This poem is a monolog and the poet is alone narrating the whole story as the speaker. The poem is about a man diagnosed with OCD who falls in love with a woman. The influence of this incident in the speaker’s life soon becomes evident as he says “The first time I saw her... Everything in my head went quiet. All the ticks, all the constantly refreshing images just disappeared.” Eventually, however, the woman starts ignoring what she used to love about the speaker’s behavior: “Some mornings I’d start kissing her goodbye but she’d just leave cause I was just making her late for work…” In the end, the woman decides that the speaker is “taking up too much of her time.” She leaves and starts “sleeping at her mother’s place”. The climax of the story …show more content…
There are certain arguments about the ending of the story, however. He shows his hopelessness when he says “I want her back so bad... I leave the door unlocked. I leave the lights on”. Some say the ending indicates the speaker’s hopefulness of returning his love because he wants her back “so bad” so he starts fighting OCD’s compulsive behavior: “I leave the door unlocked. I leave the lights on.” Others, on the other hand, indicate that OCD is an anxiety disorder where the diagnosed person cares too much about everything and this might lead to deep depression where they do not care about anything at all. Therefore the person diagnosed with OCD is constantly living and struggling with the thought of caring too much and not caring at all. Hilborn has beautifully shown this conflict with showing the last three lines together. According to Aristotle the utmost importance of a plot is in its ability to arouse emotions in the audience’s psyche. This open-ended closing leaves the audience thinking and deciding about speaker’s
In the analysis of the language used by the speaker, the nature of the poem is written from a professional standpoint using medical terminology, such as parts of the anatomy. Based on the speaker, it suggests that the poem could be written in support of gay pride due to the lack of shame that he described in the patient. The patient is projected as calm and collected throughout the poem and does not seem
From the first-time read through, the poem gives a basic understanding of the narrative: a daughter telling the audience about her mother’s struggles
mind. It suggest the poet see it as love or nothing and that he was
The second half of the poem begins with the speaker confessing that she spent all those nights in her
“My Husband Discovers Poetry”, by Diane Lockward is a very interesting piece of poetry that I have thoroughly enjoyed delving into. The idea behind the poem is that the writer felt angry and discouraged because her husband would never read her work, so essentially to get back at him she wrote a poem about cheating on him. She hid it away in the hopes that he would one day find and read it. This poem is Lockward telling the story of writing her poem, and what happens when her husband finally discovers it. The meaning of the poem is that we must support our loved ones.
The part of the movie that I found to be unrealistic was the end of the movie. The scene at the very end where he finally steps on a crack and doesn’t care that he didn’t step directly in the square was to me not true of people with OCD. I don’t feel that this disorder can necessarily be cured and particularly from just going on one date or a couple dates with someone you find attractive. This just seemed highly questionable to
This weariness with life is a symbol of schizoid suicide, which leads into withdrawal into death, into a ghostly world. In the unconscious, the narrator believes that the corruption of relationships through sexual contact brings nothingness. This again indicates the presence of a schizoid element in his mind. A person with a schizoid mind seeks isolation. Union with a woman will not take him into the path of separateness, so he buries the woman. Now he can be free. He is alone but alive. In the process, he is denouncing the "inferior" half of himself, the woman in him, the part that he fears may corrupt and make him diseased. He expresses the intolerable perplexity of woman as a focus of appearance and reality.
Speaker in the poem scold people that search for attention as well as at the same time describe them as monotonous. Poem move fast and it flow very
The author begins the poem of a man suffering from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. According to Medscape, obsessive compulsive disorder is defined as “ characterized by distressing, intrusive obsessive thoughts and/or
Essentially a monologue set within a frame, this poem creates two personae. The anonymous author gives a brief introduction and conclusion. The Wanderer, an aging warrior, who roams the world seeking shelter and aid. The Wanderer’s monologue divides into two distinct parts, the first being a lament for his exile and the loss of kin, friends, home, and the generosity of his king. In nature, he finds absolutely no comfort, for he has set sail on the winter stricken sea. Poignantly, the speaker dreams that he is among his companions, and embracing his king, only to awaken facing the gray, winter sea, and snowfall mingled with hail.
In the poem, the main character is a young girl, who seems to be unhappy with her father’s words towards women.
· In the first line of the poem, the speaker expresses her feelings towards men by using the word “Anger”(1). From just the
The poem begins with the narrator's describing the poem as a 'dream' that ''was not at all a dream'', which already causes doubt and tension within the reader. The narrator then goes on to talk about
A feeling of stickiness will begin to spread from the point of contamination and I will be lost in a place I do not want to go. So I wash until the feeling is gone, until the anxiety subsides. Then I feel defeated. So I do less and less, my world becomes smaller and smaller and more lonely by the day” (Healthy Place: OCD Community). The writer of this poem has a disease call Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). In OCD, it is as though the brain gets stuck on a particular thought or urge and just can't let go. OCD can persist
In both pieces she wishes to be detached from love and responsibility, yet as the poem progresses, she has a change of heart, almost an epiphany.