Nasir responded well to the intervention. Nasir is making progress towards his goals. Nasir stated that he is journaling his feelings when he gets upset at his mom or brothers. Nasir stated that he is using coping skills to deal with how he responds to anger situations at home. Nasir stated, losing privileges, not be able to hang out with his friends, cell phone being taken away and being hit. Nasir stated, he reacted violent and abusive to his mom when she yelled at him for cleaning his room. Nasir stated that he throws things, made negative remarks, used profanity and got in his mother face. Nasir stated that he wanted to hit his mom but his older brother intervened and stop him. Nasir stated, use profanity, make treats, yells screams,
Parents come home from a long day at work tired and agitated. When agitation gets the best of them, anything a child may do could possibly send them over the edge. A child may be loquacious and that makes their parent/guardian upset. Instead of being pragmatic towards the child, the parent takes all of the stress from work out on the child. Even though the parent may not mean anything of the words being said, they still affect the child. After the parent is able to calm down and realize yelling isn’t the answer, they talk to their child. Parents apologize for what they did and say they overreacted. Sometimes a parent feels compunction for yelling at their child and will bribe them with a toy or food to make them feel better. To conclude, each and every parent is able to relate to yelling at their children when they don’t deserve
One night, the father struck the boy, and for the first time, he explained his reasoning for striking him. The father had struck the boy in the past without explanation, this is a well-implemented example of how the boy is mistreated by his
Quadir responded well to the intervention. Quadir continues to make progress towards his goals. Quadir stated, being able to control feelings actions and behavior and thinking before doing something. Quadir stated, being tease, being pressured, feeling fearful and anger. Quadir stated, using profanity, fighting, being abusive, stealing, yelling, and behaving impulsive. Quadir stated, harming self, hurting someone, whishing bad for someone, and refusing to do things. Quadir complete the worksheet. Quadir stated, that emotions is a feelings a person gets. Quadir stated, frustration, fear sadness happiness, and disgust. Quadir stated, that when he act up at school his mom gets angry at him, and would punish him for his behavior or make him apologist
Quadir responded well to the intervention. Quadir continues to make progress towards his goals. Quadir responded yes. Quadir explained a recent conflict situation at his school, in which a student stab another student with a pencil. Quadir stated that he has never got violent during a conflict situation, however he admitted to making violent threats when he is angry. Quadir explained the recent conflict situation, in which he was hospitalized. Quadir stated, being called out of his name, being teased, being yelled at, and being touch. Quadir stated, fighting another person causing them harm. Quadir stated, that thinking that all adults do not listen to children, and he cannot trust an adult when he has a problem. Quadir, stated, fighting,
Nasir responded well to the intervention. Nasir stated, his mom yelling at him, his mom punishing him, being embarrassment, losing privileges, being teased and being disappointed. Nasir stated, stated that his mom yelled at him because he did not make up his bed and she hit him first and he punch he back in her face. Nasir stated that he know that hitting his mom is not right, but his mom mad him very upset by hitting him first. Nasir stated that he screamed yelled throw thing and left the house. Nasir stated, what to be left alone, wanting to run away, I am fed-up of the situation, and everyone is making me mad. Nasir stated five time. Nasir stated, being treated poorly, being yelled at, and his mom talking badly about him. Nasir completed
Quadir responded to well to the intervention. Quadir continues to make very good progress towards his goals. Quadir stated, that he is able to manage his anger much better, and he is getting along better at school and with his mom. Quadir stated that so far this year he has not gotten into any anger situation at home and at school. Quadir stated that he is using anger management skills when he get upset at home and at school. Quadir stated that he has learned that being able to manage his anger help him to get through difficult situation at school with some of his peers who was teasing him and calling him out of his name. Quadir stated that he would ignored some of the situation or complain to a teacher about situate he find difficult to handle
Ms. Cortes had one balloon for the youngest child Jordan which made Nicholas and Messiah upset, because they wanted to play with it. Ms. Cortes asked the boys to share, but Nicholas did not want to share. He began to slam doors. Ms. Cortes asked him to stop slamming the doors, but he did not. She then gave him a warning. Be he continued to slam doors. She put him in timeout and he continuously got up. This was very difficult for Ms. Cortes to deal with because she was cooking dinner. When I saw her getting angry or losing her control, I pulled her to the side and I had her take a few deep breaths and get right back to it. After an hour of getting hit and bit she got him to sit in the time out chair for 2 minutes. Ms. Cortes told Nicholas to give her an apology and a kiss. He was then allowed to watch a movie with his brothers. Next, Messiah started to swear at his mother. She was firm and said, stop swearing or you’re going in the time out chair. He straightened right up. She was consistent and followed the steps on the discipline
