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Perks Of Being A Wallflower Belonging Analysis

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“Just tell me how to be different in a way that makes sense.” These words from Charlie himself perfectly describes the difficulty, confusion, and uncertainty he has trying to fit into the society as a normal person. Many people have this thought engraved in their mind all throughout high school where they’re at the peak of their stressful transition. In comparison to Charlie, I also face this this though in my head as I am only a naive freshman just starting high school. This proves to show that the main conflict in “Perks of Being a Wallflower” is the struggle Charlie goes through to find his identity and true meaning in the world. In the story Charlie faces through difficulties. For example, throughout his journey in the series of letters, …show more content…

Although, he gradually obtains the thought of how he should not care so much about the opinions of others, as he only truly has himself in this monotonous-seeking society. He directly expresses his feelings by writing, “I remembered this one time that I never told anyone about. The time we were walking. Just the three of us. And I was in the middle. I don’t remember where and I don't remember when. I don't even remember the season. I just remember walking between them and feeling for the first time that I belonged somewhere.” This shows to explain how much he has felt like an outsider most of his life and how little respect and love he has received from anyone. It makes me infer that he actually forced himself to not explore and venture out from his comfort zone, now leaving him unprotected and inexperienced to heartbreaks and conflicts.
The “Perks of Being a Wallflower” has truly given me a whole new series of experiences and emotions I would never be able to become senseless to. Charlie had never profoundly cared to stick out, or find his identity. However, his desires to find his true self shows in this certain series of letters he has sent to an unknown person. We get to watch him become more pronounced and confidence in himself. I truly felt as if I could hear his cold, numbed heart slowly began to beat once again throughout the beautifully

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