My Father's Heart Attack
In March of 1998, my father was rushed to the hospital because of a heart attack. I remember getting home from basketball practice without my mother home. Instead, my sister was there with her children. The fact that my sister was there was familiar to me, but something did not seem right. My sister stayed with me and did not tell me what happened. Later that night, after my sister left, the news that followed would prepare me to encounter the most defining moment of my life.
She told me that mom needed to tell me something. She proceeded to tell me that my father had had a heart attack and that I had a choice to come down to the hospital or not to come. She told me it was a scary sight, and if I didn?t
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She told me everything at that moment. She told me that my father was playing racquetball with his good friend at the gym and he started getting pain in his arm. The pain in his arm extended into his chest and he collapsed. The paramedics came and took him to the ER. My father now had been diagnosed with 98% clogged arteries, which basically meant he was very close to death. This also meant that something needed to be done immediately. My father would need to have open heart surgery.
Once my mother stopped explaining everything to me, I can remember my heart sitting in the pit of my stomach. I felt as if I could hardly breathe. I strained to pull a calming breath of air into my lungs and walked into the room that my father was in. There were so many tubes coming out of him. It killed me to see him in so much pain. I walked in and his eyes filled with tears when he saw me. He told me to come over to him. I walked slowly up to him with fear, not for him, but for everything that was happening. He whispered to me that he loved me so much. Those words meant so much to me, especially during a time that was so crucial.
The following days were spent preparing for the surgery. He had open heart surgery that same week. I remember sitting in the waiting room with people that surrounded us with their love and prayers. I remember praying for my daddy for the entire duration of the surgery. I felt there was nothing else that I could do but pray.
On January 3, 2009 around 11:00 PM the phone rang with what I thought was exciting news about my newly born sister, Tristyn ,but quickly turned to horror. I could heard the fright in my dad's shaken voice as he told me Tristyn had to go into immediate heart surgery because she needed a stent to open up the blood flow to her heart. Being eight at the time the only thing I could think about was how she might not make it. My dad said to me “look after your sisters, and tell them nothing about the surgery”, which terrified me more than before. I knew I needed to be brave and take charge of the situations for my sisters. Bravery is something I learned for a situation I never knew would happen.
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We all got into the car and immediately my sister was bombarded with questions. “Is he ok?”, “What happened?”, “Who is with him?” She answered each one to the best of her knowledge. She told us that his heart had stopped and started back up again, and that Mama (my Mom) and Papa (my Dad) were at the hospital with him. The car ride there was a very scary ride, because we were all so frightened by what had happened.