Measuring Personal Happiness: A Small But, a Comprehensive Guide
By Vaishnavi S | Submitted On June 10, 2012
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Expert Author Vaishnavi S
There is no specific measuring scale. For a child, a toy brings immense happiness, a surprising kiss from her child does the magic for a mother, and excelling grade will do for a father, a hug for a lone neighbor, a winning score for a frenetic fan, a spring morning or smell of wet sand for a jogger. Different things bring happiness to different people. But, most of these are ephemeral.
There are also lots of tests and quizzes that measure happiness. But, most of them stop with the point of measuring. They neither help nor provide feedbacks to improve your state of mind. Lots of tests and quizzes are general and evaluate your choices based on multiple choice questions which range from mundane activities to question on your future plans like '25 years from now '. But, these quizzes don 't help much as the result you get most of the time will be 'moderately happy '. Do you think spending 5-10 minutes taking these quizzes is going to help you find whether you are happy or not?
No, in a broader sense they won 't.
Lazy fall days, colorful leaves, cooler weather, birds singing, frogs croaking, crickets chirping, relaxing to the sounds of the outdoors. Waves of water crashing upon each other, fishing, telling stories around a campfire, making s’mores, memories with family and friends; this is what happiness is to me. Happiness is in the eye of the beholder, what brings happiness to one person may not bring happiness to another person. When I think of the word happiness, I think of descriptive words like Contentment, enjoyment, satisfaction, delightfulness, something that makes a person smile. I have always looked at the word happiness as a feeling, an action, never have I thought of happiness as an overall affect. However, it is a proven fact, that happiness can affect the over-all health and longevity of human life. Happy people live longer than those that are lonely, stressed, or depressed.
From the perspective of positive psychology, there is a well-being formula invested by Martin Seligman to achieve a higher well-being. Martin Seligman (2010) defined as happiness: H (to maintain the length of happiness) = S (happy range breadth) + V (you can control the factors) + C (your living environment). Happy length: the distinction between "temporary" happy and "persistent" happy. Temporary happiness can be achieved by food, comedy, bunch of flowers. While the persistence of happiness is mainly affected by genetic, and this genetic trait can be changed. The breadth of happiness: psychologists think that we are born with a happy constant point, like a thermometer. If there is a happier thing, even if we are upset, it will be dedicated
Although there are a number of different nuances and qualifications for this particular term, happiness actually can be defined. In fact, it usually helps to best define happiness in terms of what it is and what it is not. Happiness is certainly a state of fluctuation there is no consistent, prolonged state of felicity. If so, it then becomes normal, the normal becomes boring, and the result a sort of benign content becomes a bland, meaningless state devoid of any significant stimulus. Instead, what is needed for happiness is the vicissitudes of life. Were there no unhappiness, there could not be happiness. Happiness, therefore, is a function of rebounding from and considering the unhappiness that is a potential for virtually almost everyone, although the unhappiness for a particular individual is most relevant to him or her. With that in mind one of the most essential qualities regarding happiness is the fact that it is extremely relative, much like motion, and is best defined as the feeling of satisfaction (ideally punctuated by elation) one gets after achievement or averting the negative vicissitudes on might have encountered.
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It depends how one spends their money to determine happiness. Some say that money cannot buy happiness because it is only temporary. “Time is money” is a common claim, but looking at life with that perspective
I took Subjective Happiness Scale and scored 3.5, which is in a middle of the continuum. It was a preliminary estimate of my set point. After retaking this test about a month later, I scored 4. The birth of my second daughter made me happier. The highest score on the scale is 7 and the lowest is 1. My friend received 3.25. Good news that despite the score, everyone can become happier.
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But, a lot of people can find this question difficult to answer due to the fact that there are quite a few things that factor into one’s level of happiness. In Jonathan Haidt’s, The Happiness Hypothesis, Haidt introduces the “happiness formula”, H=S+C+V, that psychologists Sonja Lyubomirsky, Ken Sheldon, and David Schkade created that contains the three main factors in one’s happiness. This formula determines the level of happiness I actually experience in my life through my biological set
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Happiness is a result that we deserved, furthermore, it becomes a motivation for us to keep trying and getting success in life.
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It is certainly difficult to define happiness, because people have different perceptions about this abstract concept. In my opinion, various factors are considered crucial in the pursuit of a happy life. (Great!)
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