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Patience In Romeo And Juliet

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“A wise man does not try to hurry history. Many wars have been avoided by patience and many have been precipitated by reckless haste ” says Adlai Stevenson, a former UN Ambassador who had to work with people from many different backgrounds and get them to agree on sensitive topics. These enlightened words from Stevenson can easily relate to the love story of Romeo and Juliet, a story that tells the tale of two young teenagers who become lovestruck over one another the minute they lay their eyes upon one another. The young couple desperately wants to get married, but their feuding families, the Capulets and the Montagues, are in their way. Romeo and Juliet tragically decided to make extreme decisions in order to have a chance to be together …show more content…

The story expressed many big ideas from feuds to love, however, there were two that were the most prominent and impactful for me; patience and haste. To start off, one of the most noticeable examples that expresses the role of patience in the play is the passage “Let two more summers wither in their pride, Ere we may think her ripe to be a bride. Younger than she are happy mother made” (1.2.10-11). As illustrated in the above citation, Shakespeare is trying to teach the readers how Lord Capulet’s patience helped him make a favorable decision. He knows that it is greatest for her well being to wait for such a serious commitment as it was a tremendous responsibility. A similar event happened in my life when my parents knew that it would be best if I waited to get a dog that I had been wanting …show more content…

Either thou or I or both must go with him!” (3.1.133-134). The play makes clear that the death of Romeo’s best friend pushed him into letting haste control his actions, which led him to kill Tybalt. It illustrates how anytime a decision is made in a hasty manner, it will lead to worse outcome. In my past, I was in a friendship were I was enraged about some of the things that one of my friends was saying to me and my friends. I became impatient and didn’t want to try to work things out, which led me to ending the friendship. If I would have had more patience and tried to manage the problem, it may have prevented the awkwardness that still exists between us to this day and could have allowed the friendship to stay. Another example from the story that illustrated haste is the passage, “Thursday is near. Lay hand on heart. Advise. If you be mine, I’ll give you to my friend. If you be not, hang! Beg! Starve! Die in the streets!” (3.5.203-204). Shakespeare continues to present how the characters like Lord and Lady Capulet reacted with more rashness and how their rashness continued to negatively impact the outcome. Juliet’s parents thought it would be best for her well being to marry her off since she was upset about the death of her cousin Tybalt. They ended up pushing her into a situation she didn’t want to be in without consulting

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