t have much
She is beginning to lose her car and house because of how much the divorce is costing her, and decided to give her children one last good christmas instead of paying the car payment. She gets food from food pantries, borrows money from friends, and gets up to $15,000 in debt. Mary's work place gets bought out and some of the staff is let go or quits; they had to hire new people which means Mary gets even less money than she was making before. After almost losing everything, she meets someone who helps her turn her life around and help her get into a computer college course so she can get new skills and get a better paying job to support her family if everything goes sideways again. Jean is also from New Jersey, she works as a CNA (certified nursing assistant). She is supporting three of her children including her daughter Bridget, who has cancer, and two of the four kids Bridget has. Jean makes the maximum wage that the nursing home allows her to make which is $11 an hour; her work does not include health insurance so when Bridgets medical bills for her cancer treatment start coming in, Jean has a hard time trying to pay those bills and the house
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Both Sophocles and Henrik Ibsen have spun tales of marriage with deep complexities woven in. Each having crucial elements that are veiled from a spouse. Sophocles Oedipus the King and Ibsen’s A Doll’s House provide readers with similar elements in the two plays. Oedipus the King and A Doll’s House demonstrate a strong example of dramatic irony, providing the reader with a more detailed and comprehensive look into the characters and situations, more than some know themselves. Attention will be focused on these two pieces addressing the comparison and similarities of these marriages, and what they entail. Specifically common shared elements including, honesty and truth, naivety, parental effects on a characters psyche, and the final outcome of each relationship.
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