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Personal Narrative: Where Are You From?

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Where are you from? Although a common icebreaker question, this is one I often hesitate to answer. I have never felt there was a clear-cut answer to this simple question. This question has always seemed to me to be asking more than just where is one born, but also asks who do you call family, where do you feel most comfortable, and what experiences have shaped you into the person you are today?
I am from an immigrant family. I am the first generation, the only one of my siblings, to have the privilege of having been born in United States of America. I am the youngest of four and the only one that has never had to worry about being deported or if I am learning English quickly enough to assimilate into my community. Everything that has seemed …show more content…

I lived in a two parent household until I was 11. I may have not known much at 11, but I knew my parent’s relationship was toxic. My mother has unintentionally demonstrated more characteristics I should avoid than behaviors I strive to emulate. My father taught me a difficult lesson about honesty and I watched as one person’s dishonesty ruined more relationships than I can count. My parents are not perfect, but they are the pair I was dealt and I have already learned many valuable lessons indirectly from observing their actions. I know that blood is not always thicker than water, and I know that just because someone shares blood with you that does not mean they automatically care about you. In a family, one should feel content and at peace. Instead, on one side of my family, I feel like a stranger watching a television show depicting another family’s life unfold before my eyes, while I stand at the door waiting to be invited to join the activities. Family does not have to always be someone who shares your blood, but someone with whom you choose to emotionally invest your time, effort and energy.
There is far more to everyone’s story than where you happen to be born. It is more about where one is from emotionally, where one feels at peace, where loved ones can be found and what experiences have shaped

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