Mistake # 11: I Have Nothing To Hide

There is not one person on this planet that has not, at one point in their life, been judged unfairly; and even though many of us want to believe that we don't, we, personally, do our own fair share of judging others just as unfairly.

Just imagine, imagine if you were in my shoes right now, how do you feel? Because I can tell you I still feel nervous and that I'm being judged but I’m not the only person. Just think about all those others with anxiety around the world today right now, they don't just think about putting themselves down, they think about death.

Being judged doesn’t bother Louviere at all and he welcomes people that want to have a conversation about his beliefs to just come talk to him. “It’s never affected what I’ve done or what I’ve said or who I’ve been,” he said. “If those people that are judging me want to come talk to me about it and ask me why, tell me what they think and hear what I think, then by all means come do it.”

The professor said everyone has experienced judgment and everyone knows how it feels like and no one wants to pass those feelings of being judged to other human beings. I agree with this point, because I also mentioned this at the last reading response. I believe no one wants to pass those feelings, because they have experienced it.

In today’s society, there are numerous amounts of people who will judge you negatively by your looks or cover. “Who we are… who we truly are… arrived on earth with everything we need for our life journey. We came complete… whole… there was nothing wrong with us from day one. And, nothing we can do can change that” (Lambert, 2014). We all came into this world being unique and different from others. It’s being able to accept yourself that makes you different from others. People who judge you will try to make you think that you’re not good enough. Their judgment would not even matter if you have learned to accept you for who you

“I don’t want you to get the wrong idea of me from all these stories you hear,” more likely than not, we’ve all felt this way before. Being pre judged often happens today in our society just based on the clothes people wear, the car they drive, or the people they hang out with and these are just as a few of the many examples. “ I have known the eyes already, known them all.” We often get judged before we even have the chance to make an impression on people, we’ve all seen it happen, or maybe we’ve even been the ones doing it.

There are many people who try invalidate others. Carter states that many of these judgmental bully and harass you about your faults. Once they find something that bothers the person they bully them until they feel small. These judgers want nothing but to make people feel insecure and have theem under their thumb. When i was younger in middle school, I often times was made fun of because my weight and because of my friends. These people who bullied me came from rough households, one of them i had even grown up with. But once the got older they started to hang out with people who bullied to make others feel worse. For a while i was told to tuff it out by my parents and by adults. They said I needed to just brush it

Judgment from society is a major contributor in mental stabilization. It is easy to listen to other’s opinions if you are not mentally strong. In Axis, Grace lets judgment from her boyfriend get to her. She is strong about remaining a virgin with her boyfriend, Royce, until he has dinner with her family: “In the lane he tried putting his arm around Grace, but the embrace was awkward,

It’s human nature to compare ourselves to others, whether it’s to our family members, peers or even celebrities we see in the media. We base our judgments of ourselves and others on these comparisons. Judging others, sometimes

Judging the Unknown Have you ever felt judged upon the way you act, but not on who you are? A suitable quote on this is, “What you don’t know won't hurt you. Always put yourself on the shoes of others the world is round.” ~ Rheji Dela Cruz.

We should not judge people in a way we wouldn’t like to be judged because most of the time we judge or citizen without knowing the best. For example, a teacher who is strict towards the students does not necessarily mean that he or she is an evil person. What we see it's not always what it really is, things are not always clear as water. Sometimes we might see people who give a bad impression, by the way they dress, or the way they look and we poorly judge on what it’s in front of our eyes. In the contrary, there are other people who believe that our judgment should only be based on the actions and will judge just based on that no matter what. Some even say actions speak more than words because for them what they see the first time is what they believe in. Like mentioned before, we do not know the reasons or circumstances that lead people to do certain actions. We need to put ourselves in their place and see things from their perspective. We should first rely on the reasons behind those actions. That is why I recommend to not judge the first or second time, but until we understand the reasons or circumstance about those

I have judged people in the past before, it was when I lived back in Maine. It was the first day of 7th grade and the first day at the high school for 7th graders. My friends and I were standing outside in the back area of the school, just standing around talking about what happened over the summer. Then, the group of girls walked outside the doors and all just huddled up around each other talking and looking at everybody else who was outside. I knew some of the girls there, I used to be friends with them, but then school ends, summer starts and people go their separate ways. As soon as I saw the group of girls, I immediately assumed that they were going to be the popular clique and judge basically everybody at the school. I also assumed that

As Alice walked down the halls of her new school, she could hear her new peers judging her. “She’s a blonde, she must be super dumb.” she heard a student whisper to his friends. “Shouldn’t she be thinner? She is a girl, after all.” Alice kept her head down as she walked to her locker. “She probably isn’t athletic either.” Whispers filled the hall as she opened her new locker. These people didn’t even know anything about her, and they were already judging her. The exact same thing happened at her old school at first, but she was younger and more confident. Alice expected to be judged, but she hoped that she could prove them wrong as the school year progressed.

Judging is something everyone does. A judgment is usually a bad idea or thought you have but sometimes it can be a good judgment. Tessa from the “Bad Boy’s Girl,” was surrounded by a lot of judgment from other peers and Tessa was judging herself. Tessa always had bad thoughts and ideas about her boyfriend, Cole. Cole used to bully Tessa because he liked her and that was the only way that he could get

“To avoid criticism, say nothing, do nothing, be nothing”, (Aristotle). In other words, for as long as you exist in a world like ours, criticism is an unavoidable matter. Why do we hate being judged by others? It goes without saying that nobody likes to be judged. Yet, we all constantly make snap judgements of each other. It’s an automatic human nature to criticize other people. It thought to be a survival mechanism; We cannot function properly without making judgements. A person would feel immobilized if they were unable to criticize others for whatsoever. Although, we all like to believe that we’re not judgmental people, however, when someone points out that we are judgmental, we feel hurt and offended. In the book “How to Enjoy Your Life