My Childhood Friends versus My High School Friends
Comparing my friends in high school to my friends as a child, I notice numerous similarities, however, there are many differences as well. My childhood friends were outgoing and considered new challenges an adventure. My friends in high school are outgoing and their adventurous qualities remind me of my childhood friends. My friends as a child were troublemakers, we always created a hectic environment wherever we went. My current group of friends are even wilder and create more trouble than my friends from childhood, although in different ways. Growing up, I could rely on my friends for help with homework, helping solve my issues at home, or just being there and having a good time. My
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Since my friends and I shared numerous qualities, enjoyed the same games, and enjoyed living life, we began forming an inseparable bond. Growing up, many of my friends would stay at my house because of problems at home, creating a sense of trust between us. The friends made during childhood are crucial in development, " They’re the type of relationships that last longer than any others we have because they’re formed during a time where we’re really seeking attachment.” (Holmes Par 3). The friends I made as a child molded me into the person I am today, their humor, sense of adventure, and trust created a bond between us, lasting to this day.
As I moved along through the torturous years of life, known as Middle School, I became eager to attend Menard for high school. My first day of high school was a mixture of uncertainty and a feeling of excitement as I knew of the exciting life high school brings. I knew the majority of people at Menard because many of them attended elementary school with me, but I sensed a distant feeling between me and my classmates. As the day progressed, I found a few of my childhood friends but found a different group of friends who I felt comfortable around. I noticed numerous similarities between my childhood friends and my high school friends but I also noticed the differences. My friends and I
early strong attachment and family warmth enabled me to establish and maintain a number of close friendships with others.
As they progress and go onto the next stage they put more importance on loyalty and commitment to each other. The third stage, however the importance is with parallel interests and comparable values in attitudes. This shows that as the children get older their friendships become more intricate.
As a child, I felt that having friends was the most significant cause in who I am today. Throughout my life I have had many friends who have influenced me in numerous ways, but now most of them have become distant acquaintances. Although the majority
Before I came to Baker Middle School, I attended elementary school in Laytonsville. I had a group of friends that consisted of five people, Olivia Fink, Olivia Pallas, Mason LeBlanc, Kody Johnson, and Stefan Jacob. The Olivia’s both attend this school alongside me, but sadly the other three attends a different school. I became friends with those three because we all had common interests in multiple categories such as cartoons and humor. I still keep in touch with them, but I know we aren’t as close as we used to be. With the Olivia’s we all became best friends in the first week of Kindergarten and we still have been by each other’s side since. We became friends because we all sat next to each other on our little chairs, and talked about anything
Entering high school from your nearby middle school, there’s going to be a handful of people. There’s going to be the ones you are confident you’re going to talk, laugh, and continue to make memories with, the ones you doubt you’ll ever speak to, and ones you have yet to ever meet. Something I learned quickly, is that there’s so many people and your connections with them change constantly and they can change you.
Junior year was the year that I was elected at Konawaena High School's Student Body Corresponding Secretary and the junior class Vice President. With these two major responsibilities, I found it difficult to balance the duties of an officer, school assignments, and having a job. I found myself prioritizing my roles as an officer over my school work, which you can only imagine did not work out so well. Throughout the school year I realized that I almost became a zealot about student activities, and this is where things in my social life went wrong, or so I thought. Friends of mine since the very beginning starred to become nothing but familiar faces, and soon enough, nothing but memories. I then began looking at the priorities of my "friends" and the priorities that I had for myself. They did not seem to match up. I soon found myself with a new group of people on
The school year approached its end. Another summer to spend alone by myself. The cycle had been repeating since I was in grade school. Sadness choked me as I returned home and shut my door. Every year, the resolution was the same: I would try to make friends next year; however, every year, I felt myself falling back down into the same trap. By the time high school began, I no longer felt the numb sensation of sadness or the flow of tears as the final day of May became the last day I talked with my “friends.” I no longer expected to make any friends, or, more accurately, I no longer expected to be able to make any friends. The sheer possibility of befriending an individual appeared to me as foreign as speaking in latin. When I walked into school, what should have been a site of chatter, opportunity, and growth appeared to me as a form of imprisonment and torture; however, unbeknownst to me, I did have friends; something of which I did not recognize until years passed by. I grown attached to certain conversations; there were times where I felt the need to initiate a conversation rather than waiting for someone else to make one. It was not until one of my friends told me,”We’re your friends aren’t we?” when I realized I was not longer
