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Personal Narrative: Social Identity

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Social Identity. It is what makes us whole and what makes up ourselves in our mind and how we are perceived in public. It is “Through the process of self- categorization or identification, an identity is formed, (stets and burke, 224). Social identity is “a person’s knowledge that he or she belongs to a social category or group”(stets and burke, 224). Self- categorization is “the self is reflexive in that it can take itself as an object and can categorize, classify or name itself in particular ways in relation to other social categories or classifications” (stets and burke, 224). No person is only made up of one social identity. It can vary from person to person what is your social identities but there is generally a lot that you are actually …show more content…

Socially, people expect for things to be easier for you than it actually is. I am not saying that we have the hardest life as a whole, we definitely do not. But people just kind of assume that it is easy. As I am upper-middle class I am less likely to be looked down upon because I have a higher financial stability than most people and it helps me fit more into the mythical norm. The mythical norm is “white, middle-class, heterosexual, abled, thin, and a young-adult”(shawn and lee, 49). Key words here for me would be “looks like”. Being bisexual basically is the only thing I do not fit in that category. However, I am more likely to go to college(which I obvious am in college) than people in lower classes. Because of my class my opinion is more-likely to be heard and more likely for something to be done about it if it is something I want to change. Also I am more likely to get the newer products which are generally more set towards me anyway. Another social identity I am under is Female. Some disprivilege that go against me being a woman is that supposedly I cannot do as much or as well as a man, I am supposed to be fragile, weaker and not as smart. It feels like …show more content…

I am a white, middle-class and female which is generally the ideal image but I am bisexual which can knock me down an extra level. I am a smart individual but I have to deal with the fact that I am a female and options aren’t always open to me. I am a female athlete so I am “fit for a girl, “fast for a girl” or “strong for a girl” but never just strong or fast or agile. The only compliment that can come in that is that because of the fact that I am really flexible it is an actual compliment. Concerning my bisexuality and the fact that I am female I do tend to be more accepted than I would have if I were male. Since society is highly male dominated it is more accepting to be a bisexual female than it is to be a bisexual male. This is usually with the idea in mind that the bisexual female would sleep with both him the male and another female at the same time. However, for some people it just gives them reassurance that I could end up with a male. My main conflicts are that I am a white female. I may get the privileges of a white person but since I am female I also have a bunch be taken away. I may be able to see my race exemplified in media more often but most female roles are small and usually have to do with males(such as crushes, what they should do about their boyfriend etc.) and the ones that do have major roles generally have something “wrong” with the female that makes

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