Since last review Juwan has had several incident of aggressive behavior in the home. Jawana stated that he could not control the way in which he responded to the situations, however has apologized to his mom for his behavior outbursts at home and has regretted his behavior towards his mom. Juwan stated that he react impulsively and forget to use coping skills and techniques. Juwan was able to explain during sessions, how he could have handle conflict situations in a better way. Per mom, Juwan has difficult being compliant with the house rules and following through with task when give. Per mom, Juwan wants to do whatever he wants, and do not want to be corrected or repirmanded for his behavior. Per mom, Juwan is refusing to go to school on a
Nhakel Blaylock (6), 10-02, Kindergarten. He likes to play video games (Xbox) and watch TV. He knows the difference between the truth and a lie. He says he gets enough to eat. He eats pancake on stick, eggs and bacon. He said his mom makes food sometimes. He goes to his dads house to eat and his grandparents' house. His father's name is JR. His mom Ann, Leighann, Alice, and a friend (he does know his name, Alice, Ezereck. He goes to sleep at 8 o'clock. His mom makes him go to sleep. Sometimes he gets angry when he has to go to bed. When he gets angry he goes to the bathroom to calm down. He does not feel safe because Vell threw a rock and it hit Alice on the head. Nhakel pointed at his forehead. He said he was cry too. Vell was outside
Quadir responded well to the acuity. Quadir continues to make progress towards his goals. Quadir stated, fighting, hitting throwing things at someone, saying bad words, belittling someone and saying mean thing that hurts a person feelings. Quadir stated that he was violent toward his peer, when the person hit him first. Quadir stated that he get abusive toward other when he feel threatened, or the person say something demining towards him. Quadir stated that he is sometime abusive towards his mom, but he does not mean the things he says to her. Quadir stated, being threatened, being hit first, feeing afraid, being teased or provoked. Quadir stated, that sometime he make threats when he is upset and her does not mean the treats he make. Quadir
Amir is often threatened by Hassan which Hassan is oblivious to, resulting in Amir feeling jealous and misusing his authority over Hassan, ‘though I stopped reading those when I saw he was far better at solving them than I was’, implying that Amir can’t handle an ‘inferior’ person exceeding him in any way. This jealousy develops into abuse towards Hassan when Amir uses his intelligence to make a fool of Hassan who is illiterate, ‘”When it comes to words, Hassan is an imbecile.” “Aaah” he said, nodding’. However, Amir would then feel ‘guilty’ for this and would give him an old shirt or a broken toy, ‘I would tell myself that was amends enough for a harmless prank’ displaying Amir’s malicious behaviour towards Hassan.
It is common for parents and their children to have disagreements and to have arguments but sometimes these disagreements can turn into abuse. Children usually use violence to try to “control or bully them” (Parenting and Child Health, n.d.) This violence usually occurs when the child “frightens, threatens or physically hurts them. It can involve using abusive language, pushing, shoving, kicking, throwing things, or threatening with knives or other weapons” ((Parenting and Child Heathen’s.) Children may abuse their parents due to the normalization of that parent getting abused by the other parent within their household. The child may use the parent that abusing the other parent as a model for the way they should act towards their parent as well and justify their actions simply as something that they observed in their household. The violence that children commit against their parents affects that subsystem because it leaves it broken. There is a strain within the parent and child relationship that forms a direct result of constant conflict and abuse between the child and parent. Sometimes, in child-child relationships, an older sibling may become “more aggressive” with their younger sibling because of the abuse that they have witnessed and been exposed to. (Fantuzzo, Mohr, 1999) The children can become socialized by the parents to believe that
The impact that global politics has had on the individuals of the Middle Eastern region is highlighted in the life experiences of Naji, Nasir, and Ghada. Each person is looking for a better tomorrow, but that is not easy to find due to the difficulties that arise in the differences in religion, culture, and even gender. Naji endured the struggles of being Jewish, Nasir had to deal with being a young man with slim job opportunities, and Ghada had to deal with the struggles of being a woman. Although each faced a slightly different problem, the one thing they had in common was their fight to survive.
I wake up in a cold sweat, I can’t see anything. The room is pitch black. My back is sore from hours of lying on the rough stone floor. I try to sit up, but I stay stuck to the ground - I’m paralyzed. Where am I? What’s going on? Why am I unable to move? I scream, but no sound comes out.
Andrea’s friend’s suggestion of repeatedly punching a pillow, while imagining she is hitting her boyfriend for talking to his former girlfriend at the school dance, is not an effective way to reduce Andrea’s anger because it can lead to the development of unconscious anger towards her boyfriend. In her case, a better method to deal with her anger would be to first calm down and relax by practicing controlled breathing. Once Andrea’s temper has lowered, she should effectively communicate with her boyfriend about the situation. Andrea should vent out her emotions by informing her boyfriend that noticing him talking to his former girlfriend was upsetting, all while maintaining a calm and acceptable communicating voice. After talking to her boyfriend