My sense of belonging at Marquette High has changed drastically throughout my four years here. I spent the majority of my freshman year getting to know as many people as I possibly could and I bounced between several friend groups throughout the year. However, I completely cut off ties with middle school friends and never spoke with them. I believed that Marquette was a new chapter in my life and chose to forget about my time in middle school, but this choice came back to bite me my first summer as a high schooler. I realized that I never invested my time in anyone else, and found myself knowing hundreds of kids without having any real friends. This made my summer extremely sad and boring, and while I wanted to leave, my parents pushed me towards another year at Marquette. I
I had never enjoyed school much through the years, and it’s not because of the learning, that’s what I loved about it. I just found myself to loathe the social end of it, as I had went through troubles with that. I had eventually had to seclude myself from most people. But as I came to college, expecting the worse in result getting the best. It has been an experience so far and can clearly see a difference, my attitude towards everything has changed. Before it had felt like I had no friends, but now I feel like I definitely do. High school felt like it was very close-knit, everyone was in everyone's business; it was a little community of its own within a small or medium sized building. At a college community there is just too much going on and it’s not all about what Sally did or what George did, or what they did together. There may be things said and all among somewhere in there, but it honestly does not even matter. Perhaps I am not quite hitting it on the nose of what’s the difference but the feeling is a whole new one and it’s the best kind of change I can find. Although there are still some that stir up the drama that is high school and trivial that could be avoided. Everyone wants to stray away from. The whole experience though, has made me think that maybe life isn’t just like high school despite what the popular saying is, ‘you never get
Various people refer to a friendship as a violin. The music may stop every now and then, but most importantly, the strings last forever. A friendship may have its ups and downs, but a true friendship should never perish. John Steinbeck’s Of Mice and Men illustrates the importance of a close friendship, and the dependability that comes along with that relationship. Thomas Aquinas, an Italian philosophers, wisely said, “There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than a true friendship” (Aquinas).
Starting in sixth grade I began attending a college prep school for snobby rich kids and talented athletes on scholarships. Middle school was kind of a blur. I didn’t have a set group of friends, I just kind of wandered from group to group. I didn’t go out much, usually just to the high school sports games, which sucked because the high schoolers sit in front and the sixth graders have to sit at the very back. It was around eighth grade that I found a solid friend group that stuck around for a while: Matt Farroll, Grant Washburn, Jonathan “the Russian Rocket” Bokel, and Patrick Gallagher.
Everyone started to make new friends, but I did not know a single person in my class. My old friends started hanging out with others and behaved in a different way. My friends used to be nerds, nevertheless, they acted cool and dumb just like Susan did. The first day of high school they wore a mini skirt and so much makeup that I couldn’t even identify them in the first few minutes. I used to hang out with them at the beginning of freshmen year, but since their behavior changes increased each day.
Although people generate a separate profile for each individual they meet, sometimes the profiles are incredibly different. In high school everyone befriends many persons of different races, personalities, as well as social groups, yet we tend to befriend remarkably similar individuals. Rarely do we realize, some people are actually more different than we know. Freshman year, I entered into a world all different than what I was used to, but yet I made two amazing friends. Jessica and Amber both loved school, friends, and doing art outside of school. Although between them are many differences, but a few stand out from the others. College and work ethic, their personalities, and talents differ greatly.
For as long as I can remember I’ve had the same group of friends, but coming into high school I met a lot of new people. I met some of my best friends here and my boyfriend.I’ve reached out to a lot of different people I didn’t really expect to be friends with. I learned that you really can’t judge a book by a cover and that probably sounds cliche, but some of the people I thought I’d never get along with became some of my really good friends.
I’ve been in school for 13 years of my life ,i grew up with most of the same kids; We were a huge family almost, everyone always looked out for eachother. I was participating in a lot activities. Since the beginning of freshman year, I participated 3 years of color guard, i met new people with the same interest as me. Almost every friday we had a football game and Saturday's was our competition days; we all bonded as a section when we all got ready and did each others makeup. Then,