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Personal Narrative: My Parents Coming To America

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I have had two different names growing up. My parents came to America at the turn of the new millennium with big dreams and hopes. Coming from a devout Jainist society, their perspectives towards life were very different; they believed in hard work and most of all nonviolence. I, on the other hand grew up in a sweet, small southern town on the tip of Florida. Life was all about going to the sandy beaches, chilling with pals, and just having a “good ole time”. When I was born my parents named me Archi, a prevalent name in Indian culture. But when my aunt who was born in the States, told them it was not “fit” for an American girl, they decided to change it to Dhruvi. For me, I always felt like I was struggling in the “best of both worlds”, because my parents put a great emphasis on Indian culture and Jainism, but I on the other hand was trying to fit in with my friends who were southern Christians. …show more content…

I always pondered as an little innocent girl: “Why didn’t I go to church?” and “Why did the Easter Bunny not come to my house?”. These thought always confused as my parents answers were always vague and never really satisfied my intrigued mind. Growing older, I started to see differences that were colliding between the two cultures that I was breathing in. One being my gender. Every southern girl loves sipping sweet tea on the sandy beach in bikinis with her favorite pals, however as a Indian girl, I had limits that were considered acceptable, wearing a bikini was not one of them. I had trouble convincing my mom to let me wear a bikini, but after often seeing that I was obeying the many other parts of her culture, she decided to open and made adjustments and

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